i just found this on a website.. i had to post it because i relate.. the guy's words are in orange
Do you ever get tired of telling women they're wrong? (then he went on to say a girl he knew said a sound effect word was an oxymoron- but he told her no it was an onomatopoeia and she got angry) In all, do you feel that sometimes you should just let women be right? I know a lot of men beat down on women and dont give them the time to articulate, or acknowledge their minds and reason. I don't like to make women feel bad, even though the truth hurts, but I'd prefer not to bend the truth , or limit it blatantly. Ignorance is bliss , and sometimes I feel it's not "right," or proper to take that away from them. A slave who doesn't know freedom is happy, and truth is abusive to ignorance. So do you ever just give chicks a pass sometimes? this is something i've experienced also i sometimes ask myself what it all comes from why don't women accept when they are wrong? like instead of getting an "oh, ur right" or a "let's look it up" you get a mean stare or a cold attitude.. and i've noticed generally- a mean/angry female outlasts a goodhearted man in a standoff of "NO..YOU back down!" this situation makes it dang near impossible to tell some females anything a goodhearted man wants to keep the peace so bad that he may just concede.. just to keep her from being so cold and to keep her from holding herself for ransom for an undeserved apology again.. i wonder what this comes from.. i have two theories on what it stems from 1. pride.. just not wanting to be seen as anything less than perfect or extremely close to it 2. previous boyfriend/male baggage.. some guy raked her over the coals for being wrong and so now she refuses to acknowledge or accept any criticism no matter how minute i once got in an argument with a girl years ago because she said she had a 10megapixel camera and that was the highest that they go i was like.. no they go higher than that then i got the whole gum-smacking eye-rolling thing and this was after a good night we had do you have any idea how demoralizing it is to have a good time capped off with your love interest's displeasure? its like everything you guys just did no longer matters.. and as a male you know she isn't going to call you back or anything i said outloud.. "i'm not trying to diss you, i'm just saying, they go higher than that because i used to work at an electronics store" it is painful when a person gets so mad at you for trivial nonsense.. it makes you feel absolutely worthless can you imagine trying to keep someone happy and impressed for 4 to 6 hours only to have them get upset at you because you point out that some cameras have more than 10 megapixels? it makes you feel like trash.. if you are that easily thrown away then regardless of how much she laughed at your jokes, regardless of how much she liked dinner, and regardless of how much she claims to enjoy spending time with you- her actions just proved to you that she sees you as someone who is easily disposable SO whoever wrote that mini article thing.. THANK YOU for expressing something i've never really seen put into words before but if you've read this far.. leave a comment.. tell me what you think has this happened to you? are you a guy or a girl? what do you think this unwarranted hostility and attitude stems from?
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