i wrote an entry about why being vulnerable is necessary in a relationship.. i didn't email it to myself yet though so i will have to post it later.. not sure if anyone is interested in reading that so i may or may not post it at all
anyway i was thinking do u guys think being with someone ugly is a big issue? i mean.. most times when you are with someone they kinda become better looking based on the feelings involved right? so is being with someone ugly a big deal? i sometimes think- "why not just get with an ugly girl with a nice body?" but then again.. if being with someone ugly sort of 'evens out' physically... then it probably 'evens out' relationship-wise as well too then what i mean is.. if someone who is ugly becomes attractive or at least tolerable over the course of time.. then wouldn't that mean the relationship dynamic would go from "i'm with this ugly chick who treats me good" to "i'm with this ugly girl who acts like every other girl" which would then defeat the entire purpose of being with said ugly chick hm.... i seem to have painted myself into a corner here **goes back to begging God for a woman**
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