so i was on meetme.com and i wanted to use some of these posts i saw as an example of women being elusive and confusing this is not a diss to women, it is just me showing how guys see you and what we are thinking this girl seems decent, i don't know her i just wanted to use her as an example all these posts from this girl are within a day of each other ok so a guy is thinking something like.. "she's a single mom so she's probably looking for a guy" ..not only because she's a single mom but also because SHES ON MEETME.COM this is misleading though because she appears to be completely apathetic toward the prospect of meeting men (keep reading) guys are trying to get in your life.. guys are trying to occupy a space in your life somehow if you stop talking to him and he's still interested then he's like what gives? my guess is that she just isn't interested, but obviously she's not saying that.. she's saying she's busy.. which is why he says "ok well then hit me up when u get a chance" WHICH WONT HAPPEN so when she says she's busy that's essentially a lie.. you can dress it up and say its a "not now" or "he should get a clue" but at the end of the day no one wants to be led on.. so lets call a spade a spade.. its a lie she attempts to indignantly justify ignoring people who are interested in her this one was just weird to me because she says "#getyourlife" as if whoever she's indirectly talking about has no life, or as if she has a 'fuller' life than what they have she also called them a whiny baby, essentially insulting them because they express interest in her, which again ESSENTIALLY is her telling them to go away btw.. if you are so busy on your "grown woman money tip" then why are you always on meetme.com responding to things that you seem to think are petty? i'm just pointing out how her words and actions seem contradictory to onlookers aka interested men here a guy asked her if she direct messages people she didn't answer the question.. she also didn't acknowledge the fact that he ALREADY messaged her and she apparently didn't respond to it here is basically, not a LIE, but a sort of lie.. it is an evasive tactic.. women do this a lot instead of saying "i read your message but didn't respond" or "i saw that you messaged me but didn't read it" she avoids it altogether by playing dumb or averting attention to something else unfortunately, her tactic points the finger back at the guy as if he made some sort of mistake, when the reality is she just isn't interested in him my new gauge for these things is like this.. a girl gives me an excuse and then i ask myself a question like: "if i was justin timberlake, would i have heard this same excuse?" the answer is pretty much always NO. and if the answer is no, that means she is not interested in you.. because its not a matter of her excuse, its a matter of her priorities here she is contradicting what she said earlier about being too busy at work to talk or make plans or anything.. she's taking pictures of herself at her job and posting them to the internet.. and not only that, but she is typing out responses to the comments, while still at work this kind of stuff is confusing to men.. we see it and we are like, "ok she said this, but she DID, this.. so which is it?" and normally when we weigh out what to do (pursue or leave her alone) we go with pursue, because that's what we want to do and we are giving the girl the benefit of the doubt like: "well maybe she really is busy even though she doesn't seem too busy" but to any male reading this, i want you to choose the "leave her alone" option next time don't listen to her words, look at her actions she said she's too busy to talk to you but she's online all day taking pictures and responding to everyone except you.. revoke your attention from her immediately and seek to give it to a girl (or thing) deserving of it she obviously has time on the weekend to go out, but SHE DOESNT WANT TO DO ANYTHING WITH YOU
this is what i mean when i say its about her priorities, not her excuses so overall, i just wanted to speak on this because its very common i'm not going to tell women to be more truthful because i highly doubt if that would ever happen so men.. here's what i want to say to you: don't waste time and emotional energy chasing women, tell them it would be fun if they came to hang out with you and if they give an excuse, move to another one immediately.. i'm only saying this to you because women don't say no, they give you excuses.. we men oftentimes will keep pursuing until we hear a flat "no" in other words.. you will find yourself pursuing something that isn't actually available to you for one reason or another in other words, you will be boosting her ego and wasting your own time remember to ask yourself "if i was (insert guy that women love here) would i have gotten this excuse?" if the answer is 'no' then let her go because she is about to waste your time girls won't even tell you they have a boyfriend.. they will really word things in a way to where you basically think she's single but she's actually engaged women really are that desperate for attention, so remember, don't LISTEN to her.. watch her actions based on what i've shown from this girl's profile.. you can see that women can be confusing until you know what to look for
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dlux
8/14/2013 12:36:39 pm
not to cuss on ur page but all I can ever think while readin posts like these is: "b*tch please!!!!!" like foreal....u sound angry and bitter. if u independent why u on meetme??? if that aint a dumb paradox. "workflow" but ur tatt showin? sit down! u don't want a man...ur an attention whore...u want to be pursued cuz ur insecure.
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pool boi
8/14/2013 08:42:12 pm
wow you said it!
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