i just want to speak on this quickly because i want to get my point out and drive it home with no fluff.. i've touched on it before but i want to touch on it again
the MAIN problem i see when i look at and/or for women is this: women project what they want instead of projecting what men want one of the main ways this happens is when women project assertiveness to a man, we view a lot of that as women being unapproachable, too serious, condescending, and overly calculated, in other words.. not fun for us in the least bit, and so we quietly walk past these women i see this time and time again here is my advice to any woman who may be reading this be genuine.. don't believe all the media hype about how women need to be strong, independent, educated, assertive, shouldn't cry, etc etc etc men do not seek for women to exude these things!!! you are not made valuable to us because you have worked your way to the top of your company or because you have 5 degrees, or because you love to debate.. you are not going to prove to us men that we should love you once we realize you are 'better' than us at everything.. like "oh wow you're better than me at everything, will you marry me?" LOL we compete with other MEN... WE DONT WANT TO COMPETE WITH WOMEN AT ALL. ALSO, WE ARE LOOKING AT A WHOLE DIFF SET OF CRITERIA THAN THAT STUFF WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN (which i may detail in a future blog) and speaking of the whole "don't cry in front of a man" thing.. i've heard SO many women say "i will never let a man see me cry" you have been brainwashed by all those deodorant commercials that show strong, unaffected women flexing muscles in the camera.. you've been brainwashed by all those 'feminism-put-to-a-beat' beyonce songs MEN LOVE SEEING WOMEN SHOW EMOTION.. it is one of the main ways we gauge where you are.. if you bitterly "refuse to show emotions to a man" .. what u don't get is, the man in your life oftentimes will interpret that as "she just doesn't care" NO MAN WANTS A STOIC WOMAN.. ITS NOT NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE TO US WE LOVE WOMEN WHO SHOW EMOTION BECAUSE IT IS GOOD FOR PROCREATION; A WOMAN WHO CARES IS MORE LIKELY TO PROTECT AND CARE FOR OUR OFFSPRING THAN ONE WHO IS STOIC what i am saying is completely opposite of anything you will see on television but men want women to be feminine, we want women, we men have facial hair, we have rough skin, we don't want women to be what we are.. we don't want women with masculine traits.. WE DONT FIND IT ATTRACTIVE this is the MAIN thing going on today.. women think men want a strong, independent, non emotional, assertive, successful, educated, ceo type of woman we don't.. we want the girl who wears pink and laughs at our corny ass jokes WOMEN: STOP PROJECTING WHAT YOU WANT.. women think that because they want their men to be strong, assertive, ambitious, independent, and rough around the edges that men must be seeking those same traits in women WE AREN'T!!! trust me, if any woman reads this and soaks it in, she will be head and shoulders above 80% of women today don't get me wrong, a lot of women naturally know what men want, but the media is definitely singing a different tune these days and it is brainwashing a lot of women.. so don't believe the lies
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