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i think i've said before that i have gotten into lipstick alley recently mostly for the confessions.. i like reading them i feel like a fly on the wall to peoples lives and thoughts when i peruse them i have read a lot of them and a lot of them leave me puzzled or they make me want to talk to the anon who wrote it or whatever but i ran across one today that i just had to post here cuz i thought it was was crazy ok here it is- this is a direct copy and paste #11844 I do it all for attention from guys. I used to think that I wanted validation for my hard work versus attention but nope I think I do it all for their attention, even though I still curve them at the end of the day. I go so hard with my hair always being done, makeup always done, independent paying for my own stuff, getting good grades in school I literally bust my ass and it's their attention that is my motivation of being so "perfect". I just like to rub it in their face that they cant have me :/ I wanna be TRULY independent and REALLY not care about n*ggas but I need their attention to get by...I admit it now.... look.. i can relate to trying to look good and/or do well in your life to get the opposite sex to notice you or take you seriously.. but why in the BALLS would you do all this stuff just to turn people down!? i mean.. i sat there and read this multiple times and i was just baffled she is doing all this stuff to look good to people but she says "i want to be truly independent and really not care about the opposite sex" first of all A. then why are you trying to impress the opposite sex and B. why do you not want a relationship? like if you have followed my site for the past few months you might remember the post i did called "my assessment of today's dating situation" which is a really good entry that i think really holds a lot of truth!! maybe go back and read it.. here is the link if u want: http://poolboyjames.weebly.com/2014/my-assessment-of-todays-dating-situation in that^ entry i talked about modern dating and how some women have no desire to be with men.. and what that woman wrote really reflects what i wrote a few months back.. let me post the part i'm talking about this was in december 2014.. (remember i was taking 10 men and 10 women and explaining what u would likely find these days in the proverbial dating pool) the last woman out of the 10 is just uninterested in men for some reason.. i don't understand why women seem so uninterested in men, but i seem to run into that a lot.. like where a woman just has no sort of interest in men- you could take her out you could show a lot of interest, you could compliment her, you could do your best to impress her but she feels no attachment that has been something i have run into- some women just don't care about men at all.. maybe she just sees men as a free dinner or someone who can pay half her bills while she goes back to school i HAVE NO IDEA WHY some women don't care about men but i have seen it a lot.. they just don't feel any attachment.. they will let you try to win them over but they cannot be won.. if anyone knows why some women are like this please explain i would like to understand it so there you have it- now again.. compare what i said in that to what that woman said in that post i copy and pasted.. she is one of those women i talked about! i've officially heard it from the horse's mouth.. but i must say.. i STILL don't get it.. like why would a person be like that? is it a hatred of men? is it a partial segment of what the bible calls 'unnatural affection' ? because you are basically saying u don't have normal desires, u are saying u choose pride over love basically which brings me to another point what would u peeps rather have? pride or love? because it seems like these days people are choosing self interest and pride over love left and right and then they wonder why they are single anyway.. i just HAD to post that because i found it to be just insane i mean i just don't get it.. i mean.. i hear what she is saying- she is saying that attention is enough for her.. it provides her with what she wants to the point where she doesn't need a relationship.. but that is just crazy to me how does attention replace an actual loving relationship? that's like saying blow-pops and jolly ranchers replace thanksgiving dinner or something it just seems like such a hollow and vain thing.. i mean its fine if u look your best to attract someone to be with but she just stops after the attraction part.. like the rest doesn't matter.. its like peeling a banana and when you're done- instead of biting it you throw it away or something.. like i just don't get it.. maybe i can't wrap my head around such a high level of conceit? what do u guys think? does what she said sound crazy to you? or does it sound normal? and why are there so many women today who are completely uninterested in men? they will go through the motions but they just cannot be won.. what is the deal with that? if i was to compare those women to something- i'd liken them to a man with a penis that doesn't work there's no desire- they are just like.. wet fish.. limp.. uncaring.. they seem oddly selfish to the point of it being literally weird what do u guys think?
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