one day not too long ago i was talking to a girl and she said she was sleeping on the couch in her apartment instead of the bed
i asked her why and she said she had just moved in, but she realized she will be moving again soon to a different building so she said she wanted everything in the room to be brand new for the person who would move in after she left.. so instead of getting comfortable, she tried to leave everything untouched and refused to even take her bed out of the plastic i thought wow, what a nice girl i realized though.. i do the same thing with females.. i don't want a guy to have to unwrap a used girl on his wedding night so i don't go out screwing chicks or taking virginities away or anything as a guy, i know no guy wants to know i banged the girl he wants to marry, so i try to chill and not unwrap another man's gift but the fact is most people don't even care.. madd people just don't even take this stuff into consideration.. they don't have the same integrity of the girl who refused to take the plastic off her bed.. they don't have that kind of love for their fellow man they don't have that integrity that says: "i'm not going to violate you.. in fact- somehow if we ever split up i'm going to try and leave u better than how i found you" madd guys just don't care that they leave a trail of emotionally damaged women but i'm like that girl who was sleeping on the couch, cuz i care i'm gnna keep things in the same or BETTER condition than how i found them.. even tho i've been wronged in this area i've dated girls who've had one-night stands, vacation flings, and even girls who have been raped why didn't these previous guys think of 'the next guy' ? if you don't plan on marrying her then there will indeed be a 'next guy' think about how 'the next guy' is affected by your actions.. see, there have been situations where maybe i would've wanted to marry someone but i can't based on some sexual issue.. such as: i think she is a hoe and i don't trust her or she has a kid by another man now or she has an std or she has too much emotional baggage now those^ are mere scenarios but i actually have a real life example that happened to me i liked one girl and i was talking to her and she appeared to like me also.. we were hitting it off great but guess what? she turned up pregnant while i was trying to talk to her! smh i actually liked her a lot! now ask me if she's married to the guy who got her pregnant. james, is she married to the guy who got her pregnant? NO. james, is she married AT ALL!? NO. and my point is.. maybe if someone had tried to preserve her 'newness' (back to the mattress analogy a bit) at some point, then maybe she would've ended up as my wife.. but instead she's some guy's baby mama, because no one thought about 'the next guy' so my point is: props to the people like that girl who preserve that 'newness' for other people to enjoy i hope God honors this type of integrity i would say it is rare today. BTW i am not trying to say i have a lot of integrity because i will download your album instead of buy it any day of the week lol.. i just wanted to put out some thoughts on being responsible and preserving sexual purity because no one talks about this anymore people who try to uphold these things are laughed at in this society and sex is like shaking hands for some people but my view is a great deal of this peer pressuring, guilt-tripping, and seducing people into sex needs to stop because a lot of it comes from a very selfish place.. you just want to use a girl (not just females tho) and then throw her back in the sea.. that's effed up, bro cuz u know nggas don't want to marry mrs. leftovers
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