the other day i was talkin to a girl in class and i said to her
she said what do u mean? like u mean this class?
i was like "no.. i mean i just woke up bored.. like bored out of my mind"
so i realize i need to make some changes
this isn't about other factors or people right now
i'm my own worst enemy right now.. i have nothing and no one to blame, so i have to get out of this sort of boring rut i'm in
i wake up and i say dang i am fat as f*ck
and i know i'm not FAT, but what i mean is i can do better.. i should be in better shape point blank period
but there's no excuse
the problem is me
in all areas of my life today the problems are because of me
^^^in my opinion this is a good problem to have
because i can change the situation
u know its one thing to be like "i can't heat up my hot pocket cuz i dnt have a microwave"
u know, u just have to eat an icy hot pocket and ish
but its another thing to have a microwave, but still be eatin frozen hot pockets u feel me?
like basically if i have access to a gym everyday, then why the fck don't i have 6-pack abs?
ITS MY FAULT!
in my life in general, i have all the tools i need which is awesome i just need to step up my life game cuz in the game of life its like i been missen lay-ups and that ish is uncalled for.. i mean if i miss then it should at least be a 3pointer, not a damn lay-up u feel me?
soooo i suppose this is mostly personal
but it affects u because like i said, from now on i will update this everyday as God allows
i get irritated when i see girls going ga-ga over guys who just dog them
i mean.. i kinda don't get irritated cuz they always end up pwning theirself in the end
but its like.. why pwn urself when u can just meet a decent dude and build with him
i am probably oversimplifying things tho and i understand that
but to aid my point of view, and to show that my statements and thoughts are echoed by a knowledgeable woman
i decided to post an excerpt from an interview from Katie Couric with Michelle Obama
in this segment, the First Lady explains what she feels young women should look for in a man
my only statement is that i agree with what she says.. any further opinion i have is unnecessary
KC: Candice Jones from Memphis wanted to know how you landed such a good guy. Maybe he landed you, right? “Did you know that Mr. O was a great catch when you met him? What dating advice can you give a 26-year-old professional?”
MO: You know, Bar—my husband, the President of the United States…
KC: Is that still weird to say?
MO: Oh, yeah, I’m trying to do it with a straight face. He was always special, you know? And not special, like, He’s gonna be important, he’s gonna be president. He was special in terms of his honesty, his sincerity, his compassion for other people. Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you as a person? That’s the advice I would give to women: Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul.
Look at how the guy treats his mother and what he says about women. How he acts with children he doesn’t know. And, moreimportant, how does he treat you?
When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good. You should never feel less than. You should never doubt yourself. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole. And if you’re in that relationship and you’re dating, then my advice is, don’t get married.
KC: Or get out of it.
MO: Get out of it. And find that person who brings you complete and utter joy with who you are at the moment. (link: http://www.glamour.com/women-of-the-year/2009/michelle-obama?currentPage=1 )