the hidden consequences Posted by poolboyjames on May 28, 2010 at 3:10 AM comments (0)i have noticed women who have sexual relationships with older men normally look a lot older than their actual age
i first noticed this on the show 'true life' when this 25 yr old chick said "i've been dating older men all my life, they're just so much more mature" and she just didn't look or seem 25 at all.. she looked a lot older than 25 ok first of all i don't think age is really an indicator of maturity.. like there are some things u may have going for u if u are older.. maybe u know what u want and maybe u know who u are.. however that doesn't mean u make good decisions, it doesn't mean u are free of bad habits, it doesn't mean u are easy to live with or fun to be around but anyway.. when she said she was 25 i was like WHAT!? lol she looked kinda like.. raggedy lol... but ever since then whenever i see a girl who dates older men i see that same thing.. the girl tends to look older than her actual age like the recent thing i just saw that's fresh in my memory was an episode of cheaters where this girl was 21 and her guy was 29.. she looked at LEAST 25.. at LEAST and i'm not saying this relationship aged her.. but i'm saying that it may have been happening over time.. like the women i see who date older men normally seem to do it repeatedly.. i think constantly having relationships where the guy is like 7 to 20 yrs older may likely just have that aging effect and this is pure observation.. i've seen guys date older women (albeit not as much as the other way around) but honestly in those relationships it still looked like the woman had a more youthful look and spirit as opposed to the guy seeming older than he really is but back to the original scenario.. i guess there is also the question of.. which came first? did the girl's aged look and spirit steer her toward the older man? or did the older man steer her toward looking and seeming older? i remember years ago i was talking to this guy and i asked him a tough question... i forgot what the question was, but he said "when questions like that come up the answer is always both" so maybe he is right in this instance also.. maybe it is both.. maybe she already had an old look and spirit, and the constant supply of older men ages her also i'm not even gnna give my opinion what do u think? also, just in general- do u think who u choose to have relations with affects you in any significant ways? are u just getting off and enjoying romantic feelings, or are u biting off a little more than u perhaps bargained for? ???? - my thoughts and ponderings for the night -
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