I’ve had some people tell me I’m bitter against women.. i want to talk about this
Ok there are a two diff ways to look at this
Which one do you all think it is? Also, does it matter which one it is? I feel like my issue is the second one The bible says men love your wives as Christ loves the church and wives submit to your husbands as unto the Lord You don’t see men walking around saying “I ain’t loving my girl, that’s from the 50s!” However you see women constantly rejecting their role and saying “I don’t know what submission is” or “it says submit, not be a doormat” (which is just her saying I will “submit” on my own terms.. which makes no sense) or they say “I will only submit if blank” which again- is not submission if you demand to get your way before you do it The list goes on.. they are too “independent” to submit.. or they have their own money so they “don’t need to” ..or they’ll have some story like “my aunt submitted and her husband beat her up for 30 yrs and then he left her” They have every excuse in the universe to not do what the Lord commands them to do For example: My ex used to say “I don’t have to submit because I’m not married yet” but if we are dating and you don’t show me that you can be wife material then why would I marry you? her statement was a justification for her to argue with everything I said. However, I never treated her that way- I never said: “since I’m not married to you- I’m not showing you any love.” I WAS DOING MY PART THE WHOLE TIME. This is essentially my issue with modern women. They want men to still be traditional and chivalrous and gentlemanly, but they don’t want to be who they are supposed to be. This is why my ex g/f told me multiple times I was the best boyfriend she ever had and that I did a lot for her but she was really just a big headache for me... because I DID MY PART BUT SHE DID NOT DO HERS. AGAIN: I DID MY PART BUT SHE DID NOT DO HERS So I’m supposed to let u argue with me every day and magically when we get married you’re going to stop right? You’re going to magically wake up and treat me the way a woman wants her son to be treated by a woman? You’re going to go from rolling your eyes to honoring and respecting me in one night right? That’s what I’m supposed to believe right? Give me a break. I needed her to show me she could be a wife but all I got was: “I’m not married so I don’t have to” Yet everything a man is supposed to do- I did.. I opened doors, showed generosity, bought gifts, took her out, complimented her, supported her, protected her. i am writing this for anyone who says: "james is just hopelessly bitter" am i hopelessly bitter or do i have legitimate reasons to be upset with women's dysfunction? MODERN WOMEN JUST DON’T CARE ABOUT MEN AT ALL So back to the original topic.. am I wrong for being sorely disappointed in modern women? Am I wrong for this? Am I wrong for not liking what they do and for speaking my mind about it? (While I’m at it.. this is another issue I have with women, they get mad at you for pointing out a flaw as opposed to acknowledging the actual flaw...... It’s the same principle behind all of the “don’t judge” rhetoric people tout today.) I don’t think I am wrong for disliking what women have become. I feel that I treat women very well. But at the same time, I call a spade a spade.. and when the shoe fits, you can rest assured the hit dog who hollers is going to call me bitter... but whether I am or not... MY STATEMENTS REMAIN MERITED.
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