so today at work a chick comes in and invites me to a church.. i told her "i go there"
she's like "oh i haven't seen you there" i was like "yeah i just started going there.. but i go to three different churches so sometimes i'm at a different one" she didn't seem to believe me so i told her about one of their recent services i went to then she started telling me i should only go to one church like what is that? i have a few problems with that 1. what is wrong with me going to multiple churches? every church is not open EVERY day so having a few diff ones allows me to go on more occasions 2. why do u think u can tell me what to do when u don't even know me? 3. where in the Bible does it say only go to one church? i feel like a lot of church people aren't satisfied until you are a bonafied carbon-copy group member.. i'm not a member of your church body as much as i'm a member of the body of Christ.. like attending YOUR church is not as important as attending A church.. like do they just want people to only attend their church so they can crank out these carbon copy people? like what would make you happy? you want me to sign my name and u can have my income information and whatever else? you want me to pledge to only go to your church? you want my phone number and address and social security number? like why does any of that matter? i like going to diff churches so i can have access to a lot of diff activities and diff people.. plus by going to a few churches, i have more choices on when i go because instead of 2 or three services a week, there are like 7 at diff times and on diff days i didn't mind her inviting me to church, i just don't see why she thought she could tell me i'm wrong for going to diff churches.. like i don't agree so i guess we have nothing else to talk about i am all for telling people what they need to hear, but i feel she was out of line in the sense that i don't know her and she doesn't know me and I GO TO HER CHURCH.. like why couldn't she just be like "oh u go to our church? great well i hope to see you sunday" see that would've been cool, but she had to give me more of her opinion as if she is just 100% right and i am just 100% wrong.. it just came off as absurd to me ++++++ then later, another girl came in and i said something with the word "chick" in it she said "don't say the word chick.. young lady is fine but you can say chick when i'm not around" WOW. this is exactly what i'm talking about when i say being a man is seen as offensive or aggressive automatically to some people.. like as a male, i have no leeway to say or do basic and normal things without being accused of 'insensitivity' or whatever other buzz-words feminist-y people like to use think about it.. if she says "guy" or "dude" then she's not being out of line but if i say "chick" then i'm being disrespectful i mean i've never hit a woman i generally compliment the girls in my life a lot i even write positive songs about women and here i am being scolded "don't call a young lady a chick" look, my grand-dad always called my sister "chick-a-dee" when we were growing up as a term of endearment i don't, nor have i ever seen the word "chick" as disrespectful thats how i talk! but it goes hand in hand with the other incident i talked about why do people (namely WOMEN) think they can tell me what to do? why should i stop saying chick just because u want me to? if i say chick 10 more times in her face i would be seen as the prideful and out of line one.. but WHO IS SHE TO TELL ME NOT TO SAY THAT WORD?! that's pride! because even if she hates that word, why couldn't she just be cool about it? why do u have to scold me while i'm in the middle of a conversation like i'm a child? why not just chill and let it slide? why not wait til there is a better time to tell me or just keep it to yourself.. I AM NOT GOING TO LIVE UP TO YOUR MADE UP STANDARDS seriously.. like why do people think they can tell me "don't go to more than one church" or "don't say chick" like who asked you? who told you that you can tell me what i should and shouldn't do? i don't mind being corrected but let it be by the right person, in the right context.. not just random people telling me what i need to do out of the blue like seriously this is absurd i get so tired of uppity females thinking they are above me somehow long story short, women think men are dumb today.. its to a point where if i say something madd intelligent, women just get angry with me they are surprised when they realize they are not the only ones who can think complex thoughts and have foresight, and plot and plan and manipulate at will don't believe your own hype so much you CAN get beat in a verbal argument or if you meet the wrong guy u could just get snookie'd stop with this disrespect I DONT HAVE TO BE LIKE YOU!!!! AGAIN I DONT HAVE TO BE LIKE YOU!!!! YOU DO NOT HOLD THE LEASE ON EVERYTHING THAT IS GOOD OR RIGHT
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i love the old chubby kelly osbourne from like 2001 and ish
here's an old clip of her talking to her mom sharon from 'the osbournes' show lol.. so funniez one thing i've noticed is people lie a lot.. like way more than i ever imagined
people lie about their status in life, how well off they are how have i realized this? if you ask most people what type of education they have, about 80 to 85% of people say they have a college degree if you look up the actual statistics for your state, i guarantee you its way lower than 85% this has made me think about many other ways people lie to each other overall i find it to be very destructive people act like their life is so perfect, like they have it all together no one is honest if i say "i've bounced around in jobs, i've had a hard time finding my niche" that's madd honest and most people can relate to it however most people won't say that.. instead they will act like things come easily and naturally to them i've noticed people do it everywhere for example.. say you play a racing game and you upload your fastest time on youtube someone will leave a comment saying they beat your time by 15 seconds but where is THEIR upload? where is their video proof? exactly. NOWHERE. people just like to nonchalantly tell you that they are better than you in some way shape or form why do people do this? why not just be honest? why are we so secretive about receiving help or not being 'as good' as the next guy at a thing? why do we try so hard to keep up appearances? why is everyone so fake? why are people such liars? recently i was talking to my sister and she told me about one of her friends who writes blogs and books from a Christian perspective she told me about how this person writes columns on not watching porn, and tells people to stop fornicating and whatever else my sister confessed to me that this person literally has sex outside of marriage and watches porn and even has same-sex relations whenever they feel like it when my sister told me this i was shocked and disgusted are you really able to sleep at night knowing your whole life is a lie? to me that is just awful i mean.. you call yourself an expert on resisting temptation when you give in to it all you want! you make people who are really trying feel alienated and like they are failures because you are probably being condescending to them.. you make resisting temptation look 'easy' and you paint yourself out to be so holy when in reality u are worse than your followers!!! like.. my thing is this.. why lie? why try to make yourself look so perfect in the eyes of men? why not just be real about who and what u are? you don't even have to go out telling people you are a freak or pervert.. here's a novel concept.. how about just DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL! the Bible has a name for hypocrites.. they are called pharisees look up the characteristics of pharisees and you will see they are all ass-clowns look can we stop with the lies ? i tell girls certain things about myself that they may not want to hear, but i am telling them the truth, doesn't that have any value? what is better.. some guy who appears perfect who smiles in your face and then cheats on you? <---(i've seen it 1,000 times) or a guy who puts his issues on the table and says "look, this is what it is, but i'm willing to work on myself and work with you" ? tell me seriously which is better? look lets try to stop with the lies in society the political correctness, the putting on of airs.. lets just be real with each other if we can't be real, lets just be quiet.. there is no law against being quiet JUST DONT LIE PLEASE good day. why am i just now finding out about this show 'curb your enthusiasm' ? man this show is so funny.. i'm going to try and see if i can get the seasons on dvd or something i've been watching clips of it this morning and i love how his humor is so rooted in everyday life's awkward moments one thing i kinda want to speak on is middle men
pretty much any place where you find something desirable, what you also find is a middle man if you are looking into getting a new house then the middle man there will be your realtor a realtor is actually helpful.. they actually serve a purpose, they save you time and get you what you want and help to inform you of things you don't know about so you could say a realtor is a positive middle man however there are also a lot of negative middle men who take and do not provide anything back negative middle men are something to always keep an eye out for.. they prey on people who are ignorant.. but most of all they prey on the greedy.. and those who seek to take without giving much effort one of the best ways to not be conned is to have your own stuff and not covet the things and lives of people richer and/or more well off than you look at all the people who have been scammed in pyramid schemes.. or women being conned by "rich" men who want to wine and dine them.. or look at something as simple as gambling and who really wins in the long run i think this is kinda why the Bible says 'be anxious for nothing' .. it basically says go to God... receive what you want through prayer, patience, and by doing His will as opposed to jumping at all types of silly schemes.. because the schemes you chase will leave you a lot worse off than where you are right now middle men know what you want and they know that they can use your desire against you i have found that middle men and con men are pretty much everywhere in this world.. i have become privy to this because i used to try to get into the music industry and through this, i have seen that there is a lot of fake and phony stuff out there.. it sounds cliche but its very true there are probably thousands of people who promise they will "help you become an award-winning artist" in the world i know this because being so much into music, i have been approached by these people and programs often.. especially back a few years ago when i was sending out demos everywhere and doing whatever i could to get heard the vast majority of these things are set up to take your money and give you nothing more than a little peace of mind or sense of security.. in other words they are PIMPS again, these scam-artists set up shop anywhere where there is a strong desire for something.. for example.. some churches are not really following Christ.. they just give you an affirming word and take your money.. and don't even get me started on all the fake modeling agencies out there smh.. again.. pimps can be anywhere but anyway my whole point in writing this today is just to remind my readers to be on the lookout for scams, middle men, con-artists and pimps not only those looking for money, but also those looking for sex or whatever a person may want keep your eyes open oh and before i go one great way to make sure you're not conned is don't allow people to talk you into anything quickly.. if you're not sure about a thing, say "i'll sleep on it" and before you go to sleep that night pray about what you should do if they don't want you to sleep on it then flat-out say no and walk away. keep your eyes open at all times ! ^this has been a word of love from me to you! im here to protect and serve!! do u remember old eminem? when i say old i mean like 1999 - 2000 eminem i still think the old eminem is/was great in a lot of ways i kinda see myself in his old footage and freestyles and interviews and rhymes the main difference to me tho is that he was angry.. u can find the source of his anger in his music like in one of his old rhymes he said "don't be nice to me, i've had it with girls/ and i'd still be mad at the world, even if it apologized to me/" so from that u can deduce he had animosity toward women for whatever broken relationships he had and he was also angry with the world as a whole because of general hardships and pains experienced prior to fame back in the early days of his career he was so smart and clever not saying he isn't now, but when he came out he was more of a rapper's rapper.. today he is more mainstream and i would say he's not as angry that anger seemed to fuel a lot of his humor and controversy like i remember one of my friends had the slim shady lp and i looked in the cd booklet and he was in there smiling but he had bloodstains on his shirt lol.. he had like this sort of mr. rogers serial killer thing going on.. it was very absurd also remember how signature his flow style was? "hate on us? we'll be waiting on 8 corners/ swarmin ya hood with a thousand angry skateboarders/" he just had such a weird style at the time.. i remember thinking "man what is wrong with his rhymes?" but after a while i began to see his vision.. it was like listening to some sort of hip hop themed comic book where sometimes it makes sense but sometimes its just slapstick.. also once i realized he was doing so many multi-syllabic rhymes, that made the off-kilter style make more sense as well that old eminem era of rap to me was great.. one of my personal favorite songs from the slim shady lp was that 'i never meant to give you mushrooms' song lol anyway, i just wanted to talk about that old eminem era because to me its always been important.. i think most rappers have an appreciation for the eminem of that time i'll leave u with a segment one of his signature old-style rhymes peaCe
take a minute and really look at this picture.. who is in the camera? what does the relationship dynamic between these 3 people look like? this is a picture of something i hate a woman has a best friend.. then she meets a guy, but her best friend still takes precedence over the man in her life
look... for real i am tired of this garbage, some of u women really need to grow up to see it from my point of view.. women- have you ever met a guy who you thought was a good guy up until u realized he was a complete mama's boy? he puts his mom over you in different ways everyday and God forbid his mom take a disliking to you because her distaste for you will soon become his its fine to love your mom but the mama's boy takes it to a degree where it is not only unhealthy, but also just plain WEIRD this is how a lot of u women act with your best girl friends.. u put your stupid high school friends over the men in your life and wonder why you and him are always at odds look stop with this i'm serious i have grown a severe HATRED toward women who do this.. not in the sense of i want to be violent toward them.. but in the sense of i have no patience for this stuff anymore when i see it.. let go of your stupid security blanket for once you foolish CHILD again.. GROW UP get your priorities straight.. i'm not saying ditch your friends but don't be the girl holding the camera in this picture sooner or later u will end up alone with your emotional lesbianism (btw, i came up with that term a few years ago on a blog.. i however don't think i am the only person who has used that term) emotional lesbianism is sortof a new phenomenon women who don't have sex with other women, but they are just too close with other women, again.. this stuff just really pisses me off put your man first.. don't be the female version of a mama's boy i watch a lot of crime shows
since 2010 i've been watching them, and there is a common thing that i just don't understand... why do people kill their spouse? its dumb on a lot of different levels one of the main things i don't get about it is why don't people just get divorced? when u watch crime shows u realize a lot of people kill the person they are married to, in order to pursue another relationship but why not just divorce that person and pursue that new relationship WITHOUT MURDERING YOUR SPOUSE? like why do people do this? it makes no sense what is so hard about saying "i no longer want to be in this relationship" ?? the other thing is.. you are likely going to be a prime suspect.. especially if you're a male i've seen a lot of crime shows and what i've noticed is women get the benefit of the doubt whereas men don't its to a point where i'd say there are probably virtually NO innocent women in jail think about it.. with abortion- women literally get away with murder in our society but we all know there are a lot of innocent men in jail.. even joseph in the bible was thrown in jail because a woman falsely accused him of rape.. u can even see this today with things like the duke lacrosse case.. my point is that people are ready to throw men under the bus QUICK.. i mean, men can be thrown in jail for something as basic as refusing to go to war anyway.. back to what i was saying it makes no sense to kill your spouse u might as well just leave them can someone explain to me why people kill their spouse to be with someone else? u kill your spouse and you're married to someone else two weeks later.. you look not only guilty but also crazy.. it just doesn't even make sense JUST LEAVE DONT KILL.. JUST WALK EXERCISE YOUR ABILITY TO WALK AWAY DONT TRY TO GET REVENGE OR ANYTHING.. LEAVE THAT TO GOD WALK AWAY AND LEAVE IT ALONE i don't even know what else to say about this its just something that boggles my mind oh one other thing.. try to be on guard about any life insurance policies.. if you can prevent a life insurance policy from being taken out on you then do it i don't know how u can prevent this, but if you can- do it.. a life insurance policy works for a family that stays together and loves eachother because when a person dies then the family doesn't have to struggle financially or think too much about funeral arrangements.. however if someone in your family is greedy you may find yourself dead "accidentally" sooo.. i thought about something very interesting recently
ok water is fuel for our bodies as well as for electricity and cars and devices.. the first time i really understood this was when a guy from the army was talking about how he works in a submarine and they can stay underwater for months without refueling because they get fuel from water (h2o aka hydrogen and oxygen) also there are water cars and whatever else but the oil people don't allow us to really hone water as fuel because they make so much money from oil so ok we've established that water is fuel now.. whats crazy is this at my job everyday i empty out the de-humidifier and every day its full.. the de-humidifier sits in a small room and every single day there is over a gallon of water in that thing so think about it.. water is fuel for our bodies as well as devices we need to live, and we can get it from the air think about that because its pretty deep.. that means nearly all the fuel we need is not only AVAILABLE, but also free and we don't even have to walk outside to get it.. water aka h2o aka fuel is literally in the air we breathe how deep is that? God gave us more than enough but people are so greedy that they ruin it for everyone not one person in this world should die of thirst because water is in the air no one should ever run out of gas because water is fuel we can't even blame God for any lack we have.. if u really think about it, its the extreme greed of a few that ruin it for so many people weirdly, i ran across these commercials today, and they r further confirmation of my blog i did about hulu a few weeks ago one thing about this type of stuff is.. if i have to explain it to u then u probably won't get it.. if you understand tho.. then u don't need me to explain.. so i will not comment further |
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