no empathy 4 ur relationship Posted by poolboyjames on April 13, 2010 at 9:04 PM comments (0)ok i want to talk about why i'm not empathetic to people with relationship issues/problems
if u have relationship problems.. i will not sit and cry with u BECAUSE.... #1. it takes two.. u have ur side but there's another side and deep down u know what u did #2. some people are alone.. on some level u should be happy u have someone in ur life to have problems with #3. within reason u should expect some issues to arise in a relationship regardless of how good it is #4. sometimes u are just reaping what u have sewed.. in which case u have brought the pain on yourself #5. u are probably ignorant about the opposite sex on some level.. in which case its up to u to learn how to change and do better #6. a lot of these people have unrealistic expectations.. like for example if u start a relationship off by being the "other" man/woman then u should've had enough foresight to see that u will eventually be cheated on by that person also #7. (for unmarried people) do u really truly expect someone to be 100% true to u when they're not married to u? by carrying on a relationship with u with all benefits and no commitment they are pretty much saying (by their actions) "ur cool but i like to keep my options open" so should it REALLY be that big a surprise if they cheat on u? the list goes on and on the point is.. i really don't care about how bad u feel or how u got treated like trash by your ex dnt get me wrong, if i know u r really in pain and u are struggling i will be there for u.. but it has to be a REAL messed up situation.. like u've been happily married for like 5 yrs and u've just been cheated on for no real reason other than the person got "bored" or was seduced ^that i can understand but a lot of other stuff to me is just not worthy of mourning u feel me? oh and one last thing i had my heart ripped out of my ass and flushed down the toilet it was hard but its like what el-p said on the song 't.o.j.' "before i could become a grown man i had to lose my mind" meaning.. yes it is hard to have ur heart broken but u learn a LOT.. u mature, and u move on and ANOTHER THING i have noticed people oftentimes don't know the difference between dealing with feelings of rejection and actual mourning over a lost love rejection is death of ur pride.. to be honest.. just get over yourself.. let it die.. pride is not helpful.. its the same thing that won't let u get over an offense.. its the same thing that won't allow u to forgive however if ur truly mourning a lost relationship.. that is different.. that's not about pride, its just like whoa they are gone and i feel EMPTY ^i will show support to those in mourning if u are just upset because a person (who u were gonna break up with anyway) broke up with u first and u feel like they "won" .. then to me u need to wake up and look in the mirror ..ur wasting ur own time and energy being upset when u should really be feelin good about the situation *steps off pedestal* peaCe
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