one thing that irks me about women on dating sites is how they get upset if you ask them why they are single (which is actually a compliment because if i didn't have to ask then the reason would be glaringly obvious) or how they get upset at any talk about singlehood
they act like you are trying to pry or point out flaws or something.. they think any indication of them being single is somehow an insult.. women are so prideful these days it is absurd i've even seen women say things like "don't assume i'm single" how crazy is that? like you're on a dating site saying that a person is wrong for assuming you're single... like you are literally crazy its like i work in senior living so someone may call me and i may say to them.. "what's it like being the only caregiver for your great aunt?" and they can tell me the answer without feeling like i am prying too much.. why? because we are both aware of the pretense- they called me seeking senior living if i asked a random person on the street what its like taking care of their great aunt, they have the right to say "that's none of your business" but again if we are under the pretense that you are seeking senior living- then i can ask you certain things without getting my head ripped off so when it comes to this situation with women on dating sites.. i get so tired of them being so evasive and acting as if we are not under the pretense of trying to find a significant other i have noticed women think being labeled as single is some sort of insult in itself... the problem with that is NO ONE SAID THAT.. it is their own insecurity intercepting the conversation and twisting it to sound like an insult am i supposed to think you are on a dating site for no reason? like of course you are (or at least should be) single and of course you have experiences and a story to tell.. u don't have to go too deep, but you can't foster a new relationship and remain completely hidden and invulnerable either u are in or you are out
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