do u guys think people on dating sites are inherently flawed?
i think so more and more.. for women its like they just got out of an 8 yr relationship or a marriage, or they are hoes, or they have 3 kids, or they are just very fat for men its like (at least in my case) i don't have my life 100% together, i'm still in college and i don't even really know what i'll be doing once its over.. some other guys may be players or secretly married or whatever else what made me think of this is.. when i watched the tim dog online dating scam thing on msnbc i realized his whole profile should've rang alarm bells because it said the following: height: 6'1 age: 44 income: $250,000/yr status: single have kids?: no i was sitting there thinking to myself HOW IN THE F*CK COULD A GUY WITH THOSE CREDENTIALS BE SINGLE? like these women should've already known that if all that stuff was true then guess what? ..HE WOULDN'T HAVE TO GET ON A DATING SITE !!!! women would be breaking their backs trying to lock him down so i think to myself.. are any of these people actually worthy of dating? i partially think the whole online dating world is like a pool of the untouchables not pointing fingers, because i used to be on dating sites.. but no one (that i like) seems to ever like me in real life and its the same thing on the dating sites.. so why even bother? i could probably meet someone online who is 300lbs with 3 kids but i'd rather stay single than be with that person or maybe i will find someone online who actually looks good but they will turn out to be so superficial that i can't stand it my point is that, regardless of what the person's "flaw" is.. the fact is i'm meeting up with flaws think about it.. why would a 'great catch' be on a dating site? would you ever see someone like usher on a dating site? do u think i will ever see christina aguilera (post pregnancy <--- my preference hehehe) on a dating site? not to say usher and christina are so great, but i'm just saying that some of the most desirable people probably won't be on there.. or would they? (<---because again, currently this is all just theory) example of what i mean: ok i'm a guy, so say i run across a girl online who looks like a 10.. 500,000 other guys also think she's a 10 so what even would make me think i could stand out from the crowd in her eyes at all? chances are she is only online for attention, because if she's a 10 she probably already has a boyfriend all of this is just me thinking outloud, i'm not calling anyone out.. these are just hypothetical thoughts and questions my question is.. shouldn't you be able to meet someone in real life? and if you can't meet someone in real life.. shouldn't you probably just work on yourself? and if you DO go online.. do u really think the people you meet will have any value to you? maybe for them, going online is an act of desperation and maybe that desperation is a result of no one wanting them in real life in which case, you're essentially scraping the bottom of the barrel aren't you? anyone have any thoughts on this?
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