i've had these entries on deck for a while but never posted them.. but now's the time.. pt 2 is coming soon
(btw i think my fave out of these is the last one at the bottom) ++++++++++++++++++++++++ Here’s some fairly recent news- blac chyna had been dating future and she got a tattoo of his name on her hand, and as soon as she posted it online- future went online and confirmed that he is single that is SO embarrassing, like literally one of the most embarrassing things i've ever seen i think +++++++++++++++++++ what do u peeps think is the best way to deal with a woman who has an attitude? here are the general options 1. ignore her 2. confront her on what she is saying both of these options are kinda irritating, u really don't want to do either one.. because you want things to be going well between the both of you.. you don't want to ignore her and bottle up a feeling and you don't want to confront her and risk offending her because a lot of women can dish it but not take it so through things like this i came up with a 3rd option for dealing with women that option is basically.............................. i guess i'd call it acknowledgement what you do is you acknowledge that you feel as if what she said was dumb, but you don't really go into any detail about it you immediately express dislike and show no further sign of irritation after the initial 5 seconds.. this will make her try to guess what u are thinking which makes it so u remain in a position of power because you keep your composure so u basically express a dislike for what she is saying, but you also simultaneously refuse to "go there" with her so she has a decision to make.. keep acting without logic and thus alienating herself from you or attempt to come back around this method saves you from bottling up an issue and it also saves you from magnifying it beyond its importance its just expression of disdain/dislike and then on to the next thing such as: shrug of shoulders that says "i don't care" and diverting your attention saying "that's retarded" and moving on to the next subject things like those so u establish your standard and just keep it moving.. u don't engage with a woman who wants to argue because it is a waste of time.. think about it like this.. 9 times out of 10, women themselves don't even like other women, so of course you as a man shouldn't expect them to always be tolerable either.. u acknowledge and accept that they are at times ridiculous and just keep it movin this (imo) is the best way to deal with women.. just know in your mind that absurdity and skewed logic with them are sometimes inevitable.. that will help you to keep your cool no matter what +++++++++++++++++++ God knows we all have sinned but He sees past it if we are willing to put it behind us for the most part this is something i have adopted in my dealings with women mean lets just be real here.. most women have a sketchy past however if a woman is willing to leave her past in the past then i am for the most part willing to accept her and overlook it i feel like as a man it is part of my responsibility to name my children and rename the woman in my life, so if she has been a skank, if I really love her its my job to, not to make her feel bad about her past, but to give her a new future.. a new name and a new starting point +++++++++++++++++++ a lot of times i like to hear artists talk about their lives because it gives their music more context one of my fave artists growing up was this rapper who was always rapping about killing people and banging prostitutes and just doing crazy things i was reading about him recently just to see what i could find and some bio i found said when he was like 12 the police murdered his cousin right in front of him this made all of his music make sense if you saw something so awful happen right in front of your face at such a young age, you likely would no longer see the world as a just or fair place.. you would probably develop a hatred inside and you would probably even develop a sort of emotional numbness to outside circumstances and situations, which explains his content another artist who makes a lot more sense after reading about his life is prince.. who are the artists you understood a lot more after reading their bio? +++++++++++++++++++ i saw something the other day and it said "the opposite of love is indifference" i'm not here to argue about whether that is true or not, but that is what i feel from women i feel like they are indifferent toward me- like i just don't matter at all.. dealing with this frustrates me over time like i try not to take it personal but sometimes u almost can't help it i try to understand that people have their own lives and they have to do their own thing but it feels so insulting sometimes to feel like u have no umm.. u have no weight with the opposite sex.. like u call them and they just look at their phone and put it back down it makes u feel inside like ur not even human i try to just chill.. but deep down at times i feel highly insulted one thing that makes it so much worse to me is when women outright lie.. like i'd rather they just tell me the truth i personally sort of feel like i can tell when someone is lying.. even in a text message so here are some examples of lies i've encountered from women "i'm busy" - she doesn't want to chill (evidence is lack of reschedule) "yeah i want to hang out" - if this is followed by 'call me on blah blah' it is a lie.. because when you call her she won’t answer "i'm going to sleep" - its 6 or 7 pm.. she is having sex with someone and therefore busy for the night and doesn't want to tell you.. she is saying she won't be answering the phone until tomorrow afternoon (if that) "i'm leaving my phone at home" - this is when she just doesn't want to talk to you specifically "i'm busy lately" - this is when she met a new guy and you are a 'distraction' to her so its like saying 'leave me alone indefinitely' "i'm going out of town for a week.. i'm staying with an old girlfriend" - she's staying with (and banging) a guy and doesn't want to tell me "i hung out with my girlfriend so and so" - she was with a guy "i gotta go" - this means you're asking too many questions this is why it is usually a surprise that women are in relationships by the time you find out she is in a relationship, she has been in an official relationship for about two months or so.. but for that whole time she was lying to you about what she was doing its not that you necessarily even care that she has another guy- its just the feeling of being lied to that is bothersome u just feel like you were not respected enough to be told the truth.. like you are just a person who is unimportant.. not worth an honorable response makes u feel as if you have been redirected in the same way that a child would be its just not cool when 9 times out of 10 you realize you're the only one trying ++++++++++++++++ proverbs 19:14 "....a prudent wife is from the Lord" "prudent" is basically like - wise.. proper.. someone who makes good decisions "wife" is basically like - mate, helper, someone who is there for you, someone who supports you and stays with you, someone made literally for you some of these guys think their wife is from God but if she can't be described as prudent then i can't really cosign that thought "from the Lord" basically means it comes from Jesus Christ.. He gives you a prudent wife.. it's not something you get by your own charms or money.. that's why all rap songs are about hoes.. because that is what those men are attracting and what they are surrounded by.. but those women aren't from God because they are not prudent "from the Lord" also means you don't have to look for her or "be" something.. what you instead have to do is make sure you are in good standing with the Lord so that you can ask and receive... and also have patience because God's timing may be different from yours so lets break it down a little more a wise, proper woman who makes good decisions, who will have your back, be down for you, help you, lift you up, stay with you, and bless your life is from the Lord since she is described as a wife- this means she is not a fairweather friend.. she is really there for you.. so you don't actually have to flash money and status, she is yours to keep or as marriage vows would say- "to have and to hold" this woman (being basically a helper from God to you) is down for you and has your interest in mind and will grow with you.. and she will hold onto you through ups and downs.. she won't jump ship when you lose your job... yeah she is human, but she is going to hold u down and show loyalty when you need it so.. the way i see it.. a wife is not something you seek, it is something the Lord presents to you but the timing will have to be right also.. the only reason i say the timing will have to be right is because that has been my experience in life.. God's timing may be diff from yours for whatever reason.. like when i got my current apartment.. i got the keys to it and on that very same day i got my new driver's license in the mail which had my new address on it.. and that was confirmation to me that it was God's timing so when you are presented with a wife, you may want to look for a confirmation of the timing being on point.. chances are the signs will be there if you look around i am convinced there is nothing a man can do to make a girl like him... if you have money.. a woman will hang around but she is just hanging around for the money if you have good sex, she still might talk about how triflin' you are behind your back.. just because she adds "but the sex is great" at the end doesn't mean she really is there for you i am also convinced there is nothing a man can do to make a woman act right you might even marry a woman, but she might cheat on you.. you can't treat a woman good enough to make her act right.. i've seen good men get dragged by women so as a man, finding these things is out of our hands... but God can do it "a prudent wife comes from the Lord" you can see that takes care of both aspects A. the "liking you" part.. and B. the "acting right" part
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