one thing i want to say is that i believe what i'm about to talk about is an extremely common misconception we have in society... and i've probably said it before but this is just something i want to bring out to the forefront
if anyone has a comment on this then leave it because i want to see what other people think of this
where does the bible say that men are to dominate women?
the bible says women are to submit to men
what i mean by this is- i don't like how people try to give men the woman's job and responsibility
like if a woman in a relationship is out of line, they say to the man "you have to show her you're the man" or "you have to take your rightful place"
again.. where is my commandment to dominate a woman or force her into compliance?
where is it? if anyone knows where this is please seriously.. no joke, show me this scripture
i resent people blaming men for women's indiscretion.. i resent people saying "your wife is out of line because of you as a man"
THE COMMANDMENT IS FOR HUSBANDS TO LOVE THEIR WIVES AND FOR WIVES TO SUBMIT TO THEIR HUSBANDS
IT IS THE WOMAN'S JOB TO SUBMIT, SO HOW/WHY ARE YOU BLAMING THE HUSBAND FOR THE WOMAN'S LACK OF SUBMISSION!!!?
ITS HER JOB!!!!!
if a man didn't love his wife, would you blame his wife? or would you go to the man and say "hey brother, you are not right for treating your wife this way"
my job as a man is to act in a respectable way, protect, provide and to love my wife
a woman's job is to be loveable and to honor/respect, and submit to her husband
i can't get mad at a woman if her husband is not providing or protecting now can i?
in the same way, when we see women who are not in proper submission, let's recognize that it's not the man's fault or drawback.. it is the woman's
it is HER job and SHE is choosing not to do it
it doesn't say "husbands, dominate your wives" it says "wives, submit to your husbands"
if a woman doesn't do this then it is her folly.. the man could legit be doing everything right in this scenario
i am just tired of people blaming women's lack of reverence/respect/submission on men
if a woman has a good man and chooses not to respect him.. don't rebuke or admonish the man, turn to the woman
i just feel overall that women are to submit, men are to love
just as women cannot FORCE men to love them
men cannot FORCE women to submit
what up peeps
as you can tell i haven't been on here lately
here's what's been goin on
1. work has been SUPER hectic.. like as in so hectic that its depressing.. the workload is so much that i feel like some type of idiot.. like i feel incompetent
let me put it like this.. if you worked at mcdonalds u could prob make burgers and be cool.. but imagine if all the other employees left and it was the lunch rush and you're the only one making food
you can do ur job but in that moment- you're overwhelmed... i hope the Lord has mercy on me because it's been rough
2. school has been like
let me just say this.. it hasn't physically rained here in a long time.. like its weird how long we have gone without rain and i feel like i'm the only person who notices this because i like rain.. everyone else likes sunshine.. but it hasn't rained in weeks
that odd feeling of it not raining is sort of how school feels to me right now because i have a 16wk class.. i don't like this class at all and i want it to just end
what i like about grad school is the classes have mostly been 8wks which is PHENOMENAL, you can get through 8wks of anything.. but 16wks of crap is a diff story
in the same way that it currently feels like a prolonged period of time with no rain.. i also feel like school is in a prolonged period of crap with this long class
its hard to explain.. it feels like there should be a break or an intermission but it just won't come
3. questa is my girlfriend.. i don't know if i told u guys we made it official.. i first spoke to her 8.14.16 then we made it official 10.9.16
i am very happy with her she is great.. we have ups and downs but i would not trade her for anything
one thing i love about her is her breath.. its like fresh spring water or something.. i told her i just want her to breathe all over me.. i just can't believe her breath it is amazing
one interesting thing... one day she had an attitude with me but i looked at her and i saw through it.. i can't really explain this- its just i saw through her attitude one day and saw the person inside
that was a big thing for me, it changed my view
a lot of women act standoffish for whatever reason but if u are able to somehow see through that and see the person inside you can develop more patience and a greater appreciation for her
everything i just listed is probably a reason why i haven't been on here as much
anyway.. i'm looking forward to black friday and cyber monday i hope i can get a ps4 pro
i also hope i can eventually free up more time so i can actually play games
oh and another thing, i want to get a new imac in 2017 if i can
my imac has served me well but feb 2017 will make it 7yrs old.. so i could use the updates on the newer ones
i don't have much to say right now.. just coming through to say hi
ok peeps stay up