one thing i've noticed about women is a lot of times they think of men as losers or winners.. they don't really understand that a guy is just a guy and you have to sometimes look a little closer to see whether he is worth your time or not
you see men talking about this in rap songs when they say things like "you didn't like me back when i was broke but now you like me cuz i made it" women oftentimes just see men like "on point" or "not on point" and they judge us on that- when in reality sometimes there is more to a man than what can readily be seen its like women think some men are incurable losers and some men are untouchable superheroes this just really isn't how it works no man came out the womb ready for war a lot of times the losses men face are the very things that propel them to wins... as a result, a lot of times a loser and a winner are the same guy... just at different points in his life the same can be said for many guys who appear to be winners early on in life.. like maybe the star football player in high school falls off the map after graduation.. 50 cent said it best in wanksta: "damn homie... in high school you was the man homie, what happened to you?" what made me notice all of this at first was one day i was on a 2pac video on youtube and these guys were explaining how 2pac wasn't a fighter type of guy, so when he was coming up- he would get beat up sometimes or be made to look like a punk or whatever.. but all the women who were commenting were saying "this isn't real" "why should we believe you" "2pac would never do any of this" blah blah blah.. but as a man i'm looking at that and i'm like "do these women really think 2pac came out the womb with 6-pack abs and a microphone?" do they really think he was always that "finished product" that you see on tv? there is nothing far fetched about a guy having some embarassing moments on his way to success its like those women honestly think 2pac was some kind of superhero lol.. they really think he never took an L in his life... they remind me of that kid we all knew from middle school who could never admit wrestling was fake... 2pac made some cool songs but he wasn't some kind of OG, bulletproof hero who was always untouchable.. he was a regular dude who made it out of poverty when women think men are either bosses or losers- they don't understand a lot of times L's make men wiser and stronger.. women shouldn't be surprised to see some L's, embarassing moments, or issues littered throughout a man's life men are not really as cut and dry as "successful" and "not successful" there's usually a little more to it than that for example: say there's a broke guy.. is he trying? say there's a rich guy.. is he arrogant? say there's an educated guy.. does He believe in and honor the Lord? say there's a guy with no muscles.. does he have courage? say you are a woman who found the perfect guy.. does he even like you? its not just losers and winners.. its not just guys you ignore and guys you honor.. some of these women should try to look a little closer i mean look at charlie sheen.. on one hand this is a massively successful man.. a "winner" to a lot of women.. but look at all the secrets he had- in light of all that we now know about him.. is he still just sitting in that "winner" category? and conversely upon a second look- are all "loser" men only in that category?
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