one thing i've noticed in life is you always have to look at things from the opposite standpoint to gain perspective
like at work not too long ago a girl said to me "my boyfriend is so annoying sometimes because he forgets our plans and hangs out with his friends a lot" i said "would you rather have him be like that or be too clingy?" she really couldn't answer me she didn't know which was worse, for him to be doing his own thing all the time or to be too clingy and i wonder if that gave her some perspective i wonder if she thought- hey maybe this isn't so bad this is also the conclusion i've come to with my sister never coming to visit me even though i've lived here for about a year.. i was upset about it but then i said if i had to choose- "would i rather have her never come over? or have her at my house all the time?" i think u peeps know the answer to that lol so remember to look at the opposite scenario to try and gain perspective on ur situation
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