I wasn't joking literally all of that described me smh
imagine getting texts like this from your girlfriend.. I mean, I can't make this stuff up
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this is seriously SO funny... brah this had me crackin UP today i was asleep then i decided to check my phone to see what time it was and when i checked my phone my dad had called me a bunch of times and so i called him back and literally as i was calling him back there was a knock at my door and it was him.. he came to fix my bed which was really cool and nice of him
i tried to kill a bug one day and ended up breaking one of the wood pieces on my bed in the process.. so he fixed my bed i'm glad about that.. he's one of those handy type of guys.. i've never really been into fixing things.. i've always been more of the type to try and keep enough money to get someone else to fix whatever it is btw my dad also put up my curtain rods like a month and a half ago my curtains have made being at home a lot better because at any moment i can make it dark and sort of block out the world.. seriously, having curtains is amazing i was also really happy to have such a stylish type that fits my apartment's look.. i'm thankful to God for that because i was unable to find decent curtains until i found this one type that technically wasn't even supposed to be in the store .. apparently someone bought them online and returned them to the store- that was the only reason they were there i recently had like 4 wasp nests at my apartment on the balcony.. i went outside with a huge coat on and wacked one of the nests with a fly swatter and ran back in the house lol then i said forget this and just called the office and asked if they would come clear out the wasps and they did... they did a great job, i came home and all those wasps were either dead or gone.. i have no idea how those things build those nests.. you would have to be crazy to see nature at work and not believe in God.. there is WAAAAAY too much complexity anyway.. just a few thoughts this pretty much perfectly describes what i dealt with with my ex g/f one thing she didn't mention that i'd like to mention though is the psychological projection
my ex did a thing i now know is called psychological projection which is when they tell u that you do what they do.. i cant tell u how many times she told me im a narcissist which was WILDLY confusing to me at first until i began looking up her crazy traits on the internet... here is a fuller picture of what she said about me: she said i was a selfish, controlling, narcissist who talks in circles, and she said i never "heard" her... as you can see, everything she said about me is what those people do- so she was projecting her own faults onto me.. sometimes i would repeat back something she said and she would still say i didnt hear her.. sometimes she would change one word like if i said "u said u dont like tacos" she would say "NO! i said i dont REALLY like tacos! u never hear me!" this stuff was insane to me and i was blindsided by it all but now i look back and i think the person really believes what they say because they are under the influence of that evil spirit.. think of them as a puppet to a demonic influence... they make no sense and they will gaslight you until u no longer know up from down the whole narcissist, jezebel, borderline, personality disorder world is something i had no idea about a year ago.. but today can see this type of stuff a lot clearer (just thought of this 5 minutes later.. 3 more things she projected onto me) 1. she said i only wanted information about her so i could use it against her which was so off the wall to me because i never thought that way AT ALL.. again- when someone says something like this to u it is just confusing until you learn about psychological projection.. when someone accuses you of doing something you've never even thought about doing, it just throws you off... under NO circumstances did i want information on her to "use it against" her 2. she said i don't lie- but i don't tell the whole truth, she said i withhold facts.. keep in mind this came from the same person who was seeing someone behind my back.. i knew something was going on but i didn't get any actual information until i probed as to why she kept smirking about "side dudes" smh... so her saying i withhold facts and don't tell the whole truth when that was really HER was a projection (she also always smirked when the topic of friends with benefits came up btw) 3. she also said i probably have girls saved under guy names in my phone.. i legit NEVER thought about doing something like that so all i could think when she said that to me was- "no, that's something YOU would do" ... it would be like if you went to a jewelry store with a friend and they were like "you look like you want to steal something" you would be like what? no i actually wasn't thinking that at all.. and you would realize that's what THEY THEMSELVES were thinking... keep in mind this accusation about me being deceptive with my phone came from the same person who had an app on her phone to hide whenever she decided to look at porn... also she offered for me to look in her phone multiple times which looking back makes a lot of sense from someone who is likely to have ALREADY hid whatever they were doing that was wrong or incriminating its like a bank robber saying "no officer i didn't rob anyone, how about you search my house and car" because he knows he stashed the evidence by the lake somewhere she projected her crap onto me a lot.. it was an AWFUL "relationship" this video spoke to me for sure.. it was kinda hard to listen to also because I can see where I didn't do this in my last relationship the reasons why I didn't were because I kept thinking if I just tried a little more, she would come around and it just never happened, she remained awful I also was single for a decade prior to her so I was holding for dear life also she was gorgeous those were 3 reasons and as they say- a three prong cord is not easily broken those were the reasons I stayed but honestly I just should not have stayed.. I played myself by dealing with her nonsense what I realized is that sometimes women don't understand anything except "goodbye" and we as men have to be willing to say it at all times no matter what.. if not, your self respect will be compromised This morning I saw a woman on youtube and decided to play her video
In her video she had a part where she said men have one thing over women and that is the fact that men can have a relationship at any time She said women can have sex at any time, but men can have a relationship at any time Now, I want to first say that- I would love for it to be true that men have some type of advantage however I am not sure that her assessment includes all the factors One other thing she said was that if you want to get back at a woman then what you should do is find another woman, and treat her even better She said, doing this is the best way either get your former girl to come back to you or just show her that she didn’t break you and you have more potential than what she originally thought you had I have two main things I want to say ONE: I believe she is correct, men can get relationships and women can get sex.. here’s the problem though.. the women we have to choose from for relationships are usually garbage she said men can always get a relationship and she said that’s a man’s advantage…. But an advantage needs to actually be advantageous A man has no advantage in going out and starting a relationship with most women.. if a man goes out and starts a relationship with a woman, its typically going to be a headache for him, and fun for her -I take you to dinner, you eat -I compliment you, you accept -I give you my attention, but you barely give me yours because I’m always calling you, you never call me -Your body is nowhere near exclusive to me -I deal with your complaining -I always have to wrestle with you because you don’t have a submissive bone in your body Like this is what a relationship represents for many men these days.. this is why many of us avoid them.. you women don’t give us what we want from you.. So like.. my point is- it’s not exactly an advantage that men can always get relationships.. because quite frankly, we don’t want relationships unless women are pretty and they give us what we are looking for… saying “you men have an advantage because you can always get in a relationship” is like saying “you can have this gourmet meal I just farted on” Like.. yes, you are correct- I can get a relationship, but look at my selection.. -I can get a relationship with a woman who already has kids -I can get a relationship with a woman who has been ran through and isn’t even really showing some type of shame about it.. she’s still running around saying things like “I’m grown!” Sidebar: (how is a man supposed to trust a woman who is essentially fine with her promiscuous past? How am I supposed to separate you from it and hold you in high regard if you are still fine with your actions? That would be like hiring an ex-con who still blames others for his actions and takes no accountability.. you can’t separate him from his action if he has not expressed some type of regret or come to the realization that what he did was wrong) -I can get a relationship with a woman who is on anti-depressants -I can get a relationship with a woman who is ungrateful and complains nonstop -I can get a relationship with a woman who is disrespectful to me as a man We men don’t want relationships under these circumstances.. so yes, we can get relationships but that’s BECAUSE so many women are awful.. women are not love starved because men refuse to give love.. women are love starved because their actions cause men to revoke love Ok now here’s my second point: She said we men can go treat another girl better than the last to really show our previous girl that she played herself Ok……. The issue with this is- while again, she is correct.. I feel she is missing a piece The piece she is missing is that men are not nearly as petty as women We might feel bad about how our relationship with you ended but we are not bent on making you jealous or getting back at you or getting revenge That petty stuff is largely unimportant to men.. we are oftentimes able to see past it.. if u do me wrong, then I do you wrong- then how am I any better than you? This whole thing about “this is what u do if u want to really show her” or “this is what u do if u really want revenge” is unimportant.. like, why even be bothered? i said this to devon and i felt it was 100 so i saved it men (especially christian men) tell me if you agree true or not?
this is real talk... people don't want us men to have any standards.. they want us to just accept women any old type of way.. they want us to be like: "oh ok she's a loudmouth? she has a stank attitude? her vagina is the size of a wizard sleeve? she doesn't submit? oh.. she doesn't even know what submission means? SIGN ME UP!!!" yyyyyyeah, NO. the fact is, if men aren't doing what they are supposed to do then they aren't good men, and if women aren't doing what they are supposed to do... THEY. ARE. NOT. GOOD. WOMEN. here she was trying to sound smart and argue with me but she said the quote backwards
the bible says "spare the rod, spoil the child" not "spare the child and spoil the rod" smh also she spelled interpret as interrupt she always tried to sound more knowledgeable than she actually was.. she just had a very prideful way about herself that made dealing with her difficult at all times try arguing with someone who doesn't want the truth, they just want to be right this was so legit.. I've definitely dealt with this people (women) really get mad at you for not liking something they recommend or deem to be suitable for you
i remember one girl tried to hook me up with her friend and i saw a picture and i said "no thanks i like bigger women" because its true i like women who are like fat or almost fat... my type is.... look up kamora owens anyway... this girl got so mad at me it was ridiculous lol.. HOW DARE YOU NOT LIKE MY SKINNY DADDY LONG LEG LOOKING FRIEND! smh anyway.. great video |
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