i am done with online dating and talking to women online.. i have realized that it is a wasteland
talking to people online is like buying a lie.. it seems simple but its not.. why is it not simple? there are a lot of reasons 1. location.. if you meet someone in public chances are they likely live around there.. online you can meet someone who lives in ghana.. which.. honestly i saw a girl advertising in nashville yesterday who actually lives in ghana (<--i'm not kidding).. and of course there are also the less extreme cases where a person lives a two-hour drive away from you.. either way its annoying 2. too many deceptive pictures or women who post pictures not showing their bodies.. skinny women trying to look like they have booties when they don't, thick women trying to look skinny (so if you like thick women, you unfortunately end up skipping over 75% of them because they look so thin in their pictures) fat women taking 7 pictures from the neck up at an angle, etc 3. men are online generally because they want a more legit and simpler way of meeting women.. women on the other hand are online generally because they have flaws... why do i say this? because with men being the more eager gender.. women get approached in public at grocery stores, malls, bars, parties, etc so my point is, if a woman has the ability to attract men in public, you have to ask- why does she have to be online? because of flaws and things that she knows men do not want or like such as- too sarcastic too prideful (women talking about how they are "independent" every 5 minutes for example) kids undesirable bodies emotionally damaged and unavailable the list goes on.. online dating creates a "safe zone buffer" for women.. this buffer can hide a flaw long enough to keep you talking to her, until she feels she has hooked you- once she feels she has hooked you she will drop the flaw/secret on you once you drive 5 hours to meet her at her house she will say "yeah, guys usually freak out on me when i tell them this but....." and you will sit there dumbfounded as it unfolds to you that she is not the amazing diamond-in-the-rough princess you thought she was again let me say it one more time: men are online generally because they want a more legit and simpler way of meeting women.. women on the other hand are online generally because they have flaws 4. women like attention have you ever seen a band with 3 women playing instruments and a man as the lead singer? no, you haven't.. but how many times have you seen a band with 3 men playing instruments and a woman as the lead singer? exactly.. you know why that is? because men generally don't like or value attention as much as women so what i am saying here is.. women a lot of times do online dating sites for attention.. meaning they don't actually always want to date anyone.. sometimes they just want extra attention/validation.. they feel like they have power every time some guy introduces himself to her.. they like feeling like they have a certain power over men why else would a woman who already has a boyfriend be on a dating site? i've had them admit they are not single to me, and i've also just seen it on some of their profiles.. they like the attention.. they don't care if they are completely wasting your time or anything.. a LOT of women online are just looking for attention they are a COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME FOR MEN i could probably think of more reasons why i am done with online dating and talking to women online.. but i will leave you with this copy and paste i took from plentyoffish.com this is a copy and paste i took from a girls page a few minutes ago this was the last straw for me and it is what prompted me to write this whole entry: (this girl was from here... nashville area) Hey I'm not really sure where to begin. I'm not really new to online dating but it's been a while since I gave it an official try so here goes. Here's a little about myself most would describe me as bubbly. I'm generally a happy person who always has a smile on her face. I'm very laid back and easy going. I like to have fun, try new things, and travel. I am an Accountant by trade but not the typical number cruncher most think of when accountants come to mind. I'm a people person and love to meet new people regularly. There are two things that you will always get from me honesty and openness. I'm a woman with a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm a Christian and I feel strongly about my walk with God. I'm a goal oriented person. I have some things I would like to accomplish this year as well as long term. If you would like to know feel free to contact me. I also love music. I will listen to most anything except country. I'm always open to questions so feel free to inbox me if you would like to know more. True to fact of openness and honesty I would like to add that I have HSV 2 commonly known as genital herpes. It's not a life changer for me or anything that you or I will die from but I wanted to let you know I really am open and honest. ^that is not made up, i literally just took it off a girl's profile.. she was pretty.. she had everything i wanted in a woman.. so imagine the look on my face when i read that last segment sidenote: (the only reason i didn't post a screen capture with her pictures is because i respect her honesty and don't want to put her on blast) IM DONE WITH MEETING WOMEN ONLINE you have to think.. if you find women who admit they have boyfriends, and admit how prideful they are, and admit they have genital herpes.. you have to ask yourself.. what are the women who hide things hiding from you? women can be so pretty but they oftentimes are screwed up.. talking about how they had 3 abortions and all kinds of nonsense minimize your wasted time.. filter them out in real life.. don't give them that online buffer.. because trust me- 99% of them ARENT telling you about the herpes.. they aren't explaining to you why a young woman who is an 8 out of 10 is single and can't establish a good relationship offline take heed to this entry men! and good luck finding a wife these days! lol
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