constructive criticism Posted by poolboyjames on June 19, 2010 at 5:54 PM comments (0)i saw this on a forum today i just thought it was funny
it was on a forum about black men and white women and why that connection exists lol this is what a guy said: Nobody wants to be constantly reminded of how they don't need you because they're independent, or how you ain't shit because you don't drive a certain car or can't buy gucci or prada, or how you're corny because hold down a respectable job and don't have a criminal record. All black women ARE NOT like this but too many are, so instead of picking through the whole barrel of bruised apples to find a few good ones- the black man will eat oranges. (I'm a black man married to a black woman by the way) quite an honest statement i'd say and it goes back to something i said to someone on facebook once if someone criticizes u, u should accept it and analyze yourself as opposed to getting pissed off cuz here for example in this u have a black man speaking about his frustrations with black women.. but if he told a black woman about his frustrations what would most of them do? get on the defensive or get pissed off and attack his manhood but my point was that u should accept criticism cuz a lot of times its just basic honesty that u can grow from cuz here u see this guy obviously loves black women (as he is married to one), and he obviously has actually experienced these things.. so why would u try to negate his comments? its like if a black woman said "black men are lazy" then i would have to compare myself to that.. i wouldn't say she is an asshole for making that comment u feel me? that's my biggest pet-peeve when u try to tell someone about theirself and they just get mad at u for it.. its like ok are u perfect? if the answer is no then we've established there is room for improvement in SOME area of ur life and yes it goes for me too peaCe
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