i have noticed that women feel like men should be led by God and purpose and men feel like women should be led by her man and her kids.. responsibilities of family basically
this explains why women hate it when men show emotions.. they see a man showing emotion as a man who has the wrong priorities and focus this also explains why men dislike career oriented 'independent' women.. they seem like they are not family oriented, they have the wrong priorities and focus.. they seem 'out of order' i feel like this information is fairly basic but also somewhat of a breakthrough sometimes the opposite sex sees who u are and what you can/should be before you do and i don't think there is anything wrong with a man having emotions or a woman having a career.. but if the dial is turned too far- then these things become unattractive.. because the fact is- we have to remember to stay on the right side of our gender roles and many people today have the wrong focus in this backwards world women feel like emotional men might as well be women and men feel like career women might as well be men.. because the amount of focus placed on each a man will think something like "if she has my child will she care enough to bond with it? or will she be talking about hiring a nanny while she goes back to work?" a woman will think "will he be able to stand strong in a crisis? or will he be in his emotions?" so i think what i just explained, explains why men are oftentimes offended at career women and women are oftentimes offended and men showing emotion because A. the dial is turned too far or B. we feel they are being led by the wrong thing.. again men should be led by God and purpose while women should be led by the familial industry if you will.. and if the opposite sex senses something is off- they usually don't like it
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
who am i?
the new retro Archives
December 2014
|