i feel like i've realized why there are more women than men- but its still hard to find a good woman
here's the deal ok say u have 50% men and 50% women then say with men in war, men in prison, men who don't make money, and gay men, the scales tip to 60% women and 40% men things are looking good for men right? wrong out of those women, how many are pretty? out of those women how many are promiscuous? out of those women, how many have personality issues? (daddy issues, argumentative, non-trusting, "independent," non-submissive) these factors severely diminish the pool of wife material if a woman is promiscuous she is not for one man, she is for all men if a woman has personality issues, we know we won't get peace out of her if a woman isn't pretty we just aren't interested so... when u look again.. the 40% of men are essentially still having a hard time finding a wife in the 60% of women because that 60, after going through these filters, is severely diminished i'm not going to guess what percent of women is left after these factors, but anyone reading this- leave a comment and let me know how many women u think are left after we filter out the undesirables and the last thing i'm going to say before i go is this THIS IS REAL TALK if u legit think about what i'm saying- i think u will agree that this is a true reflection of reality here’s a short one I wrote in 2015.. just now posting it today:
have you ever seen how much women change after they have kids? they stop acting in immature ways and their priorities change i think this is why women with kids usually like me.. but women without kids think i am scum.. i think i am too boring for them anyway.. i was thinking about this and i feel like men are similar to women in that we also typically become a better version of ourselves after we get the person we are supposed to have in our life so women change and become better, more mature, wiser, less selfish, after having a child and men become better after getting the woman they are supposed to have in their life i think what happens with men is they typically become more confident and more well adjusted to life and things around them i think women are like assistants to men so... without an assistant your life is a little harder, but with one- things tend to just run smoother.. so u feel better, walk taller, dress better, etc.. that's the benefit of help in life btw.. on a side note, i feel like generally- women are multi-taskers while men are focusers.. this is why women thrive a lot in today's society because a lot of things are multi-tasking based.. like school and work and gym.. women tend to do that a lot and its normal to them.. i feel like men however are turned off by the constant moving around and doing diff things... women are like people you can get to do many things whereas men are more for fine tooth comb type of detail and mastery.. and I think mastery is a form of control, and men like to feel in control i liken the difference to like a social butterfly who has nothing of substance to say, vs a person with nothing but substance, who doesn't exactly do well at parties just a few thoughts to marinate on i guess i wrote this in 2015.. didn't post it until today.. this explains my primary problem with women.. their refusal to acknowledge and live in their allotted role.. its like the video i posted a few posts down.. women want to be "modern" but they still want men to be "traditional" and they don't understand those don't go together.... anyway.. here it is:
i want to further explain a big reason why i have hated women for a long time its because i feel like listening to the opposite sex makes you a better person men listen to the things women say but i've noticed women don't listen to the things men say i've said this before here on my site.. and its true i know all the things women say to us men.. i evaluate myself a lot on not only the things they say, but also the things the Lord says i try to live up to them both.. so here you have me submitting to a higher power (the Lord) and also trying to appease women who are supposed to be in subjection to us men, but who we men naturally want to make happy so u have me as a man adjusting to these things the best way i know how.. and other men i know also adjust in the best way they know how but we also look around and notice women don't do this they may try to appease those who are in subjection to them (their children).. they might even try to live right under the Lord.. but they are not submitting to men or trying to listen to men or trying to do right for men or make men happy i feel that women are missing that ingredient these days.. and this is why u see a lot of pretty women who are single.. or women who have everything BUT a man in their lives.. they will have kids, they will have a good career, they will even go to church, and they will submit to their pastor, and they will submit to their boss at work, but they refuse to submit to any man they could/should be in a relationship or marriage with i can see women reading this right now and telling me i'm wrong but i'm not wrong.. every single song out there that is aimed at women is something that tells them they are more important than the men in their lives, it tells them to disrespect the men in their lives, it tells them their opinions are better than the men's, it tells them they don't need men, it tells them all the reasons they would be "justified" to cheat on the men in their lives and now we see the fruit of this stuff women are not loving, caring, or supportive to men anymore.. they are not accommodating or in subjection but the other side of that is these women are also left uncovered, they are taken advantage of by various people in the world because no man is looking out for them, no man is protecting them and i've noticed women have a ton of excuses as to why they don't have a man a lot of them say things like "no man is strong enough to handle me" or "men are just weak these days" etc etc my problem with this is there are women at the bottom of society and there are women at the top of society.. conversely, there are men at the bottom of society, and men at the top of society... what i mean by this is THERE ARE RESPECTABLE MEN TO CHOOSE FROM but here's the problem i've seen.. when modern women find the strong man, they refuse to submit at all.. THIS IS THE PROBLEM its like think of it like church.. ok you may not understand the Bible.. so it is your job as a person to find a church that will teach you the right way you can find a church that just tells you everything is roses and flowers or you can find a church that tells you the truth and gets you prepared to leave earth and meet your maker but if you find the strong church, and you reject what it says.. then what? this is what women are doing, when they find strong men- they refuse to submit to his leadership.. so of course she only gets men who appease her as she refuses to listen to the men who are trying to lead her and bring her up one day its "i don't need a man trying to control me!" the next day its "i need a man who knows how to take control!" and you women don't even realize it... this is why u never succeed in relationships.. you're double minded.. and this is also why u all end up with what people call a "man-child" .. because you don't know whether u want a man who leads, or a man you can lead.. so u get both and u complain about him too!!! you women say you want a strong man but if a strong man does a strong thing, like "lead" or tell you "no" ...then you go into manipulation mode.. silent treatment, questioning him, attitude, poking at him, etc you try anything other than submit u will not have a proper relationship doing everything EXCEPT what the Lord told you to do if i walked around saying "why do i have to love a woman?" "what does love mean?" "she needs to make sure she can love and protect me the same way i love her so we will both be doing it" "if i love what do i get out of it?" any statements like those are missing the point.. but this is what u women do u say "what is submission?" "why should i submit?" "we need to submit to each other! it's not just me, he needs to submit to me too" "what do i get out of submitting?" "modern women don't submit!" YOU WOMEN ARE THE PROBLEM AND YOU WILL CONTINUE TO FAIL UNTIL YOU STOP SAYING THINGS LIKE THESE!!!!!!! here's another one: "the bible says submit, not be a doormat" ALL YOU'RE ESSENTIALLY SAYING IS, IF MY MAN DOES SOMETHING I DON'T LIKE, I HAVE LICENSE TO RETALIATE SOMEHOW, BY LEAVING, OR GETTING AN ATTITUDE, SHOWING HOW MUCH I DONT LIKE HIS LEADERSHIP, ETC ETC.. WHEN GUESS WHAT!? YOU CAN'T ALWAYS DO THIS "EYE FOR AN EYE" THING IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP YOU IDIOT! you women just resort to these manipulative tactics when u don't get your way- 9 times out of 10 it has nothing to do with right and wrong, it has everything to do with u just not getting your way what guy wants to sign up for a vindictive woman who is just waiting to unleash something as soon as things seem to not go her way? what if i said "it says love, not be a doormat" and started pointing fingers all all of women's worst behaviors? those things HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR ROLES you women hide behind those types of statements to evade the accountability of your role!!!! THIS IS WHY NONE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WORK!!!!! YOU REFUSE TO DO OR EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR PRIMARY ROLE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WILL NEVER WORK PROPERLY IF YOU REFUSE TO HAVE THE RIGHT ATTITUDE AND ACT THE WAY THE WORD OF GOD TELLS YOU TO ACT the only reason i wanted to post this is because i feel like i see things like this a lot with women where they do things like what is described in the video... but when i say it, i'm a crazy woman-hater to everyone.. but when i saw this on youtube (presented by a woman) it has almost all 'likes' and thumbs ups so my thing is, why is it that if the pool boy says women should seek to be wives and not baby mamas then he is a villain but if a woman says it then she is some type of hero i mean really.. i'm tired of peeps shooting the messenger here
nothing i have said about women has been with the intent to harm, instead it is with the intent to expose and hopefully uproot (the negative things i see in our feminized society) These are all old posts from 2016 that I never posted until today
+++++++++++++++ a few years ago i did a song called "a thin line" and in the song i talked about how i was into a woman but she was driving me nuts in the chorus my conclusion was "i only hate you because i love you" its crazy because i wrote that song in like 10 minutes but it rings very true... it basically sums up my thoughts toward women today as a whole i realized i don't really hate them... i mean i do- but its only because i love them my hatred is not from a place of malice, its from a place of caring if i honestly hated women, i would use them and promise them a lot and then bang them and stop calling them.. do u see me doing that? a guy at my job literally said his motto was: "bang as many women as you can, just don't give them your last name" i am a square so i was like "why not give them your last name?" and he said "so if you get them pregnant they can't track you down" imo.. THAT is a person who truly has a disregard for women my qualms with women are like "why don't u make better decisions?" type of things i'm like your dad being angry at you for being out all night type of angry i also have a sort of indignation in my stance because i feel like there should be someone here to choose from for a brotha, but there isn't... THERE JUST ISN'T.. and part of me is happy because it frees me to pursue other things without the responsibility of a woman in my life, but another part of me just thinks its sad that women are so useless my hatred comes from disappointment in women i might really be admiring a girl for a little while before i decide to talk to her, i might really be feeling her a lot but they just never "show up" they never answer their phone they never have the right attitude they never respond to you in any kind of respectful manner they are never "willing" they are never just going with the flow they are just not there for us men anymore +++++++++++++++ i feel that women have a misconception that guys who get a lot of women are better than men who don't the problem with this is.. ok take my mom for example she said when she met my dad he didn't have swag but my parents are still married.. my dad worked his whole life and did real manly things like chop wood, fix cars, beat the sh*t out of m... i mean.. discipline the kids.. i mean he did what he was supposed to do meanwhile all the women who chased the guys with all the swag are all single today because those men cheat and play games i'm not saying this 100% across the board i'm just saying this assumption that women seem to have about men who are in high demand being the best pick is not always legit +++++++++++++++ have you ever noticed when you are trying to lose weight someone will call you fat or when you are trying to get a job someone will say you're a bum or when you are trying to be nice someone will say you're mean or when you are trying to get out more, someone will say you are a loner who stays in the house what is that about? like right when you are trying to do better- thats when you receive criticism it seems +++++++++++++++ here is something i've noticed about women they always assume the worst in any social situation for example one day at work a woman said "disney has been making movies since i was a kid" and i said "yeah they've been making movies for a long time" and she said "thanks" meaning she was assuming i was making a comment about her age women really take this stuff too far.. here i am trying to just be agreeable and you take offense to what i say i mean this type of thing happens ALL THE TIME with women.. they are always thinking you are trying to diss them or slight them.. i remember one day at work some people didn't tell a girl ONE THING and she concluded: "i think people are plotting on me, i don't know if its because i'm a woman or what" and she actually started crying is this what being “sensitive” means? playing the victim? making mountains out of molehills? even if someone does slight you- who cares when God is in control of your destiny not a person with a negative opinion of you +++++++++++++++ someone told me if i change what i say about women then i will be able to meet good women if i say women are useless and worthless then to me that's just me saying what's in reality i don't think all women are useless, just most of them.. i think most women in our society are trash.. and i lament that fact.. i'm not happy about it but what can you do when you realize women don't listen to men anymore? what can u do but get upset when you realize women don't want to change or do better if u tell a woman anything these days all she will do is try to bicker with you or shame you or give you a tongue lashing.. she isn't going to listen to you she isn't going to say "you're right- maybe i shouldn't get anymore abortions" or "you're right, i should respect men and not emasculate them" or "you're right, maybe i shouldn't keep spreading my legs for diff men, maybe i should be with someone who is God-fearing" women are brainwashed by 40yrs of feminism.. not only in classrooms and in activism, but also in everyday life.. like tv itself is feminist these days.. advertisements are feminist, colleges are feminist, etc.. its everywhere.. even politics are largely driven by the feminist agenda.. no one wins an election by championing men's rights or trying to help push men into leadership positions our world is backwards to where women are taught to be men and men are stripped of their identities and roles and what's crazy about it is women are made to be the least happy in the equation, because men largely want sex.. which men can now get without commitment/responsibility thanks in large part to feminism women are the ones being destroyed by their own autonomy lol.. they are the ones either not having kids at all, or having kids outside of marriage and just doing it on their own.. they are the ones suffering the most as for me? for a guy like me who wants a wife in this climate.. its like asking to see a unicorn in real life.. and people wonder why i lash out at women smh.. cuz i don't want a netflix and chill, or a friend with benefits, or a no strings attached, or a pump and dump.. I WANT A WIFE which seems nonexistent even many christian women today have feminist views and complain about their gender roles.. making themselves worthless to a traditional male who wants to actually hold a woman in a high regard this seems a little overdue however i definitely want to speak on it
as many of you know, i started back to school in january of this year to begin the masters degree program in the past, after undergrad i said i would never go back to school.. but things have changed over time so i want to explain my reasons for going back 1. changing thoughts: the first inkling i had concerning going back was just a small thought that popped in my head.. i suppose this is what people call the "still, small voice" maybe.. meaning it was just a thought that would cross my mind but it wasn't exactly huge, it was just like a "hey why not?" or a "would it really be so bad?" type thing it wasn't eating away at me or anything, it was just a thought that would hit me here and there 2. my job went down the tubes: in 2015 my job went down the drain.. i was working in the solutions center, which later became the contact center.. the job function was the same but everything surrounding the job changed right along with that name change there was new management, people were getting fired left and right, people were quitting, they were trying to coerce people into quitting, there were more restrictions, a lot of stupid changes happened too like for example, instead of using the phone receiver- we had to begin using headsets but people couldn't really hear you on the headsets so you would have to repeat yourself a lot and it was frustrating to the people on the other end.. i actually got in trouble for using the receiver when i wasn't supposed to.. but i was just doing it so the conversations would run smoother also we had to have tons of meetings.. many of which only consisted of threats and/or criticism.. the job just went completely downhill they were changing things constantly so it was like no matter what happened you would forget something, because- "oh we're not doing that this week, that was last week, this week we're doing this" .. so you were fighting with the people on the phone, and management and getting stress from all sides one day after a meeting that felt more like a roast on me- i was on the verge of quitting so i walked out into the parking lot and called my mom to see what she would say she didn't really say too much that helped me but i feel like she must've prayed or something because not long after that- i ended up getting put on this project where i only got like 2 to 4 calls a day.. imagine going from like 45-75 calls, to literally like 2.. and all the calls i got i actually HAD TO TRANSFER.. so i would answer the phone, and transfer a call and that would be my entire day... sometimes i wouldn't get any calls this cut out all the meetings, criticism, and everything for me.. i would just literally go to work, goof off for 8 hours and go home.. this went on for months until i got hired in the department i'm in right now which is appeals when i finally got taken off that project (it was called project constellation), then i had to take regular calls again.. but i literally only had to take regular calls again for one week because i got hired in appeals.. so that whole week didn't even bother me i remember they were going around the table at a meeting one day and i knew my last day was coming up but i'm a low key person so i didn't tell anyone.. but i took time off for my last two days and they came around to me and they were like "james what are you going to do to do better this week?" and i was like "well i have pto the rest of this week" and everyone busted out laughing.. i guess i answered the question a little too specifically i just said a lot there, but my whole point was just to say my job went downhill from like january 2015 to about may or june 2015 and that made school look a lot better.. so those thoughts i was having about going back to school became more real during that time even though i ended up on project constellation for a long time with only like 0 to 4 calls per day.. and then getting a job in a totally different department- the thoughts of school were pretty much solidified already due to the horrible treatment in the contact center, primarily because i became aware that i didn't have much "leverage" in life 3. jobs are not exactly always easy to get: when i was dealing with the contact center crap, i started looking for a different job and i got turned down A LOT this made school look even better its like some girl said "without work i have no present, without school i have no future" ...while i probably wouldn't put it quite like that- i think that quote does make some sense i wanted to be able to think i had a future but it was becoming hard to think that when getting turned down by so many jobs also seeing the HR departments in many jobs caused me to see......... let's just say the demographics are a little unbalanced school was beginning to look like a vacation from a lot of my issues 4. i was getting rejected by a lot of women: when i say rejected, i mean women not wanting anything to do with me really at all.. just to give one example, i remember in 2015 i went to some girl's house to meet her for the first time and she treated me really bad.. she didn't really talk to me she kept walking around and answering her phone and doing a bunch of stupid stuff.. so when i left it was really weird like we hadn't really talked the whole time i was there it was just things like that- where i try to put myself out there but i would be rejected in some sort of new creative and cruel way.. these types of things happened pretty much every time i tried to talk to a female in 2015.. and this was yet another thing that lead me to want to go to school, because i got to a point where i was so mad at women that i just wanted something to get my mind off of them if school is good for one thing, i will say it is good at getting your mind off of other things because u have to keep up with the homework and tests or whatever.. so school began to look like a great alternative to being angry and disgruntled all the time when i get bored or when i have enough time to notice i'm alone, i notice i always end up reaching out to women for their time and attention.. but that gets old when all it does is backfire i remember one day when i was sort of procrastinating about finishing the forms for school, i was texting a girl i said to myself "if this girl doesn't go out with me then i'm going to go extra hard on these forms and just focus on getting back in school 100%" so we were texting back and forth and i said to her, hey i want to take you out somewhere, would you like to chill with me? and i kid you not, i have not heard from her since think about how demoralizing that is.. to be legit having a good conversation with someone in text, and as soon as you ask to see them in person they stop speaking i felt so insulted that i had enough and i just said ok.. school it is so i made good on my promise to myself and i went extra hard on making sure i got all my holds lifted.. i also had to make sure i emailed all my medical records, and i had to get on top of registration, etc 5. in general you look around and see that life isn't exactly going easy on black males in the united states i suppose i feel that we may not have the luxury of turning our nose up at opportunities for advancement we kinda need to grab whatever we can for leverage in american society not saying school is the end all be all.. but it can at least buy you some time or possibly get you some leverage for a job modern women are stupid whores and they don't want to submit the bible says, men love, women submit.. but modern women don't want to submit.. they want to share the masculine role THEY ARE STUPID WHORES AND WHEN THEY SAY THEY WANT TO BE INDEPENDENT, THEY ARE BASICALLY SAYING THEY WANT TO BE SINGLE SO MY ADVICE TO ALL MEN IS LEAVE THESE FILTHY SKANKS... LEAVE THEM.. ABSOLUTELY 100% LEAVE THESE DUMB SKANKS... LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM LEAVE THEM!!!!!!!!! if you don't want to watch the whole thing, the important part starts at 1:45 |
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