i somewhat want to talk about this rapper kevin gates who recently spoke out and said he was having sex with a girl for months then he found out she was his cousin.. and when i say cousin, i mean REAL cousin.. as in parent's sibling's child so he said he found out but then he said he didn't want to stop having sex with her this is an example of sin taking u further than you intend to go if he was living God's standard he wouldn't be having sex at all until he was married which would have prevented him from the incest thing so what u have is like.. a sin leading to more sin here's another example: u might have sex with someone then find out they are married, which basically means u have also committed adultery u see things like this a lot but u see a lot of people try to pass blame here's a very common one, u have sex with someone and they break your heart and all of a sudden its their fault.. like u willingly were doing something God never told u to do but when they break your heart its all "their" fault.. in your mind you did no wrong God never told you to develop a soul tie and waste 5 yrs of your life with a person with no commitment.. God legit told you to get the commitment ! (like this video below.. you don't have a ring so why are you so surprised? sorry- i don't feel bad for you) speaking on sex.. i heard a crazy quote the other day
this guy was talking about sex rituals people do to be initiated into clubs and cults of money and fame and he said this: (this is a copy paste of what he said) “Yep, Yep! I am not giving my soul up and I’m not giving my hole up! Your a$$hole is connected to your spine and your spine is connected to your brain” this opened up a whole new compartment in my brain because that statement made me think about sex as mind control.. i mean if our body, soul, spirit, and mind are all attached.. then how does a physical act of penetration male or female- affect us? have you ever sat and thought about that? it just blew my mind a bit and i am now thinking i want to research that topic more- like how does physical intimacy affect us and if it does- can we use it for good and evil alike? can we harness that power? are we already seeing that power be used for or against people? ANYWAY back to kevin gates and him finding out he was having sex with his cousin yet not wanting to stop so basically once he found out she was his cousin he said he didn't want to stop because they basically get along and the sex is good and "why stop a good thing?" he's basically saying "hey we already crossed the line so why not cross it again?" THIS IS AN INTERESTING THING TO ME morally- this is something you see a lot in life.. you see people who have crossed a line and they look back and say "hey, its been crossed, so why try to fall back in line now?" one way you see this a lot is with people who are divorced.. they get divorced and they hook back up and have sex over and over again which TO ME defeats the purpose of said divorce and likely rewards one party and punishes the other as one enjoys the sex alone and the other wants more i.e. approval, affection, forgiveness, love, etc.. when they realize they aren't and likely won't get those things- then the sex will finally stop but my point in saying all of this is to sort of ask a question what do u guys think of situations where you know you went too far or you crossed a line but convenience seems to say "keep doing this" ?? convenience says "keep having sex after your divorce" which may or may not stop you from meeting someone who is actually legit convenience says "keep having sex with this woman even though you found out she is your cousin.. why stop now?" your family reunions might get awkward with the rumors and things but you don't feel like coloring inside the lines anymore you feel like you went too far- how do you get back to feeling like you didn't cross the line? how can you get back into the mental space where the boundaries are clear ? you've been living in gray area so long that you can't really see the black and the white anymore.. the good and the bad are blurred and its all just "whatever" i don't know! other than prayer, i don't really know how u can sort of come back from these things to have an unstained mind but i feel like- if you WANT to come back from lukewarmness then that is at least a good sign!! some people are cool with A. being lukewarm or B. being flat out cold so if u at least want to put things back in order then that is a good sign so like in the case of kevin gates.. if he said "i found out she was my cousin and i felt bad so i wanted to repent" i would say at least he is trying but when he says "i don't want to stop" its like oh snap.. this dude is out there on some long-hair don't care ish! this is all just my thoughts on sex and our inner moral compass for the day oh btw about 2 months ago- this girl at my job was having sex with a guy for a while until she found out he was married, and so her heart broke and she started missing work and stopped trying to look decent and everything.. then about a week ago she met another guy and when i asked her what she's doing over the weekend- she said she is staying at his house overnight do u peeps think she is headed for the same thing she just came out of? my guess is "yes" .. i even told her that the things this new guy has been telling her sound like game to me like "yeah baby let me wash your car" and "yeah i'm wanting to settle down" yeah right smh.. not hating on the guy but men know what to say to get a woman's trust u know i will try to do an update on it so u guys can see what i see i feel like demons will have people come into your life and try to steer you into things you would never do on your own.. like with this particular girl at my job.. i think the enemy is sending men who will use her so that she will become depressed and kill herself i saw with my own eyes how depressed she got when that first guy played her.. so if and/or when it happens again- who knows what will happen.. suicide, lesbianism.. all these extra sins are at the end of your seemingly 'innocent' and 'fun' sin not dissing- just sayin! i ain't sayin, i'm just sayin! i mean it goes for me too!!! guys if u are reading this- if u are wanting to live above the flesh here is my advice.. not from the Bible but just from me: james A. pray for a good church home B. try to keep God in your life.. remember darkness is absence of light C. seek out a God-fearing spouse.. in your life you are going to meet madd people.. some are hot, some are cold, some are lukewarm (i'm talking 'morally' here).. remember the Bible says the believing spouse can help save the soul of the unbelieving spouse through prayer and examples of right conduct people are like food.. junk food is easy and cheap.. but sometimes you come across someone who is healthy for you... try to discern which is which !
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