Why do women make being called pretty such a big deal
“do you think I’m pretty?” “my dad never told me I was pretty” “don’t call me cute, call me beautiful” Even when women talk about other women: “she’s a pretty girl” “beyonce is gorgeous” “rihanna is beautiful” Women say women are beautiful as opposed to like “a great writer” or “a great singer” If women like another woman who is 90yrs old, they won’t say “that 90yr old woman represents a great thing” instead they will say she’s beautiful.. that doesn't make sense though because when you turn down a woman based on her looks, a woman will say "looks fade" ... so how can a woman say someone who is 90 is "beautiful" if looks fade? like which is it? do they fade or not? and another thing, before i move on.. saying "looks fade" to me has never made sense.. the reason this doesn't make sense to me is because people say it whenever they are telling you not to care about looks.. but everything fades.. life fades, should u kill yourself because of it? your new clothes get old.. should u stop buying new clothes? a new car will get old.. should you just drive a jalopy? like under what circumstance does something getting older mean you shouldn't get it, like it, value it, or appreciate it? i have never understood that.. i mean really imagine this conversation me: "i don't want that girl she's not cute to me" person: "james, looks fade" me: "you know what, you're right- since this is the case- i should completely disregard my lack of attraction.. i was so stupid 5 seconds ago, thank you for enlightening me" like i really don't get what people hope to achieve in saying "looks fade" the other thing i don't get about that statement, is they say it as if only the girl will get older.. like as my girl gets older i'm going to obviously get older too.. its not like one day i'd look up and see that my girl is 80yrs old and i'm still in my 30s.. like if we get older together, then what is the point of saying looks fade? if u get older, i get older too.. when ur 100 then i'm 102.. so what is this crap about "looks fade" if we are growing old TOGETHER? as if one day i'd look at my wife and say "you know you got 20 years older and i'm no longer happy" like if she has gotten 20 years older, then guess what? I DID TOO so how am i going to complain? i never understand that logic.. "you shouldn't care about looks because looks fade" EVERYTHING FADES it just sounds so self defeating to me "why buy the nice comforter? it'll fade" "why put on perfume? the smell will fade" "why try to be nice to people? their memory of what u did will fade" like where is the logic in that? my thinking is: IF YOU WANT SOMEONE ATTRACTIVE TO YOU THEN GO FOR IT.. PERIOD... all this stuff about "it fades" is irrelevant one last point before i get back to my original point IF LOOKS FADE THEN THATS ACTUALLY EVEN MORE REASON TO GET SOMEONE ATTRACTIVE!! WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE A 10 THAT TURNS INTO AN 8? OR A 5 THAT TURNS INTO A 3? OR DO YOU THINK "LOOKS FADE" ONLY APPLIES TO GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE? I MEAN REALLY- CHECK YOUR "LOGIC" HERE!!!!! *takes a breath* ok, back to my original points: I feel like women make a bigger deal of looks than men but women always get on men for having ANY type of standards in looks I remember one day I was sitting next to my ex g/f and we were watching this video game reviewer I like and he happens to be overweight and she said “turn the channel, this guy’s a loser” Umm…. Excuse me? He is reviewing things from his home. Meaning he is a homeowner. He has a car. He has a graphic design job. He also has hobbies i.e. we are watching his youtube show. She called him a loser just because he was overweight and maybe not dressed in the best clothing But this is my whole point with women.. they think looks equal character Like saying someone is attractive (in a woman’s mind) is like saying they are acceptable behaviorwise However, I have seen a lot of attractive women who are unacceptable in their behavior.. its basically like 95% of what I complain about on my site But here’s the thing.. when a MAN expresses his opinion on a woman’s looks.. if it’s not 100% positive, a woman will be the FIRST one to say “looks don’t matter” or “you’re being shallow” This is after all these women were running around saying they wanted to bang that guy Jeremy Meeks with the mugshot In their minds, his looks justify his actions I just feel like women are the biggest perpetrators of lookism But when men do it- they are immediately demonized A guy can say “she’s just not cute to me, she’s cool and I’m not dissing her but she’s not cute to me” And women will consider those fighting words unless she considers that particular woman some type of rival or enemy It is such a frustrating thing when women are with all these tall guys with 6 pack abs but when you say you want a woman who has this trait or that trait- you are immediately demonized and called shallow Women are the first ones who will tell you you are ugly or not dressed well, or need a haircut, or need to hit the gym… but they are also the first ones to cry and complain about it when they are overlooked for some of the same reasons Like ciarra said to me that I was shallow because I didn’t want a particular girl I told her about because I don’t think that girl is cute.. I said to her “well I have my reasons for not liking her and you have your reasons for not liking me, what’s the difference?” Of course women never look at things logically so instead of saying “yeah james you’re right” she said “my reasons for not being with you have nothing to do with looks so you’re shallow and I’m not” My point was, who is she to judge what is and isn’t an important factor? I never said “ciarra, you’re shallow for not liking me” I just let her do her Also- for the record, she said she didn’t want to be with me because I’m too religious which in my opinion is actually WORSE than not wanting to be with someone because they aren’t cute.. because saying I’m too religious- you’re basically saying “you follow God too much” I'd also like to point out that that could've been a lie- she could still just flat-out not like me because of my looks but not have the ability to say that anyway... Women are a joke.
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