tonight someone text me and asked if i could cook or not
this got me thinking about roles and duties and things we can offer our spouse when we are married ok so i want to detail the things i can offer my future wife here are the things i can do basic plumbing (sinks, toilets) give advice on what to wear be supportive and understanding yard work kill bugs cook clean set up electronics (from hooking up routers to the internet, to syncing ipods, to buying proper cords, to hooking up new speakers, and then some) do taxes (no need to pay $50 at h&r block or whatever, i'll have it done in less than 10 minutes) oversee the household (foresight, bible knowledge, vigilant outlook, etc) tell you what you do that i love things i don't do work on cars (we r gnna have to have funds for that stuff because i just don't like that type of work) clean showers (its too hard.. its like a real workout scrubbing the shower and it bothers me that it just gets dirty again after all that work) dance (don't ask me to dance because i'm not going to, i've had girls pull my arm and ask me to dance.. lol.. NO. i'm not exactly fancy-free, i consider myself to be fairly reserved.. that is comfortable to me so if people don't like it then they can find their own version of usher or omarion or whatever) overall i want to be a good man for a girl one day i know the Bible says in the last days men will be lovers of self i don't want to be a part of that majority.. i want to give love to my wife and make her feel special i want to be second to her, not in a subservient or pushover type of way, but in a 'commitment' type of way if we both operate with that mindset, like if we both put each other first- i don't think we'll lose
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this is the most unintentionally funny commercial ever lol each time the camera changes he's walking again and trying to look busy and trying to appeal to those "no frills" "no nonsense" guys who like to work on cars.. its just so overdone its like a mockery of itself
and why did they let this man tuck his shirt in w/ that homer simpson physique? here are some words on my aunt Lisa who passed away in february
just a few thoughts i wanted to get off my chest today (this post is not important, it is just a personal rant)
one thing i just want to get off my chest i am tired of the internet taking away our privacy for example I DONT LIKE BEING SEEN ON YOUTUBE.. I AM NOT A YOUTUBER i do youtube videos TO POST HERE ON THE SITE I DONT DO THEM TO BE SEEN, "LIKED," OR COMMENTED ON BY RANDOM STRANGERS youtube used to have a feature where you could upload your videos and keep your profile private.. well guess what? that feature doesn't exist anymore now i have to upload my videos and subject myself to people and their stupid opinions 24 hours a day (and YES a lot of opinions are stupid.. which shouldn't be surprising seeing as how so many people on youtube put the number of the beast in their screen name) youtube also keeps begging me to use my real name as my screen name.. wtf is that about? here they are trying to take away privacy again and another thing.. the whole "picture next to your comment" thing is still fairly new as well its irritating to me.. i don't necessarily want to be on youtube all exposed like that it seems like they want to make it so you type in someone's name and you see all these videos they've made over the past 10 years or something, that is absurd.. not only do u see the videos, u also see the likes and dislikes and whatever.. so u think u know them without ever meeting them my site is more a private thing.. like u step into my house and u look around.. and yeah its personal but i can handle that because its my site and i control it.. what i don't like is just being completely exposed on youtube or google or facebook or some other bs conglomerate so my point is this i am going to either find a way to get some privacy back on youtube, or i'm finding a different way to upload videos a way where no one can see my videos outside of the proper context- THIS WEBSITE this isn't news or anything, but i just wanted to post this because i ran across this video and i was amazed at how pretty this girl is do u think you can find a girl who is prettier than this? i was just watching a crime show.. i watch ID (investigation discovery)
the shows on that channel are reenactments of true stories ok so i was watching it a minute ago, and they depicted a story of a 19 yr old girl who was currently in a 3yr relationship with her "good" boyfriend whom she met in high school but what happened was, she went behind his back and met a "badboy" who was older, he also had a daughter, and a sort of burnout lifestyle she was apparently having sex with both of them they depicted the nice guy as being caring and stuff, they depicted the bad guy as just a guy who gave her rough sex i personally don't buy the whole good guy bad guy thing 100% for a few reasons: 1. the "good" guy wasn't waiting for marriage so how "good" was he? 2. if anything i feel like she was the "bad" person and the two guys were "good" because she is the only one who was living a double life of deception anyway.. let me move along as i was watching this, here's what pissed me off.. the women who narrated the show were basically justifying the girl's decision to have an affair behind her high school girl's sweetheart's back "oh the bad guys are so exciting because..." "studies show girls like bad guys because..." "bad guys have a lot to offer girls because..." now.. this really freaking pissed me off to hear because i am a "good" guy.. hearing them praise bad guys really just irritated the crap out of me.. they totally justified that girl's behavior because "bad boys are just irresistable" so i'm sitting there like.. ok while u are talking about how great this guy is, lets see what happens as the show unfolds 1. she got pregnant MOST LIKELY by the bad boy because she only told the good guy about her pregnancy and he thought it was his and he was happy but she was adamant about wanting an abortion if she knew it was the good guy's she wouldn't have had the abortion 2. the bad guy ended up shoving and hitting the girl 3. the girl found a restraining order from the bad guy's previous g/f in his house 4. the bad guy stalked the girl and intimidated her 5. the bad guy eventually killed the girl with one bullet to her temple.. he also shot the good guy but he didn't die.. instead he lost vision in one eye and became paralyzed from the chest down SO.. what is my point? my point in saying all of this is I DONT WANT TO HEAR ANYMORE IGNORANT ASS WOMEN TALKING ABOUT HOW GREAT "BADBOYS" ARE AND HOW THEY ARE EXCITING AND HOW EVERY GIRL NEEDS TO PURSUE ONE that sh*t is so insulting and disgusting you want to talk like its so cool but that same guy will beat you, verbally abuse you, and probably have you paying all his bills prior to killing you that girl chased the bad guy and ended up dead at 21 so excuse me but i don't want to hear anymore of that nonsense.. about bad boys being so exciting and great and fun krs one once said this: an emcee can play around and be a mere rapper, but a mere rapper will never be an emcee i say, you can get all the qualities you want out of a good guy but you will NEVER get all the qualities you want out of a bad guy this is an interesting story about online verbal abuse what i would've done is ask him on twitter "why do you say these things?"
then if he responded with no remorse i would've blocked him i had a girl who was always condescending to me on facebook so i eventually told her to stop and she was like "this is who i am, i'm a smartass" so i blocked her either way its good to see cooler heads prevailed in this particular situation |
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