today is my birthday.. i'm 33.. i've been doing this site for a minute now peeps.. i prob have a few thousand entries by now
anyway.. i asked my mom to make lasagna and spice cake so she did ... excellent food was shared i got money too and i am hoping to use it on clothes i am very blessed and thankful to the Lord for giving me another year and normalcy and stability what i did today was i went to the gym, then got groceries, then got an edge up, then i went to chill w/ my family.. took the day off at work so that was great also anyway peeps.. i think i'm gnna dip for now peaCe
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i want to talk about a notion i disagree with today i often hear people say that women are becoming masculinized and men are becoming feminized i disagree with the thought that men are becoming feminized i have been feeling this way for a while but today is the first time i'm sitting down to talk about it here's what i mean if you look at any article or video that says women are becoming men and men are becoming women, if you look at their examples, the women are the average everyday woman.. like she is straight, she is like a normal regular woman you would see at work or at school.. but her ideas and thoughts about life and men and relationships all make her a feminist aka masculinized however whenever you look at the examples of feminized men (and i really mean this- i challenge u to do research yourself) they are always pointing at gay men so they point out the average woman for evidence that women are masculinized but they only point out gay men for evidence that men are feminized this type of thing is actually evidence that women have become masculinized but men are still the same lesbians and gays have never counted in these types of studies because they want to be the opposite gender.. the only group that matters is straight people but you never see people saying "those straight men aren't men anymore because..............." like that's my whole point- straight men are still men.. they are not different from the 50s or feminized all the differences are women.. here are some of the differences between these days and yesteryear women are now promiscuous (men were always eager for sex, the difference today is that women are easy.. so marriage rates plummet and friends with benefits and flings skyrocket) women work and go to school and earn their own money (so these days they feel like they don't need men) a person might say "men don't put their foot down as much" i disagree with this also.. because for one- men have ALWAYS had a soft spot for a beautiful woman, the difference today is that women have cold black hearts.. so while in the 50s, if a man had patience toward his woman, he was doing his duty to love, and he was upholding his family... but today if a man has patience for a woman he is more than likely being taken advantage of by her....... but the fact is men always had to show women love and have patience for them as they are the weaker vessel.. its just that instead of appreciating it, women now just use it against men in the past a chivalrous man was a man to be sought after.. today a chivalrous man is a man with "sucker" written on his forehead i have said this before and that is.. in the garden of eden, the serpent went to eve to deceive her and then the choice came to adam its the same thing today.. women have been deceived by feminism and now men have to decide if we are going to uphold a moral code or cave to the current climate of whorish women with bad attitudes and black hearts in today's climate.. are you a happy man or a disgruntled man? i think this question is very telling these days what i've recently seen is that if you are a good man- things aren't exactly looking so great as far as prospects for wives today however if you are a "bad boy" things are looking amazing to you recently i've heard 3 men say there are plenty of fish in the sea and that there are many women to choose from i thought about it and i realized all three of them are "bad boys" in that they are not marriage minded, they like to have sex and be friends with benefits or side dudes or have sex with prostitutes.. also they accept women in any form or fashion one of the guys admitted to having sex with a prostitute, and currently his live in girlfriend has a kid by someone else (i don't want to marry a woman who has kids already) one guy recently had a one night stand with a girl he met from tinder in a matter of about 5 hours.. he is single and looking for friends with benefits "relationships" .. he also doesn't care if women are married or not the third guy was saying to me that he likes (to have sex with) young women, old women, fat women, skinny women, ugly women etc.. and he is currently married to a woman who has a kid with another man (and yes he is married now but he was banging women left and right prior to that- so i lump him in with the "bad boys" because of his bad boy behavior and mindstate) my point is.. if you are a man who just accepts women any type of way- then chances are you are happy in this climate and you feel that women are a dime a dozen however if you have standards.. like if you want a pretty woman of virtue.. then you are probably not happy with this current climate and you feel like good worthwhile women are few and far between anyway.. that was somewhat of a tangent... what i got on here to say originally is that i disagree with the notion that men have changed men are still men men are still the same, we have the same thoughts, temperaments, desires, and talents as our fathers and grandfathers the WOMEN have changed.. feminism and feminist ideals on tv and in the media and in colleges have changed WOMEN.. but men are the same.. men are still in military and army.. men are still engineers, men are still working 9 to 5s, men still desire women, men are still men when people say men have been feminized, they never have a real example outside of gay men.. like literally yesterday for example: i saw a woman on youtube.. she was saying women are masculinized which is true.. they think they are men today.. however when she went to give examples of men being feminized, (get this) her example was a white woman with a black son who is like 6yrs old and she lets him wear female clothing A. that's not a man B. his mom is responsible for that C. she adopted that child on her own, meaning WITHOUT A MAN D. even if that was a MAN, a man walking around in a dress is a gay man in what way have straight adult men changed? men are still men the only thing i will give these people is that men today watch porn which i feel is a destructive thing.. men should have more self control than to waste their seed and energy watching perversion.. myself included because i've watched it but i feel that it is immoral and disgusting and has consequences like lessening a man's interest in everyday women so i will wholeheartedly admit we men are wrong for watching that crap- mind you men didn't have access to porn in the 50s and 60s like they do today.. but regardless- men of today should display more character than to indulge in such filth but outside of that issue, the negative changes we've seen are in the women.. women of yesteryear looked up to men and respected men.. the difference is the women.... the men are still the same.. women no longer respect men or look up to men, women instead are taught to look down on men and say we have "toxic masculinity" or say we are "mansplaining" or say we are uneducated or dead beats, or "not on her level" or whatever btw.. when women say men are uneducated, part of my issue with that is- when women do actually find a man who is educated, they still don't respect him.. so who is really the problem? men or women anyway.. just something i wanted to get off my chest peaCe btw fact check me on this.. how are men no longer men? lol trust me peoples' examples only cite gay men.. straight men are still men and not feminized anyway.. for anyone who doesn't believe me.. peep this video below.. as you can see its a guy saying modern men are effeminate but if you listen you will see he gives no examples of what he's talking about.. it's such a joke a few entries back, i said i didn't like mgs5 and all it did was make me want to get the legacy collection which is pretty much every metal gear game from the first in 1987 up to metal gear solid 4: guns of the patriots well.. i bought it.. its only available on ps3 and i legit play ps3 just as much as i play ps4 (i typically keep ps4 in living room and ps3 in bedroom) i received the game from amazon today brand new and i'm definitely happy to have these games since they are pretty much all classics
again.. mgs5 phantom pain was just an impostor.. the lack of david hayter alone is evidence of that, even barring the rest of the flaws of that abomination one thing i want to say also is.. it pays these days not to get rid of your game system.. still having my ps3 has been great.. i like to use ps4 more because its faster and because the graphics are cleaner.. but ps3 still has some exclusives u can't play anywhere else and when i'm not playing games on it i can still obviously watch youtube, or crackle, or a blu-ray anyway.. i'm glad to have the legacy collection with the real mgs games! look at this profile i ran across on pof recently i can't make this stuff up
"if you don't know what enuendo is, your not the one for me" this is what i mean when i say women are not half as smart as they think they are and they end up telling on themselves here this girl is worried about a man's vocab when she herself doesn't know how to spell the very word she "challenges" men to know INNUENDO.. sound it out, moron.. INN-U-EN-DO INNUENDO the level of stupidity displayed here is mind boggling and the other issue is she improperly used "your" in that sentence... and see, here's the thing... NONE of this would stand out if she wasn't being so condescending and arrogant and high minded in her profile if she was being humble, these would just be mere typos.. but no, she is literally attempting to challenge men and say that we are so hapless uninformed that we are likely to be "beneath" her and her amazing cognitive ability to misspell and misuse words on command lol in doing this, she only exposes herself like.. women are SO ARROGANT these days but their arrogance is COMPLETELY, UTTERLY, 100,000% UNMERITED women have forgotten they are women.. u have women talking about how they can do anything a man can do, and they don't need men, and "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" and "i'm independent" and blah blah blah.. the list goes on..... but then they turn around and do or say something stupid, completely shattering their whole facade.. like they reveal (without help from anyone else) that their pride and pretension are a literal house of cards that can topple at the slightest hint of movement because they are not in any way, shape, or form based in reality i mean look at how arrogant this chick is.. "i can smell bs in new dehli.. i like to save my money blah blah i'm a moron and ur getting dumber from reading my profile blah blah i think i'm above you and that will make u want me because men love being talked down to by arrogant skanks such as myself" I REPEAT: I CANT MAKE THIS STUFF UP!!!!! you're insinuating that i don't know a word that YOU CANT EVEN SPELL!? well chick, i got news.. you can save that condescending attitude for the next time you find yourself in front of a mirror because guess what? WITHOUT QUESTION, YOU ARE THE IDIOT YOU PRETEND NOT TO BE NEXT TIME HOW ABOUT YOU PICK ONE... BE DUMB OR ARROGANT, NOT BOTH I’ve had some people tell me I’m bitter against women.. i want to talk about this
Ok there are a two diff ways to look at this
Which one do you all think it is? Also, does it matter which one it is? I feel like my issue is the second one The bible says men love your wives as Christ loves the church and wives submit to your husbands as unto the Lord You don’t see men walking around saying “I ain’t loving my girl, that’s from the 50s!” However you see women constantly rejecting their role and saying “I don’t know what submission is” or “it says submit, not be a doormat” (which is just her saying I will “submit” on my own terms.. which makes no sense) or they say “I will only submit if blank” which again- is not submission if you demand to get your way before you do it The list goes on.. they are too “independent” to submit.. or they have their own money so they “don’t need to” ..or they’ll have some story like “my aunt submitted and her husband beat her up for 30 yrs and then he left her” They have every excuse in the universe to not do what the Lord commands them to do For example: My ex used to say “I don’t have to submit because I’m not married yet” but if we are dating and you don’t show me that you can be wife material then why would I marry you? her statement was a justification for her to argue with everything I said. However, I never treated her that way- I never said: “since I’m not married to you- I’m not showing you any love.” I WAS DOING MY PART THE WHOLE TIME. This is essentially my issue with modern women. They want men to still be traditional and chivalrous and gentlemanly, but they don’t want to be who they are supposed to be. This is why my ex g/f told me multiple times I was the best boyfriend she ever had and that I did a lot for her but she was really just a big headache for me... because I DID MY PART BUT SHE DID NOT DO HERS. AGAIN: I DID MY PART BUT SHE DID NOT DO HERS So I’m supposed to let u argue with me every day and magically when we get married you’re going to stop right? You’re going to magically wake up and treat me the way a woman wants her son to be treated by a woman? You’re going to go from rolling your eyes to honoring and respecting me in one night right? That’s what I’m supposed to believe right? Give me a break. I needed her to show me she could be a wife but all I got was: “I’m not married so I don’t have to” Yet everything a man is supposed to do- I did.. I opened doors, showed generosity, bought gifts, took her out, complimented her, supported her, protected her. i am writing this for anyone who says: "james is just hopelessly bitter" am i hopelessly bitter or do i have legitimate reasons to be upset with women's dysfunction? MODERN WOMEN JUST DON’T CARE ABOUT MEN AT ALL So back to the original topic.. am I wrong for being sorely disappointed in modern women? Am I wrong for this? Am I wrong for not liking what they do and for speaking my mind about it? (While I’m at it.. this is another issue I have with women, they get mad at you for pointing out a flaw as opposed to acknowledging the actual flaw...... It’s the same principle behind all of the “don’t judge” rhetoric people tout today.) I don’t think I am wrong for disliking what women have become. I feel that I treat women very well. But at the same time, I call a spade a spade.. and when the shoe fits, you can rest assured the hit dog who hollers is going to call me bitter... but whether I am or not... MY STATEMENTS REMAIN MERITED. i wish my ungrateful ex g/f would've listened to this but she was so hard headed it wouldn't have mattered my friend told me she was rejected by two diff guys back to back.. she sent me these texts to prove it i think the reason she gets rejected is because she has nothing left to give men.. she is very pretty but she doesn't seem to have much love or affection to give as too many men have had their way with her already
how many guys can you bang and live with and break up with before you just say "ok i don't have much left to give" how many times can you go through the same cycle with men before you become cynical and emotionally stoic? i mean she's in her 30s and very pretty and she's been with a LOT of guys her relationships have ultimately been fruitless endeavors.. and she wants kids but has none.. how long can u deal with that before an excited and happy aura turns into a bored and unfulfilled one? she is madd cool but this is just my opinion of her situation when i meet stoic women i think its because they've been ran through and hurt in the past and they have just turned cold then men see that coldness and they don't really want anything to do with it because a man is going to think "let me go find someone who has a more upbeat demeanor" so that he can feel appreciated why else would someone who is so pretty be rejected all the time? just my opinion from knowing her and knowing her bonkers dating life i sometimes wonder who may be reading my website
i am not sure if some people i know may come and check it out from time to time, or if i really only get random viewers stumble across my site i want to reiterate to anyone who comes to my site this is an open diary.. this is not really for entertainment it is for my own sanity i have to admit on some level i feel bad for how little i wrote in here while i was in that awful relationship- however i try to remind myself that this is for ME since that trash relationship ended i've slowly gotten back to myself.. back to this website, back to video games, back to even writing some rhymes.. i have noticed though that my heart has gotten colder since that relationship i have found myself not caring about other people.. i am not exactly proud of this but its the truth i feel like i have always been very accommodating but lately that's not the case one funny thing about this i have noticed: when u are naive and nice and polite and accommodating, people tell u that you need to wise up and put up a guard cuz u will be (or are being) taken advantage of but when u flip it and u start turning the cold shoulder and being mean and not caring then peeps tell u to lighten up go figure |
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December 2017
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