ok so i'm currently in the library at mtsu..
i decided while i'm here i want to talk about what men r looking for and/or at when they are looking at women here is a list and its in no particular order: does she have kids.. i don't think guys want girls with kids because we are territorial.. we don't want another man and/or another man's seed in our house like that.. women don't like to hear this but its just real.. not saying women with kids won't find good men, its just that women with kids are not likely to be a man's first choice.. i say don't have sex until you're married because if you have a child outside of marriage and u end up a single mom then your chances of finding a guy are probably slimmer than they would have been if you had no kids is she a good girl or a hoe.. this is somewhat subjective depending on the guy you are dealing with but the fact is regardless of his particular definitions of each- nearly every guy is thinking along these lines when he meets a girl.. the best thing u can do as a girl is to watch what you say.. even if you ARE a hoe, don't be proud of that.. that is not something to be proud of.. don't partake in all that same talk your female friends partake in.. don't talk about how you want such and such celebrity to do such and such to you because we men hear it or someone will tell us and we form opinions about you based on these things.. for example: i hear a lot of women say "the only guys who approach me are the ones who only want sex" .. THIS IS WHY because you put yourself out there like you're a toy instead of a lady.. a lady would not be saying vulgar things in public.. if ur a woman reading this, and you want to surpass your friends in the quality of male you attract, be a lady.. when ur friends are doing things that make them look silly, continue to be a lady.. why would a guy want to marry (as TLC calls them) a silly hoe? if you go on your lunch break and you start talking about the sex you had last night then you will be attracting the men who are strictly horny and pushing away the men who are looking for a wife.. women do this ALL THE TIME.. trust me, if you act ladylike, men will notice that.. and u will likely get less attention, but the QUALITY of the attention you get will be far better than before.. instead of finding yourself asking "why does every guy who talks to me have gold teeth?" you will say "i have a dinner date at ruth chris this friday" ..understand that chivalry is only dead for CERTAIN WOMEN.. don't let that be you.. to sum up this whole part.. be respectable.. just like how women don't respect unemployed, unambitious men- men don't respect hoe-ish women moving on. men are also looking at your body.. a healthy build is really all that matters.. if you are TOO fat or TOO skinny men will hold it against you or overlook you.. if you are anywhere within a decent middle ground, men will most likely be happy let me go into a little further detail here.. if you are too skinny a lot of men won't be attracted to you in the first place and/or they may think you have an eating disorder.. no guy wants to be with someone who they think has an eating disorder because they know it'll eventually be a headache if you are too fat or very close to being too fat, many men will say to themselves "i can't bring her around my friends they'll laugh at me" or "i don't want to commit because i have no guarantee that she won't get bigger" personality.. men want a woman who can cheer them up, brighten their life, be a bright spot, add to his life, make him look good, be cute and nice.. if you have an attitude, or if you like to be disagreeable, or you like to argue in public.. no guy will put up with you.. how can you change if you have a bad attitude? think positive, think about funny things, think about God's goodness and how some people don't have food or housing but you do.. try to put your negative past behind you.. give people compliments, and agree with people as much as possible.. these things will make you look awsum to men these^ are what i have for right now.. if i come up with more later i'll share, but honestly this legit sums up a lot of- if not all of what men are looking for it seems easy doesn't it? but think about the women around you.. do they have an attitude? too much emotional baggage? are they not physically presentable? i.e. too fat? are they hoe-ish? do they already have kids? if you really think about it- i don't want to say most women fall into one of these categories buuuuut.... so if you're a female reading this, try to use this as somewhat of a checklist.. good men are looking at these sorts of things in your life.. they aren't looking at how many degrees you have or how you are the head of your company or how you are a jet-setter who has eaten at fine restaurants like i said before, men's criteria for judging women is entirely different than women's criteria for judging men
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