look at what this girl put down for "first date" i asked around here and there a few weeks ago about this sort of thing i asked a few women their thoughts on this because i have run into this thing where if i ask a woman where she'd like to go- i get a sort of pushback i didn't understand why i was getting the pushback so i started asking women their thoughts what i learned was that women are still women no matter how much feminism crap is out there.. this is women.. they have a thing with decision making.. i don't understand it.. are they afraid to offend? are they dismayed by the plethora of options? are they saying "lead me" ? the reason doesn't matter so much.. but the fact is.. this is what women are.. men see a decision as a privilege.. like "oh, ok i have a say? awesome" but women are thinking something totally different.. they appear to see decisions as like a headache of some sort realizing this has made me realize to an even greater extent how fake and phony feminism is.. why? because there is no possible way a woman can be a feminist and then express how much of a headache it is for her to make decisions for herself that could be in her favor you can't be a feminist and immediately give power (the power of choice) to the man without any discussion whatsoever i mean i would even be considered a feminist by many women's standards because i feel women should have options and choices.. but constantly i hear them saying "you make the decision" "you drive the car" "you lead the way" "whatever you want to do is fine with me" it all goes back to what we learned in school about male/female communication being cross cultural here you have men seeing choices as privileges and women viewing them as a sort of punishment allow me to reiterate SHE DOESNT VIEW A CHOICE OR OPTION AS A PRIVILEGE ON ANY LEVEL
i remember when i was with chrissy back in the day i used to ask her what she wanted to do and she would be like "oh its fine whatever u want to do" and this went on for a long time up until i just accepted that i was sonic and she was tails i never understood why she was always so moldable- i guess because i used to think women were just men with boobs.. but these days i see that gender differences are much more than cosmetic
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