people lie about who they are and what they have too much
this is something i barely pay attention to generally however i keep seeing it lately some of the most depressed and messed up people have the best public personas it is ridiculous- do not look at other people and compare yourself to them because guess what- chances are you are seeing a lie people are always bragging about things like their new relationship or how they are getting married, or how their kid is the smartest or how they got a new job blah blah blah it is so fake.. lol.. what u don't know is that the whole reason they are showing you these things on facebook is because they want your validation if u were legit happy and content would you have to take a picture every 5 seconds to prove it to other people? would you have to talk about how happy you are online all day if u were really out having a blast? i mean its one thing to share, its another thing to just be looking for validation all day every day people are so fake its ridiculous.. there are so many instances of people and their frontin like for example, i remember one girl was like.. "my boobs are huge i have to get my bras from a special store" so then i met her in person and she was right, her boobs really were huge.. problem was.. SO WAS EVERYTHING ELSE!!! this girl was so fat it it was mind boggling lol people are just fake man seriously.. i hate talking about good things generally and some people are like "why do you always complain" but for one, a statement is not exactly a complaint.. like if i say "i have no friends" that isn't a complaint.. it is a statement for two.. saying good things seems to invite bad things... i don't know why but that just seems to be how it works listen to rap music for a clear example.. they are rapping about how they have money and champagne and women and then the next thing they are rapping about is the jealousy and envy and greed that follow them everywhere you might as well live an understated lifestyle sometimes when i talk about good things i don't want to say anything but sometimes i feel like God would be upset at me- like if i pray for money and he gives me $500, i don't want to tell people but sometimes i think God would be disappointed if i didn't try to explain it- because people can use it as a blueprint to get out of their own struggle but generally- i hate telling people good things.. i much prefer telling people how i have no money and no furniture because people can see i'm approachable and not pretentious... ALSO (and here is one thing stunters and facebook fronters don't seem to understand) each time i explain my own struggles with another person i A. get to talk about my struggles with another person which keeps me from having to pay a therapist and B. I GET UNEXPECTED HELP look if you go out and people are like "you graduated, where do you work?" and you are unemployed but you say "i work at a law firm" GUESS WHAT.. THAT PERSON MIGHT HAVE HAD AN OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU BUT NOW YOU WONT GET IT if you reply.. "man, i don't have anything- i've been trying but its been tough" then you JUST MIGHT GET A JOB ON THE SPOT DEPENDING ON WHETHER OR NOT THE PERSON HAS SOMETHING THEY CAN OFFER YOU this is one of the stupidest things about fronters and stunters.. they close themselves off from basic care, interest, love, help, assistance, etc which is why they oftentimes A. have to pay people to listen to them and B. have no help because their own pride is keeping them from advancement!!!! that is also why people say things like "i'm smarter than that person, so why did they get a job and i didnt?" again... "i'm smarter than that person" smh.. as if your tiny brain can even comprehend the totality of intelligence and intelligent behavior.. did you ever think "smart" comes in more flavors than just book knowledge and spelling correctly? guess not. read your bible, "God resists the proud" "pride comes before a fall" you clench your own self worth to your own demise.. you need to be humble so you can be honored and elevated or forever be a fronter and a stunter.. claiming "i don't need any help" "i have it all together" "i'm smarter than other people" smh.. let people know the real, ask for help, ask for prayer, don't just accept compliments, give them.. live in the freedom and honesty of humility
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