i would say more often than not, men know about a woman's sexual past and present.. he may not know everything but he is able to piece more together than what a women may realize
recently i was looking at some girl's twitter and she posted a text from her boyfriend her boyfriend said something like "you're so sexy i am so glad i'm banging you" this is a perfect example of what i mean like... of course she has no problem sharing this information, and she thinks its humorous.. but say they break up in 6 months and she deletes that from her twitter.... other men who may date her in the future may A. have already seen it or B. stumble across it because the of the nature of the internet and how things aren't always truly deleted.... couple this with any other knowledge or word of mouth on her and a good amount of her body count is public domain women these days say they shouldn't be judged on how many guys they have sex with but that's like asking a man to deny his possessive and protective nature that would be like me saying to a woman: "women i date shouldn't expect me to move out of my parents house" like you can scream and shout all you want but a hoe and wife aren't the same thing (sidenote: women can come back from hoe behavior but ONLY through a relationship with God and learning their true place and role... there needs to be some sincerity.. to know whether you as a woman have overcome your past or not- here is my litmus test.. if you still defend your past behavior or the bad behavior of other women, you have not changed) so anyway.. back to what i was saying.. sometimes i think women think men don't know about what they are doing and yes they are correct sometimes but sometimes men are more perceptive than what women give us credit for i mean it sometimes takes very little to be able to decipher a woman's sexual past.. like VERY little i remember one time i was talking to a girl.. she was white and she was saying she likes black guys and during this conversation she said something like "u know how mexicans are, they just bang you and leave you" i was like.... "okkaaaaay?" and that's an obvious one, but still it shows u how easy a woman's history can be read at times but i know women aren't really concerned with being read these days because promiscuous behavior has been normalized... but for what it's worth.. men typically know more about women than what they think sometimes he is just keeping quiet about what he knows because he is hoping to just not further open that can of worms
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one thing i want to talk about is how black women put such a big emphasis on skin color
i am not saying women's experience is wrong, i just want to give my take on it as a guy again.. I AM NOT SAYING WOMEN'S EXPERIENCE WITH DISCRIMINATION DOESN'T EXIST.. this is just my take from the male side from my point of view, beauty isn't as much about skin color as women think it is because there are other factors involved in a man's selection process boobs, booty, face, teeth, body shape (proportions), personal style, attitude, etc are all considered for a man, when we are looking for women, her looks are the most important factor.. i say this because.. no guy says "i can't wait to grow up and marry an ugly woman" if she is not cute then her personality doesn't really matter.. women are offended by statements like this but its actually a good thing for them because if a man approaches a woman and is interested, then that means she has passed his looks test on some level one thing women need to remember though is this... you should not have sex until you are married because the looks test is only fully passed when a guy is willing to commit.. if he only wants u for one thing then you may have only passed his looks test in one or two ways.. this essentially means u are headed for rejection.. so keeping your legs closed keeps u as a woman from experiencing rejection.. because if a guy knows he has to marry u to sleep with u then he will think "proceed or leave her alone" however if he knows he can have sex with u and not marry you then he will possibly just proceed because he likes your butt cheeks but he may honestly think your face is busted.... so he will take u on dates and make u laugh and have sex with u but ultimately he is also going to leave you if he doesn't really value u every man's looks test is a little different.. and this gives every woman an opportunity to be loved by someone like.. i have seen some women that i think are ugly but some other men think they are gorgeous a lot of black women say "guys like the light skinned women but don't like the dark skinned ones" however imo that is not really true when you are considering all the factors for example, one time on youtube i saw a dark skinned girl talking about how hard it is to be dark skinned, but she had huge boobs.. i mean...... is the glass half empty or half full? i'm sure there's some light skinned girl somewhere with no chest who wants to trade places... whether or not a man likes her dark skin, she still has this obvious asset that is likely to attract men there are pretty dark skinned women and ugly light skinned women and vice versa, so you can't just say men like this skin tone or that one.. there are more factors involved i saw a thing where lil kim said she had a complex because men kept leaving her for lighter skinned women but she would have been protected from all of that pain if she just kept her legs closed from the jump... if she told men "i am waiting for marriage" then ONLY MEN WHO PRIZE HER HIGHLY WOULD REMAIN biggie prized faith evans highly, so that's why he married her when women are allowing men to have sex without marriage, they are not filtering out the men who do not prize them she blames men for liking this or that but the reality is she had all the power in the first place to attract the right men and deter the wrong ones i think women sometmes think that if they don't have sex then men will not stick around but actually the opposite is true because if a man was looking for a wife and he met a woman with no body count, he's going to be impressed and even if he decides to keep looking, it won't be without some consideration u may not be able to get around a person's preference, but u as a woman can protect yourself from feeling the rejection of someone's preference so anyway.. back to skin tone.. imo there are more factors than just skin tone involved in men choosing a woman i have been accused of only liking light skinned women but i disagree with that... i've actually rejected white women so that whole theory is debunked.. a woman is a woman.. not saying black women haven't experienced some discrimination, but i will say overall, guys are not choosing you based on skin tone... there may be a stigma or whatever but that does not beat out reality.. here is my advice to black women who are irritated with negative effects of colorism in society 1. understand ignorance exists and we live in a fallen world 2. really ask yourself if you want short term relationships or marriage and act accordingly 3. be your best self and focus on the parts of yourself that you like these things will help u to get over some of the negative comments u've experienced and also set you up for a better future ok so when i did my review i was only on chapter 11.. however now i've beaten the game.. i finished it today
BRAVO!!! great ending.. this game was amazing front to back it has new game plus also which is always nice i recently heard the evil within 2 is coming out also a while back.. probably over a year ago, i bought the evil within and i enjoyed it but i hadn't finished it.. but i said i might do a full review later
well i still haven't finished it but i deleted my save file, and started over.. and i'm currently on chapter 11 (i believe out of 15) so i feel i can give my thoughts on this game flat out i feel this game is a masterpiece i honestly think the themes, art style, gameplay, weaponry, characters, story, graphics.. everything in this game is amazing it has a spot in my favorite games of all time list for me- this game has no down sides.. it has the action, it has the stealth, it has the psychological aspects of horror, it has the suspense, it is just PHENOMENAL if you haven't played the evil within, i definitely recommend it.. its really fun but also really challenging, scary, and rewarding also the game is long so you get your money's worth for sure i paid $20 for this game i think in summer 2015 for the ps3 version.. talk about a value.. wow now the reason i didn't really sit with the game until now is because i just had so much going on and wasn't exactly in the mood.. but i would highly recommend this game to anyone who has some time to play a mind-bending game the only negative in the game is the long loading time each time you die.. but keep in mind i have the ps3 version which is the weakest of all i don't think this game has any dlc.. i could be wrong but regardless of whether i'm right or wrong- this game is a great value.. they aren't nickel and diming you on this.. its just a full package this game is in my hall of fame its just so creative and scary and action packed and twisted shinji makami is a genius in my opinion.. and i've noticed he has a lot of knowledge.. like have you ever turned on an album and said "wow this person really knows music!" or turned on a movie and said "wow who made this?" shinji makami has a lot of knowledge on things that have happened in the real world.. such as mk ultra and psychological warfare and brainwashing and manipulation and things like that.. i was googling him and trying to find out how he knows all this stuff because his games are like a glimpse into the secret world that we actually live in... but i didn't find out his sources all i found out was that he studied the psychology of horror which i think also ended up teaching him about mk ultra and monarch programming and things like that even the actual locations in the game are like based on real places.. i've seen some of them online.. he knows how they trap "mental patients" in wards and conduct experiments on them.. he shows how mental wards are really like prisons anyway.. i'm getting deep all i really wanted to say is this game is truly amazing ... he packs a LOT into this game there is legit never a dull moment or a moment where its predictable if you are walking down a hallway, you can bet that before you get to the end of that hallway, something is going to happen so far the scariest things to me have been.. laura is the scariest.. and the invisible people are second scariest.. those mini people crawling on their stomachs in the cave were unnerving also smh.. laura is so scary that i actually tried to beat her segments as fast as possible lol.. that thing is just... wow man.. what kind of drugs were they on to create that thing? great game, bravo and i still have 4 chapters to go! |
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