this pretty much perfectly describes what i dealt with with my ex g/f one thing she didn't mention that i'd like to mention though is the psychological projection
my ex did a thing i now know is called psychological projection which is when they tell u that you do what they do.. i cant tell u how many times she told me im a narcissist which was WILDLY confusing to me at first until i began looking up her crazy traits on the internet... here is a fuller picture of what she said about me: she said i was a selfish, controlling, narcissist who talks in circles, and she said i never "heard" her... as you can see, everything she said about me is what those people do- so she was projecting her own faults onto me.. sometimes i would repeat back something she said and she would still say i didnt hear her.. sometimes she would change one word like if i said "u said u dont like tacos" she would say "NO! i said i dont REALLY like tacos! u never hear me!" this stuff was insane to me and i was blindsided by it all but now i look back and i think the person really believes what they say because they are under the influence of that evil spirit.. think of them as a puppet to a demonic influence... they make no sense and they will gaslight you until u no longer know up from down the whole narcissist, jezebel, borderline, personality disorder world is something i had no idea about a year ago.. but today can see this type of stuff a lot clearer (just thought of this 5 minutes later.. 3 more things she projected onto me) 1. she said i only wanted information about her so i could use it against her which was so off the wall to me because i never thought that way AT ALL.. again- when someone says something like this to u it is just confusing until you learn about psychological projection.. when someone accuses you of doing something you've never even thought about doing, it just throws you off... under NO circumstances did i want information on her to "use it against" her 2. she said i don't lie- but i don't tell the whole truth, she said i withhold facts.. keep in mind this came from the same person who was seeing someone behind my back.. i knew something was going on but i didn't get any actual information until i probed as to why she kept smirking about "side dudes" smh... so her saying i withhold facts and don't tell the whole truth when that was really HER was a projection (she also always smirked when the topic of friends with benefits came up btw) 3. she also said i probably have girls saved under guy names in my phone.. i legit NEVER thought about doing something like that so all i could think when she said that to me was- "no, that's something YOU would do" ... it would be like if you went to a jewelry store with a friend and they were like "you look like you want to steal something" you would be like what? no i actually wasn't thinking that at all.. and you would realize that's what THEY THEMSELVES were thinking... keep in mind this accusation about me being deceptive with my phone came from the same person who had an app on her phone to hide whenever she decided to look at porn... also she offered for me to look in her phone multiple times which looking back makes a lot of sense from someone who is likely to have ALREADY hid whatever they were doing that was wrong or incriminating its like a bank robber saying "no officer i didn't rob anyone, how about you search my house and car" because he knows he stashed the evidence by the lake somewhere she projected her crap onto me a lot.. it was an AWFUL "relationship"
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