i saw this on some woman's blog and i wanted to post it because i found it to be interesting.. here it is:
As a tall big black girl I can attract either those who love them some chocolate, those that would love to be squashed by a large and lovely lady, and those precious few who want to be dominated by both. While I might be seen as an object of desire for them, i’m never seen as a delicate, dainty, and feminine woman worthy of an innocent and pure pursuit. And dammit I want that! The urge to be treated as someone delicate and not a typical strong black woman that can handle anything has been building for some time now. But the latest incident that pushed it over the edge was a man who i’ve been talking to who revealed to me that he often reenacted rape fantasies with his ex-girlfriend and wanted to do so with me if we ever got intimate — him being the rapee. This man is 6’1 and looks about 250lbs and wants me to overpower and take advantage of him for his fantasy. For once i’d like to be the girl where a man didn’t feel that was appropriate to share that kind of information to. you can't make this kind of stuff up all i can say is that was honestly interesting on many levels the main thing that stood out to me was this: "The urge to be treated as someone delicate and not a typical strong black woman that can handle anything has been building for some time now." personally, i like that she says she wants to play the feminine role and not the dominant masculine role (in life itself, not the sex thing).. i love that aspect.. its good to see some women still want to be women.. because if you let tv and media tell it- modern women all want to be men anyway.. i just had to post that.. i love getting a glimpse into womens' thoughts because i've noticed the things they say in public and the things they say in private seem to be different like when they are writing a blog or talking to their friends they say they want a relationship.. but in public around guys or at work they say they are happy being single or they are too busy for a man or whatever other thing they spout off about being independent i mean i honestly get tired of women saying they don't want a relationship or they "don't care" or "i don't need a man because i love myself" ... like do they understand how stupid and repulsive that is? but let me stop
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