this is a long drawn out talk about what i think female beauty is and/or should be, or what i appreciate.. you can skip this entry completely if you want.. i say that because i feel like its just me thinking outloud.. a lot of my entries i think are worthwhile however this feels more like thinking outloud and its very long so read on or don't.. its up to u
I want to talk a bit about beauty I am a big fan of natural beauty I think things like stretch marks, bushy eyebrows, and arm fat can all be a part of a woman’s beauty I don’t really look at “imperfections” as imperfections all the time I am a person who can develop an admiration for all that a woman is under the right circumstances I mean being made up is nice also but I also just like women sometimes when they are just like… bare essentials I guess I was born in 1984 so a lot of my upbringing was in the late 80s and early 90s.. back then I lived across the street from a trailer park.. I always lived in a house but 35% of the kids at my school lived in a trailer park, and the other 35% lived in the projects What I mean is I always have loved “poor” or “low class” women a lot.. I generally think they are beautiful because they are more honest, less pretentious, more family oriented, more real, and they just have an aura of this down to earth femininity I grew up seeing these type of women, I grew up seeing their love and care despite the fact that they didn’t have the money for the expensive cereals, toys, and clothes.. they just appeal to me in certain ways.. and to me they just plain look better than a lot of the women who have the means to try too hard Also in the late 80s and early 90s women dressed in a way that would be considered “dressed down” today I think.. like women used to wear baggy clothes, overalls, big hair, non-matching colors.. they just seemed more “loose” and less grandiose.. women generally just appeared more ‘natural’ back then than they do today Do women try a lot harder today? I’d say so.. and one theory I have as to why is because the virtuous women have to compete with the hoes and the hoes have to compete with porn The competition would have been way less in the 80s and early 90s since there was less hoe-activity and no internet for widespread pornography ^that’s just a personal theory I have anyway… moving onto another aspect of beauty i have heard some women say men want them hairless, I don’t mind hair.. I don’t think of hair as being masculine, I mean to me- if God gave you hair in a certain place, then God just gave you hair there when it comes to gray hair I see nothing wrong with that either.. why hide it? The Bible says it’s a symbol of wisdom.. I say rock your gray hair.. don’t allow society to tell you that you need to dye it some women say men want them to shave their pubic hair or maybe it has gotten to the point where this is just common knowledge among women sorta like shaving your armpits.. however personally, I have nothing against a woman with her natural pubic hair.. again it just goes back to being natural I dated this one girl who was like a hippie once and I liked how she seemed ‘natural’ and ‘free’ ..she would do weird and cute things like I remember one day we were in my car and she turned upside down in the seat lol.. she was really a ‘go with the flow’ type.. and I kinda like that quality both in behavior and in beauty.. so if a woman has a crazy bush down there and she just lets it grow, I think that’s fine.. I mean you get pubic hair when you become “of age” so what is bad about that? Doesn’t it symbolize something? This segment is somewhat of a sidenote: And this is another aspect of beauty.. I think we live such distracted lives that a lot of times we don’t see what nature says to us Back 500, 1000, or 2000 years ago, people knew a lot more about nature and spacey things than we do because they weren’t as distracted.. today we have a lot of immediate knowledge yes but what about these cultures with shamans and witch doctors and guys who tapped into spirits and native americans who danced to try to bring rain? What about those guys who could venture out at night and find their way home by looking at stars? Do we understand how these things work today? Some do but the reason we call these things “ancient wisdom” is because we’ve lost a lot of this stuff.. we were more in tune with nature and what it actually meant before we became distracted with tv and kim kardashian and the video games.. when you go outside into nature you can basically see God and His everlasting creations, but today a lot of times we only see nature on tv.. 95% of our time is spent in a city or on a computer screen, so we no longer notice the things that speak to us quietly… because we’re inside watching movies or listening to gossip for example.. doesn’t nature itself tell you that men are givers and women are receivers? But honestly today people are so distracted we can’t even see these basic things that are obvious to anyone paying attention.. people wonder about “why this” and “why that” when it comes to gender roles but much of what has been established can be seen with the naked eye the bible promotes this way of seeing the world at times as well.. “what are the implications of God making male and female?” “what are the implications of two becoming one flesh?” oftentimes the outer is a mere visual representation of an inner quality.. “why are men taller and stronger?” “why are women more flexible?” we have to try and see through the surface of things and see what God is trying to tell us “naturally” even in the area of racism.. how can someone go outside and see 1,000 different trees, 500 different birds, and 2,000 types of flowers and determine that they are all good.. but then turn around and say one race of people is ‘ugly’ or ‘undesirable’ or something stupid like that? Variety is a part of life here, you are supposed to appreciate it not shun it ^my whole point there was to show that nature speaks to us and oftentimes has meaning.. so sometimes perhaps we should think twice before altering something that has inherent meaning and purpose Anyway back to hair.. back when I was growing up in the late 80s and early 90s women didn’t really do their eyebrows.. again, it was more of a natural look back then.. I really hate it when I see women who cut their eyebrows off and draw them back on.. that ish is highly unattractive when it comes to black people.. what is up with so many black people wearing blonde hair? Like if you do it for fun once I can see that.. I’ve colored my hair red and blonde in the past just for kicks, but I wonder how many people are doing it because they are avoiding being black Beyonce and nicki minaj come to mind.. like how is being black ever supposed to become cool or nice or attractive or respectable if all black people have blonde hair and they get nose jobs? This is off subject a bit I also want to say that when I was growing up it was still rebellious for men and teen guys to have the one earring in their left ear.. by the time 2000s came then men were putting them in both ears.. rappers were the first people to wear earrings in both ears I believe.. I think cam’ron might’ve had a big part in it? All I know is by the 2000s, it was just like everyone was doing it I am going to go on record and say I still don’t approve of men wearing earrings Jewelry used to be a woman thing but now men rap about jewelry and carats and ice and colors of their gems all day.. I’m not into that.. its still girly because its superficial.. men are supposed to care about real sh*t Back to women The last thing I want to touch on is sweat.. I like women who sweat, I don’t think that is gross.. I don’t think a woman should have to hide her sweat because its “weird” or “unbecoming” I mean you’re a human Overall I’m saying I appreciate women how they are They don’t have to live up to some fake Hollywood thing for me I don’t know why I wrote this but it felt good to get these thoughts off my chest
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