This morning I saw a woman on youtube and decided to play her video
In her video she had a part where she said men have one thing over women and that is the fact that men can have a relationship at any time She said women can have sex at any time, but men can have a relationship at any time Now, I want to first say that- I would love for it to be true that men have some type of advantage however I am not sure that her assessment includes all the factors One other thing she said was that if you want to get back at a woman then what you should do is find another woman, and treat her even better She said, doing this is the best way either get your former girl to come back to you or just show her that she didn’t break you and you have more potential than what she originally thought you had I have two main things I want to say ONE: I believe she is correct, men can get relationships and women can get sex.. here’s the problem though.. the women we have to choose from for relationships are usually garbage she said men can always get a relationship and she said that’s a man’s advantage…. But an advantage needs to actually be advantageous A man has no advantage in going out and starting a relationship with most women.. if a man goes out and starts a relationship with a woman, its typically going to be a headache for him, and fun for her -I take you to dinner, you eat -I compliment you, you accept -I give you my attention, but you barely give me yours because I’m always calling you, you never call me -Your body is nowhere near exclusive to me -I deal with your complaining -I always have to wrestle with you because you don’t have a submissive bone in your body Like this is what a relationship represents for many men these days.. this is why many of us avoid them.. you women don’t give us what we want from you.. So like.. my point is- it’s not exactly an advantage that men can always get relationships.. because quite frankly, we don’t want relationships unless women are pretty and they give us what we are looking for… saying “you men have an advantage because you can always get in a relationship” is like saying “you can have this gourmet meal I just farted on” Like.. yes, you are correct- I can get a relationship, but look at my selection.. -I can get a relationship with a woman who already has kids -I can get a relationship with a woman who has been ran through and isn’t even really showing some type of shame about it.. she’s still running around saying things like “I’m grown!” Sidebar: (how is a man supposed to trust a woman who is essentially fine with her promiscuous past? How am I supposed to separate you from it and hold you in high regard if you are still fine with your actions? That would be like hiring an ex-con who still blames others for his actions and takes no accountability.. you can’t separate him from his action if he has not expressed some type of regret or come to the realization that what he did was wrong) -I can get a relationship with a woman who is on anti-depressants -I can get a relationship with a woman who is ungrateful and complains nonstop -I can get a relationship with a woman who is disrespectful to me as a man We men don’t want relationships under these circumstances.. so yes, we can get relationships but that’s BECAUSE so many women are awful.. women are not love starved because men refuse to give love.. women are love starved because their actions cause men to revoke love Ok now here’s my second point: She said we men can go treat another girl better than the last to really show our previous girl that she played herself Ok……. The issue with this is- while again, she is correct.. I feel she is missing a piece The piece she is missing is that men are not nearly as petty as women We might feel bad about how our relationship with you ended but we are not bent on making you jealous or getting back at you or getting revenge That petty stuff is largely unimportant to men.. we are oftentimes able to see past it.. if u do me wrong, then I do you wrong- then how am I any better than you? This whole thing about “this is what u do if u want to really show her” or “this is what u do if u really want revenge” is unimportant.. like, why even be bothered?
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