over and over again one of my biggest complaints about women is that men live up to their gender roles but women don't live up to theirs i understand women like guys with muscles i understand women like guys who are independent i understand women like guys who are educated i understand women like guy who are (insert whatever) myself, and guys around me all know these things and we strive to live up to women's wants, desires, and expectations but over and over women are always complaining about men's desires.. women constantly complain about cooking, getting made up and looking pretty, or my favorite "why can't i be a slut?" or "why should i submit to my husband?" which really means: i like to argue and complain and tell him how wrong he is! the other day i got into it with this girl on youtube and she flat out said she and a lot of other women just refuse to be in submission to a good man.. actually here is part of the exchange: (2 Sidenotes: obviously i am coldsky.. also i want to point out SHE brought up race in the conversation, not me.. i don't want anyone thinking i was bringing up race and trying to bash black women by saying they are worse than other races.. i never brought up race at all, that was her)
see here you have a woman admitting she refuses to be a good woman.. she flat out refuses to be flexible, agreeable, or trusting toward a man.. she REFUSES to be what a man desires OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN, i see women who want a man to treat them "like a woman" but these same women refuse to treat their men like a man.. meaning show a brotha some respect, or appreciation, or tell a brotha that he impacted your life somehow.. men are not really getting this from women today- women a lot of times instead make us feel small women always want a guy who is older, taller, more experienced, smart, and dominant, who has more money than she does, etc. that should tell you right there that women are looking for a man to lead- which naturally makes the man head of the household.. but women still refuse to fall back at all.. they think they are "man #2" in the relationship as opposed to taking that allotted role as woman this mindstate is a problem here are my main thoughts 1. women should find men they like, respect, and admire enough to submit to.. if you don't trust your husband then you are with the wrong guy 2. women need to understand that gender roles have good and bad points.. as far as flesh is concerned let me break this down as a man i have good things in my gender role such as the respect of my family, the submission of my family, the ability to make the final decisions, and i get honor from my wife and children however the negative side of my gender role is the fact that if a burglar comes into our house, i have to be the one to risk my life and go downstairs and fight while i'm still in my pajama pants.. or if my family goes broke- that's on me, or if i don't work i am considered scum, or sometimes as a man i might be going through something and i may have to hide it so that i don't scare my family with my problems and agony when it comes to women, women have their good parts of the gender role.. they get protection, love, guidance, stability, and freedom/ability to operate as a wife and mother.. they get to love their children as the man will likely (9 times out of 10) be the disciplinarian and "the bad guy" as far as kids are concerned.. they also get a man who will create a foundation for them and fix cars, fix plumbing, listen to them, help them stay stable, and help make her way easier- etc the bad part of the female gender role (again this is according to flesh) is the fact that women cannot be hoes and be considered good women simultaneously.. also they have to submit to their husbands and be a crown to him and not a reproach.. she may have to cook or look nice when she really just wants to rock sweat pants.. she may have to have sex with her husband even when she isn't in the mood my point is there are good and bad points to each gender role.. but women are the only ones who i continually see refuse any of the "bad" they reason "if i don't want to do it then its wrong" or "if i want to do it then its right" again.. DO YOU WOMEN THINK MEN LIKED DYING ON THE TITANIC because of "women and children first" ???? we need real women in today's society who understand that relationships are a responsibility you do have the pros, but you also have the things you may not want to do all the time- but you have to operate in your role a child is not an adult.. a woman is not a man.. a man is not a god.. do you understand? we all have to operate within our given role you can't as a woman enjoy all the luxuries of a relationship with none of the responsibilities.. you will not have a real relationship if you are selfish in every scenario i am just tired of women not understanding that they aren't the only ones who have to sacrifice comfort and fun for the greater good within a marriage and/or family setting both men and women- we all have to take one for the team at some point in some way.. refusing to do so is selfishness, conceit, and immaturity WE SHOULD ALL STRIVE TO BE WHAT THE OPPOSING GENDER WOULD LIKE US TO BE AS THEIR REQUESTS (9 times out of 10) ARE NOT ARBITRARY a man who listens to what women say they want will usually become a better man.. and a woman who listens to what men say they want will usually become a better woman the problem is women are not listening to us men anymore.. instead of looking inward and trying to change, they are creating "slut-walks" and things.. do u see men fighting for the right not to take care of his kids? or men fighting for the right to not have a job? men still have shame, women don't... does anyone feel me on this.. has anyone seen this other than myself? this is not an emotional rant, because i am not even dating anymore so i am detached from the topic- i'm just putting this out there because its something i've observed
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