she's not making sense Posted by poolboyjames on March 26, 2010 at 11:33 PM comments (0)i was talkin to a girl about what i could offer in a relationship
i told her i can fix things around the house, i am fun to be around, i can provide advice and a listening ear, i'm good atcleaning things etc. then i asked her what she could provide in a relationship she said "i'm a sociologist, i'm in school pursuing a doctorate, i'm a great woman, i'm certified in real estate" her response didn't make sense to me i didn't ask her whats on her resume and "i'm a great woman" was incredibly vague to me.. what is that supposed to mean? it really actually sounds kinda like conceited to me.. like who told u u are a great woman? her answer was so far from making sense to me it was insane u have 3 resume entries then a vague statement about embodying some sort of feminine greatness i mean ok for the 3 resume entries.. THAT WAS NOT THE QUESTION.. i asked what she could provide IN A RELATIONSHIP.. NOT TO SOCIETY i was thinking maybe she'd say "i can give massages, i am supportive, i am not judgemental, i can cook, i can give fashion advice" u know.. basic practical things that can be useful in a relationship.. not a TITLE, not something u got from an institution, like just your down to earth stripped down qualities that may be of some use and as for the "i'm a great woman" comment, that was just ridiculous.. what makes u this "great woman" ? and do u have the right to deem yourself that? ....and i'm all about inner confidence but when u agree to say something outloud at least have a reason for it for me its like sometimes i don't get girls like who are they trying to impress sometimes? sometimes i just think to myself.. "where do they get this stuff?" just listening to her response in general reminded me of how different men and women are i have a theory in general that women give men what women want and men give women what men want this is where the disconnect is when u find a woman who gives men what men want, u have someone who has a lot of success with the opposite sex when u find a man who gives women what women want, u have someone who has a lot of success with the opposite sex recognizing this is key it takes some stepping out of ur box, but i'd say its worth it buuuuut i'm out peaCe
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