man.. no joke, nintendo is so funny to me.. gaimers are revolting against them today and i find it hilarious
this is a talk on college, so far i think this is my longest talk
i saw this on a blog today
some girl was apparently talking to her other female friend
i wanted to show it as an example of something i HATE
i copied and pasted this from her blog
again "me" is not ME.. its the girl whose blog this was
Me: So how are you?
Her: Because Doug doesn't seem happy
Her: I know you don't care
Me: Well I just honestly think that you're waaay too emotionally attached to someone who wants nothing to do with you
Me: So why continue to torture yourself?
Me: Why depend on a guy for happiness when it's clear that he doesn't feel the same about you? You laid it all out for him and he changed the subject. I'm so tired of girls thinking they need a guy to be happy. Especially the ones that push them away the most.
She stopped talking to me after that.
ok i wanted to show that because it is a great example of something i HATE
i HATE people who do crap like this
they ask you how your day was and when you respond with an honest answer they take it upon themselves to brow-beat you for what they perceive as your shortcomings
i really hate people like this.. i feel like they must be very insecure or something because why else would you ask someone how their day is and basically A. not accept the answer and/or B. make them feel worse about whatever their situation may be
why are these people so into their own opinions of others?
man i hate these people so much wow.. like i REALLY hate them
how about instead of forcing your opinion on someone who didn't ask you, why not just ask the person about their life? why not try to learn more about them without pulling the trigger on your stupid criticism so quickly?
why do you think you know how to live another person's life so easily? why do you think you have their whole life figured out? why don't you see how much of an arrogant person you are being?
you think you know everything i need to do in my life but trust me, if i took a look at YOUR life i could criticize you 10 times as much
these are the people who call you and ask you about sore spots in your life all the time.. they don't want to have a friendly conversation, they are like flies who are attracted to sh*t..
they want to pester you about a place in your life that may not exactly be perfect.. they just want to pick at you and pick at you to make themselves feel better
anyway.. here's the comment i left in response to the girl who dissed her friend
you were a real jerk to your "friend"
you asked her about HER day and then proceeded to lambast her about what you think she needs to do in her life.. she could probably criticize you for whatever she perceives as your shortcomings as well but she is likely a better friend to you than you are to her
how about providing a listening ear?
if you don't want to do that, how about just saying "you know how i feel but i wish you the best"
no.. you had to just act like your opinion of her and her decisions and her life was absolutely paramount
i am both amazed and disgusted by your hubris
it really comes as no surprise that you are proud of your behavior
look, you're entitled to your opinion, but you ARE NOT entitled to kick a person when they are down and be an arrogant jerk
do your friend a favor and leave her alone
this is you talking to your friends:
"how was your day so i can make fun of you and rake you over the coals for something that doesn't even affect me"
i think i have more to say but not right now..
i MIGHT have to do a video entry on this because i get a sense like there may be more to say.. this is a topic that really gets me riled up so this may end up merely being a part one
i may have share some personal examples too.. so keep this on your radar
i'm sure you've heard this before: "treat them like dirt, they'll stick to you like mud"
slick rick had a song called "treat her like a prostitute"
what do you guys think of things like this?
i've heard a lot of women say they like "bad boys" which is like women even saying they like this sort of treatment
'polite' doesn't really get you anywhere with girls it seems.. they seem to associate it with weakness
i even see it in my personal life sometimes.. i often notice the girls i don't give a crap about are the ones who chase me all the time
i can literally ignore a girl for months and she will contact me and ask me to go on a date with her
they never seem to think "well maybe he doesn't like me"
they seem to think "this is a fun challenge!" LOL
women always seem to want guys who don't need or want them
my personal analysis of this whole phenomenon is that this stuff is rooted in what men and women are
men = leaders/providers
women = followers/helpers
if a man is polite and asks a woman for approval or permission it is seen by her as like.. him not being a leader-type
something as simple as a guy saying "where do u want to sit?" could be a turn off to a girl.. when he really might just be thinking "i want to make her as comfortable as possible"
but i guess she is thinking something like "i'm comfortable as long as you lead me with confidence.. stop asking me right or left, i want to occupy my space as follower/helper"
with that said i guess in general we all need to make sure we allow the opposite sex to occupy their space
if they don't WANT to occupy their alotted space, or if they CANT right now- then they are probably single, am i right?
i guess men display more leadership type characteristics around girls they don't care about.. when a girl is a 9 or 10 we are afraid a lot of times she might leave so we try to roll out the red carpet
if a girl is a 6 or 7 we have a more take it or leave it mentality.. we are like "i'm not going to ask her what she wants, i'm just going to give her what i want her to have"
instead of saying "can i kiss you?" we say "massage my ball-bag"
girls don't want u rolling the ball in their court all the time.. asking them if u can do something
in a sense they are like kids.. they need more attention and more direction than us men.. us men oftentimes shun both attention AND direction because we are a lot of times naturally just more into our own thoughts and opinions and discoveries
so overall, i just wanted to speak a bit on this stuff
just some thoughts to put out there
one thing i must say though
a lot of you women contradict yourselves when speaking on what you like and dislike
"i want a man who loves and respects me"
you really just want a guy who leads you and tells you you have a nice butt
but i guess saying such would make you sound odd in today's society
my overall thought that i want readers to remember is this:
i believe that women want to be a man's 'garnish'
the thing that compliments a full life and makes it look better.. not the main course but something that rounds out the dish well
men however resent being a woman's 'garnish'
this (i believe) is why men may not want a woman who makes a lot more money than they do.. and also it seems to be why men don't want women who have super important careers where they have to pencil in dates with their man.. because this would likely make the man feel small
this is what i want you all to remember, because i believe this is at the heart of many of our gender issues and it is just very simple to remember.. so again:
women want to be a man's 'garnish' or trophy
men DO NOT want to be a woman's 'garnish'
i think if we get this, we could have a lot more functional relationships in modern society
i remember some guy on youtube put it very bluntly when he said 'women date up and men date down'
usually women want to date 'up' meaning find someone at least slightly older, taller, and/or more successful than they are
while men oftentimes are looking to date 'down' because we men don't want to be relegated to sidekick status
overall, we all want to occupy our roles with relative ease
laughen at the wii u
this was like my 3rd or 4th time listening to this commentary.. i kept rewinding it because it was so funny
nintendo is just making the dumbest decisions ever
releasing games called "balloon fight" and everything
i have a few entries to post that haven't seen the light of day yet
the reason they haven't is because of various technical difficulties and some i just never got around to posting
so i will commit to posting them if i get bored one day and want something to do
or maybe if i don't have anything to post for a while i might post them
i just want to let it be known i'm sitting on a few good entries
i remembered today when i was little my parents told me i sleepwalked into the living room/kitchen area and peed in the trashcan
upon having this memory i looked up the word sleepwalking and found this music video
i thought this was really good!
i don't know who this band is or anything, this is my first time hearing them but i really liked this song/video
there is a huge pro-gay agenda today
everything in media is about gay people
i mean literally 80% of everything in media is about gay people.. even unrelated things.. like the other day i clicked on an article about an interesting topic that had nothing to do with gay people, and as soon as i got to the page- it was about gay people (bait and switch)
on top of that.. u should've seen my face yesterday when i clicked on a recent interview of a rapper i like.. he walks in and immediately they said "we heard you would flip if you saw your son in a skirt.. some might say you sound homophobic" i was like WTF
first of all, how is this relevant to ANYTHING
second, why would you start the interview off like that? like can he get a hello? this dude literally just walked in, its like u have to have him cosign your crap before u agree to even interview him.. but whether he is for or against gay sh*t, THAT'S HIS CHOICE.. people don't seem to get that trying to force tolerance is actually oppressive
3rd, who wants their son to be gay? ur trying to demonize this rapper for having common sense.. like is he supposed to want to have a girl who acts like a guy? is he supposed to have a boy who acts like a girl? like wtf do u even expect? these people are seriously trying to make people dispell even the simplest logic
(^btw that fiasco was the last straw for me i'm done with media.. if its not talking Bible i'm not really trying to hear it)
these media companies are all merely subsidiaries of a few companies.. meaning they are all ran by very few people
the people have an obvious agenda
what do i think it is?
i think they want to bring a gay person into power soon.. this is why they are relentless in their pursuit to change public opinion
the problem with this agenda (other than promoting something that is morally debased) is the fact that i believe these proponents of homosexuality are bringing their own demise closer
well the Bible says the anti-christ will "have no desire for a woman"
i think the anti-christ will be gay
what people don't get in general is there are reasons why the media says certain things
people just accept it as "news" or as "truth" instead of as "this is what they want me to believe"
same issue with bin laden.. they lied about obama killing bin laden.. he died in like 01 or 02 in a cave bombing
they also did that batman shooting via drugging and hypnosis.. any idiot can tell that guy is being drugged.. how do u go to jail and sit for weeks, then go to court and still be high?
9/11 was done by us to gain money and create a diff atmosphere in america.. u can tell because for one, someone was waiting with a camera to film it before it happened.. and for two, the buildings obviously imploded.. which is the whole reason why they had to come up with a story on "how the towers fell" lol.. do u think they'd have to make a "how the towers fell" video if it made sense? no because if it made sense, gravity and logic would explain it
also i believe they want to cause economic collapse.. but before they do this they want to take away guns.. this way if people have no money and no weapons they can control and oppress us way easier
i also think the government is behind cash for gold.. i think they want to get gold and make dollars worthless.. thus increasing the disparity between rich and poor to a place of absolute tyranny
and i also see how they put all this information in plain sight.. like if you look at rap now there is a lot of gold imagery and rebirth of gold.. also a lot of cult imagery and "new religion" type lyrical motifs.. or like how after the batman bombing/shooting then lil wayne had that video with skeletons in the movie theater
and u know what's crazy? one of the best ways to fight the government's plans would be to just have babies, because the more people we have to stand up against them, the less leverage or power they have.. unfortunately, the birth rates around the world aren't even at replenishment levels anymore.. i saw a statistic the other day that said 1 in 4 babies in the u.s. are aborted.. its to a point where 25% of some of our populations are people over 60 (also with the rise of homosexuality there is less procreation)
my whole thing is, screw them.. they don't matter, we should not fear men we should only fear God
so my thing is.. enjoy each day and try to get better, and pray to not be tempted.. our time here is finite, so our afflictions here are really nothing in the face of eternity