how do men deal with women?
oftentimes i hear women say things like: "i know i (insert low integrity thing here) but you shouldn't do it because you're a man!" lol how does a man deal with someone who basically uses their gender as an excuse to make ridiculous decisions? what is a man supposed to do? like how do you reason with someone who is literally telling you not to hold them to any kind of standard and another thing i don't understand how to react to is this thing where women try to act like they are so busy or above you or something women don't have it in them to say "i'm not interested" they instead make excuses.. so as a man you are faced with a decision to try and scale the wall or keep it moving "keep it moving" is the better option because i am not subject to the games but the issue with "keep it moving" is i am leaving that woman there.. i might really like her and want her.. i may not want to leave her there, i want to take her with me so how does a man get a woman without playing into the stupid games? this is why i say it seems that women do not want to be pursued, they seem to know what they want and go after it.. this is why its the men who don't pursue women who have all the women.. the men who pursue women are the ones getting the voicemail.. so why do women even say they like to be pursued? it doesn't make any sense i sometimes think about women in my age group who are single and i legit wonder why they are single.. especially the pretty ones.. how can a pretty woman who is late 20s early 30s be single with no kids and never have been married? i am learning the reasons why lately because i run into a few things: 1. women who play hard to get.. which feels (at least to me) like a waste of time i don't even understand why women do this.. if i knew then maybe i could use it to my advantage, but right now i don't even get it.. like what is gained in acting hard to get? i LITERALLY don't know 2. women aren't serious about finding someone.. remember when you were in school and the teacher would tell someone to stop daydreaming and focus? thats how i see women a lot.. its like.. why are they so aloof and disinterested? like i don't understand.. what do they care about? my interest is shown because i call or text or take a woman out or ask her about herself but a woman's interest generally just isn't there.. they don't want to know about me, they don't call or text, they just kinda sit there.. they don't care to really be present or show interest back or anything.. its like they just want the attention but no other aspect.. which reminds me of how women say men just want sex and nothing else.. but i am learning how to weed out women who just want attention mainly by asking open ended questions.. or even closed ended ones like "can i call you" i texted a girl that the other day i said "hey do you have time to talk? can i call you?" she said "no, sorry" and that was it- like she gave no excuse and she didn't say "no, but maybe later" ..somehow the "no" felt like "never" to me i was glad she told me the truth but its like.. why were you even wasting my time in the first place? if you knew you didn't want to talk to me why the hell did you give me your number? attention i guess.. but that is so shallow wow lol 3. a lot of women are into their looks.. this a lot of times makes them like valueless.. what i mean by this is that they like to share their good looks and body with everyone on some level.. this in turn also means that their good looks and body are not exclusive to anyone this makes them have some value to all men but no value to one man.. no man can say "that's my woman and she is beautiful" i just don't know like.. what is the point of flaunting something to everyone as opposed to using it for the actual purpose it was created for? the bible even talks about it- it says proverbs 5:15 Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well. Should your springs be scattered abroad as streams of water in the streets? Let them be for yourself alone, and not for sharing with strangers. Let your fountain be blessed and rejoice in the wife of your youth. men do it too when men have a lot of money and they take pictures with wads of money instead of just keeping their money for their household, their wife, their kids, their future.. they are flaunting it and flashing it for everyone, maybe buying people expensive dinners, maybe buying nice cars to impress multiple women why not keep your "waters" in your own cistern? like logically it doesn't make sense you see these people these days who are married to the world as opposed to married to one actual person when it comes to my own issues i think i have a few.. and i am working on them.. here they are in no particular order - i have recently learned NEVER to do a first date with other people around under any circumstance - i need to get in shape - i could use a better job both for my personal morale as well as a pay increase - i am learning not to argue with women.. they do things that are admittedly illogical and so its better to ignore them when they do something absurd because what is the point of arguing with them when you know they either won't understand or won't care.. i had a girl tell me once that her decisions "don't have to make sense" i imagine a girl would agree with that, but i can pretty much guarantee that men think that is a dumb statement.. things are more peaceful when i just "smh" and keep it moving, arguing just makes women think you are weird or something.. half the time they know when they are acting out and they just want to see what you will do about it.. so i am learning to laugh at things women do as opposed to lower myself and argue about it.. i'm learning you just can't really take women seriously so i think it goes both ways.. women have their issues they need to work on and i have mine but will women always treat me like i have nothing to offer? to be continued i guess
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