u know...
i think our society is a joke in a lot of ways a lot of the 'glue' that used to hold families together and keep order is gone two of the main things i will quickly touch on are porn and successful women women are going out and getting all these degrees and all these medical jobs and their more mild nature assists them in climbing the education and corporate ladders.. they are oftentimes making more money than men but this usually alienates the couple from one another the woman feels she doesn't need the man and the man can't shake the feeling that he has no defined role in the relationship the man and the woman are at odds- that is, if they establish any sort of connection at all under such circumstances we also have the issue of pornography women used to be the only place for men to find that sexual intimacy outlet.. well today men can find a sexual outlet on a computer screen it is not only anonymous but also free and convenient men no longer have to deal with the challenges of women and their changing moods and desires even when men don't seek out porn, many women will put out freely, thus FURTHER alienating men from women by making marriage seem impractical or even altogether unimportant conclusion: a man's role has been not only devalued- but also basically abolished sex has been devalued to a point of it going from a sacred special act of bonding, to becoming the subject of hollow idioms like "no strings attached" or "friends with benefits" i for one still want to be a strong provider for a family unit.. i still want defined gender roles in my household and i still value sex and its ability to bond... call me crazy but i happen to WANT strings attached unfortunately i cannot speak for anyone but myself so i quietly type as i watch society chase its own tail
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