this is the missing link for me
this video answered a lot of questions for me.. it wiped away a lot of the confusion i had concerning women i can now see that women do stupid things to us to see how we will respond because they think if we show emotions then they can control us and we are weak.. but if we are unaffected then in their eyes we are strong and they can trust us this is something i have really struggled with.. like i was racking my brain trying to figure out why women did certain things and this short video has exponentially increased my understanding why couldn't a woman ever just tell me this flat out? like "james, i'm acting like a complete idiot to gauge your emotional response" this explains so much.. sometimes women are really playing a game with u that ur not aware of.. it explains why women always hide their emotions- because they must think we view them the way they view us.. they think that being stoic makes them look better in our eyes when it really makes them look way worse.. the same way we look bad to them when we lose our cool.. it also shows me that women are legit trying to make sure they are in the passenger seat of your life and not the driver's seat.. they legit want to know they have little to no effect on you.. to them that is strength, when no matter what they do- u are unbothered and still progressing in life
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