i have realized that trying to find out what women want doesn't work
let me explain why for one, its because you as a man know better than a woman does 1st corinthians 11:3 I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. in other words there is essentially an order to life like God, Christ, man, woman, child this is why trying to find out what a woman wants is not profitable.. because you already know better than her.. asking a woman what she wants is like asking a child what they want if you ask a child what they want they are going to say they want to wear their spiderman pajamas everywhere they go, they want to eat candy for dinner, they want to stay up past their bedtime, they want to stay home instead of go to school, etc there's no point asking a child what they want when we already know better than they do.. its really the same with women.. even if a woman could tell you what she wanted and she told you- it would likely be the wrong thing or it would likely be something that would lead to destruction example? one word.. feminism. women everywhere subscribe to feminist ideals but all feminism has done is ruin women's lives and suck them completely dry "financial freedom" just meant they would have to add "full time wage slave" to their already large wife-and-mom workload it also led to competition in marriage as opposed to cooperation the sexual freedom led to them being used like semen receptacles.. why court a woman? her sexual freedom has allowed me to netflix and chill the right to make her own choices with her body has led to hundreds of thousands of abortions per year in the u.s. alone.. and we all know how happy abortions make women lol my point is.. we as men know better than women.. when we let them make their own decisions all they do is destroy themselves.. even in the bible it's made clear that eve was deceived by the serpent while adam wasn't... women don't know what they're doing its like if you give a woman the steering wheel it's only a matter of time before she finds herself in a ditch so what's my point? we as men must stop trying to appeal to women altogether they need to come up to our level and that has to be our mindset at all times the reason we have tried to appeal to them is because we love them, desire them, and are eager for their presence in our lives however we have to just let that go.. even if it means we are alone at all times.. we have to uphold a standard and instead of asking women what they want we have to demand that they give us what we want because we will steer them correctly a man's advice to a woman is always better than a woman's advice to a woman man's advice - don't get any tattoos woman's advice - it's your body girl do whatever you want with it don't let anyone tell you what you can't do (she comes back from the tattoo parlor wondering why she needed to advertise "live free as a bird" across her chest and realizes she can't even wear the same clothes to work now since she has to cover it up) man's advice - i know he made you upset but go back to your husband and work things out woman's advice - girl, he went too far you can do better than him anyway.. turn off your phone and stay out tonight, that'll teach him (she finally comes home at 3 am feeling guilt and then breaks down in tears when she sees the flowers her husband brought home for her) ...good luck explaining where you were, whore lol another reason why trying to find out what women want doesn't work is because women can't really tell you the truth in some instances without showing you how stupid they can be.. and they are aware of this have you ever asked a woman about her thought process concerning something and she explained it to you and you responded like "but that doesn't make sense because blah blah" and her only reply was something like "well in the heat of the moment..." or "ur right it didn't really make sense but that's what i felt like doing at the time" or "yeah when u put it that way i understand but i wasn't thinking that way" what they are essentially telling you is they either lack logic or their emotions override logic, or they are saying integrity doesn't matter when feelings are involved, or something of the sort so women sometimes can't tell u the truth of how they feel because they are aware that their thought process is operating on a low level like say a woman makes a big deal of something small, and then you say "why did you overreact so much?" they have to find a way to diss you because if they acknowledge that they have overreacted then they feel slighted since they have been exposed as not being as 'together' as they want to portray its the same type of thing when u ask them what they want sometimes.. its like they can't really give you an honest response when they know you will just be dumbfounded at their lack of foresight for example.. some women want to work it so that they have one man who takes them on dates and treats them well.. but they want to have another guy who they just have sex with.. some women want to create this setup for themselves and they think somehow it will work out in the end say you run into a woman like this and you begin asking her questions about who she is and what she wants.. do you think she will admit to this mindset and intent? she won't admit to that because she knows you will deem her to be an idiot immediately and have nothing more to do with her so all in all.. we men have to stop trying to find out what women want because what they want doesn't matter when they want stupid things or things that aren't good for them or things that will not lead to any type of blessed existence we men have always wanted to find out what women want so that we can provide it and have things work out...... but will that happen? how often has it worked? when have we found out what women wanted, then provided it and lived happily ever after? we need to just stop trying to walk down that path altogether don't concern yourself with what they want.. tell them what they want, and tell them what they're going to get, or just don't bother with them at all
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