second thoughts Posted by poolboyjames on September 16, 2010 at 10:50 PM comments (0)so today i was talkin to this guy and we got into a sort of argument/debate/disagreement
i pointed out a pretty girl to him and he was like "why didn't u talk to her?" i was like "......" to me being cute or attractive doesn't merit talking to someone.. for me there needs to be more to it than that so i was like "i didn't think she was my style" he was like "how do u know that, u don't know her" i was like "..... man.. just because someone is pretty doesn't mean i am willing to date them it doesn't even mean i'd waste my breath talking to them" and at this point we're both looking at eachother like "wtf r u talking about?" he's like "ur judging them, until u talk to someone U DONT KNOW whether or not u'll click with them" i was like.. "let me put it like this.. say a really pretty girl came in here wearing a marilyn manson shirt.. i'm not going to waste my time talking to that girl.. because i know we won't get along... so just because she's attractive to me doesn't mean she is worth something to me" he's like "i think u build up walls in your own head because u are afraid of being rejected.. your chances of being rejected are maximized when a girl appears very 'different' from yourself.. so u say it won't work before u even try as a result of your own insecurity" don't get me wrong i don't relinquish my own statements, but he definitely made some good points instead of agreeing with him, i just mental noted his statements and told him i saw what he was saying it was a neat little meeting of the minds i think either way.. i suppose because both perspectives have an amount of truth to them like in one of my classes i like a girl who is ultra-fluffy but i am telling u it works on her.. shorty is like snuggles from those laundry commercials or some ish but even tho she is attractive, i don't try to date her it definitely is a situation that coincides with the debate i had today so when it comes to my reasons for not asking her out.. wise foresight? or unjust judgement? meh... u decide.
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