i am soooo tired of talking to people and hearing "oh ok" back
recently i was talking to someone and i said something and they sent me an emoji that was rubbing its chin and looking upward like thinking.. and then they said "hmmm" and then they said "......ohhhh ok" and they didn't say anything else and i know someone reading this thinks "james must've said something offensive" but no- because the statement i made was about me, not anyone else i have been really patient with the "oh ok" thing a lot but i have to admit i'm tired of it i feel like its patronizing and condescending like if a child came in a room and said "i like orange" you would say "oh.. ok" so when people say "oh ok" to me it feels like they are dismissing me or telling me i'm stupid in a passive aggressive way i guess i am just writing this as a proverbial line in the sand if peeps can't give me any validation, or understanding, or they can't be bothered to dignify anything i say- then i can't be bothered to continue talking like i'm a human too.. i'm not just some robot who doesn't notice when people are being facetious.. its really hurtful and frustrating to me that people treat me this way.. like i'm being dead honest right now when i say that when people treat me that way it drains me i already don't have the biggest circle but i guess i have to be even more selective
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