since God blessed me to have my own place i want to talk a little about like.. having people over
ok.. no one thought i would be like this but- i am actually pretty clean when it comes to my place and when people are coming over then i try to tidy up even more my mom came over once and described it as "immaculate" one thing that ruins your space is clutter so u need a place for each item you own.. if you don't have a place then maybe try to get some shelves or something.. proper storage makes a world of difference anyway.. when people come over- one majorly important thing (imo) is the smell.. i don't want anyone to come over and be like "wow james your bathroom smells like you just did a number 5 or something" another issue can be food you cooked a few hours ago.. u may not smell it anymore but visitors can u might have to open a window.. even if it is cold outside you'd be better off opening that window and spraying something than you'd be just letting it ride out because (as i've said before) details are what make up experiences if you shirk details then you also hamper your own circumstances and situations as a single male- if i am having a girl over it is good to have it fresh smelling and feeling inside.. also it is good to apply some creativity to your seating arrangements and lighting etc. i had one girl over once and i didn't think about it at the time but having one chair and my bed worked to my advantage because she sat in the chair and eventually sat in my bed to get more comfortable.. obviously if you know me then you know nothing happened but i feel it sort of helps intimacy if a person is laying in your bed same theory behind therapy.. when they have that chair slash bed thing.. people open up when they lay down if ur a guy reading this.. put some thought into your layout and u might be able to get a girl to let her guard down when it comes to lighting- this is something i may have to put some extra effort into.. but i do have a black light which is great for when all the lights are out but u still want some sort of "glow" the vibe is really nice under black light so maybe look into one of those if u don't have one i was thinking about getting a lamp and putting a red lightbulb in that also.. maybe that could be neat its neat having your own place where people get to see who you are and how you live and you can sort of manipulate things and people won't always suspect the extent to which you are trying to elicit a specific response from them like "yeah i burn these incense and play marvin gaye all the time" lol anyway.. just a few thoughts on domicile manipulation.. a little extra effort can go a long way does anyone have any extra ideas on this? if your place smells nice, is clean, and you have fast internet, you are probably all set to have company i guess something else would be to always have something to offer your guests to eat or drink!!!! REMEMBER, THEY DROVE OUT TO SEE YOU SO TREAT THEM WITH RESPECT AND CARE!!!!!
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