i've said this before in one way or another but i am reiterating it here 95% of women on dating sites do this and it needs to stop STOP DISPLAYING MASCULINE TRAITS AND THEN BEING UPSET WHEN MEN DONT LIKE IT one thing i hear a lot of women say is the whole "i don't want a man to be in the mirror getting ready longer than me" thing women don't want a man worried about his looks in that way because it appears feminine, its not that they don't want their man to look good, i think what they are saying is they don't want it to be a source of arrogance for him to be super into himself and his looks because if he takes it too far it causes a bit of a role reversal in the relationship.. he's looking at himself instead of at his girl this is how men see women when they talk the whole "i'm independent and successful" thing they're always talking about its not that men don't want women to be successful, but it just sort of gives off the wrong "scent" when women are talking about how they are so successful and independent and how they don't need a man and how they have 5 degrees and a house and a car and don't need any help we men are not against female success, its just that when it becomes a source of arrogance and women brag about it... it seems overdone and it starts to feel like a role reversal.. u don't want to partner with a man to sail a ship together, instead you want to just sail by yourself because it sounds like you are saying "i sail it perfectly and completely" ... so then why would a man want to sail with you? women.. would you ask einstein if he needs help on his math homework? NO so when you act like u have a perfect and complete life then a man (who wants to occupy a space in your life and help you and love you) WILL FEEL LIKE HE HAS NO ROOM TO FIT IN YOUR LIFE u women don't want us men standing in the mirror getting our hair just right for 2 hours and getting upset because we broke a nail and talking about how good we look! because it sends you the wrong message so by the same token.. don't hit us with all the "i'm a boss" "i'm independent" "i don't need a man" crap because you are sending us the wrong message WE MEN WANT TO HELP YOU AND LOVE YOU AND BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE.. so you can't say "i don't need your help, i don't need a man, i'm independent" and expect us to want to take you to dinner! we men are hearing "she wants to take herself to dinner" u want to be successful? fine, go right ahead.. but don't tell us how much you don't need us in 10 ways and then expect us to treat you like women.. we are going to treat you like men.. which basically means we will keep a distance from you.. we will let you do your thing.. we won't come close to you or get in your space u women don't want us men staring in the mirror and talking about "i need to get my eyebrows done" so please spare us the whole "i'm a success and don't need anyone" "i'm strong on my own" crap ... CAN WE PLEASE JUST AGREE ON THIS? WHO TOLD YOU WOMEN THAT MEN DESPISE ALL VULNERABILITY? because it certainly is not true.. u women are maternal and u want to take care of babies.. you want to be a big part of a child's life right? well, we men are paternal AND WE WANT TO TAKE CARE OF YOU.. WE WANT TO HAVE A PLACE IN YOUR LIFE.. WE WANT TO DO SOMETHING FOR YOU IN SOME WAY, SOMEHOW .. WE ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO A WOMAN WHO IS ONE BIG WALKING CLOSED DOOR and another thing... i literally JUST took these pictures off a dating site.. (these are two different women btw) YOU WOMEN DO THIS STUFF PHYSICALLY AND VERBALLY.. YOU PORTRAY YOURSELVES IN MASCULINE WAYS
STOP PORTRAYING YOURSELVES LIKE THIS SORRY, BUT IM NOT ATTRACTED TO YOUR HUGE F*CKING BICEPS PLEASE BE WOMEN.. PLEASE STOP DOING THIS.. I AM BEGGING YOU WOMEN.. PLEASE STOP ACTING LIKE MEN PLEASE ACT LIKE WOMEN.. PLEASE SHOW YOURSELVES AS SOFT, SWEET, AND FLEXIBLE PLEASE STOP ACTING HARD AND MEAN, HEADSTRONG, BOSSY AND CONTROLLING.. STOP TAKING PICTURES SHOWING YOUR MUSCLES I DOUBT IF YOU'D LIKE SEEING MEN TAKING PICTURES OF THEMSELVES DOING THE SPLITS AND TALKING ABOUT HOW THEY CRIED WHEN THEY WATCHED THE LITTLE MERMAID.. SO PLEASE STOP WITH THE "IM A STRONG MAN" POSES PLEASE I AM BEGGING YOU WOMEN. PLEASE STOP
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