why do women think sarcasm is so attractive? my theory is that women like sarcasm in men but men don't like it in women.. BUT WOMEN DONT KNOW MEN DONT LIKE IT here's my explanation.. sarcasm and humor are both forms of intelligence.. i think women are attracted to intelligent men or men who exude signs of intelligence/awareness men however do not share this same viewpoint when it comes to women.. we don't value "smart" when it comes to women.. the words: "bimbos" and "dumb blondes" come to mind a lot of times we men just think sarcastic women are either jerks, depressed (defense mechanism), or trying to sound intelligent.. but not the genuine intelligence.. more like pseudo hipster "intelligence" sarcastic women are kinda annoying to men generally.. they are women you chill with but never really date or take seriously SO with that said, i had a little dialogue with a girl from plenty of fish about her sarcasm.. here's her profile note her headline lets recap:
NO, I DONT HATE YOU, THATS MY SARCASM IM EXTREMELY SARCASTIC SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE OFFENDED REMEMBER, DON'T BE HURT WHEN I SAY SOMETHING HURTFUL! AHYUCK! when i read her profile, i sent her a message, i told her about when i dated a girl who was super sarcastic and how quickly it got old she said "oh its just my humor, i'm not overly sarcastic" then i went back to her profile, and i saw she changed it.. she took out the parts about being extremely sarcastic and how it hurts peoples feelings at least she kinda heard me out but overall, this is just another one of those things where i don't get why women think this is cool.. this is a big problem on plenty of fish and dating sites in general women are always talking about how witty and sarcastic they are.. why do this? why do you think people like hearing you crack dry, negative jokes all the time.. especially when a lot of them are bound to be about me? (i.e. "sometimes people are offended" "don't let me hurt your feelings") so let's see, i get to take you out, buy you dinner and one of two things happens.. A. you do a seinfeld-esque comedy routine about your life B. you make fun of me and say "i'm just kidding" over and over how about you stop wasting time talking about how amazingly funny you are and post a picture that isn't a mere closeup of your face?' oh and another thing.. you're sarcastic, you wear glasses, and your taste in music is a huge "benefit" for everyone around you YOU'RE A HIPSTER.
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