i want to explain one reason why men have sex with women and then leave them
i'm not sexually active but i am able to explain this because i have seen what some women do that makes men not value them enough to stay around a lot of women have this belief that men will do everything and initiate everything 100% of the time and if he doesn't then he is not a real man.. he is not worthy of her time this hearkens back to the whole "men don't have feelings" myth that i noticed women have some women think men should initiate and do everything.. but if a woman believes that- then what she is doing is making herself valueless to him with the exception of her vagina think about it if a man gives you compliments buys you dinner takes you places tries to make you laugh calls you first says he missed you when he sees you etc and all you do is accept and receive without proper reciprocation then of course you are making yourself look like your only value to him as a man is sexual the way a woman can set herself apart is to be a giver or at least a decent reciprocator i will tell you women a secret- men like to be appreciated.. don't just accept compliments, give some surprise! men are human too men respect a woman who shows him something.. some sort of appreciation or love or approval (approval is a big one) or a woman who is willing to give back from time to time if a woman doesn't show any positive traits and her only "reward" or only "way to reciprocate" is sex, then she shouldn't be surprised when she is only used for that do you guys think this is decent advice or am i way off? i've had a girl cook for me once and i really appreciated it.. in other words, i've had girls do things for me that make me look past their big boobs or nice butts.. but i've dated some women who don't offer appreciation other than things that are sexual if that is all you are offering that is all you will likely be used for
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