lately i have given some thought to the things people come with in the arena of relationships
i am currently single but i think- if i ever get a girl/wife would she come with problems? or would she come with blessings? if you think about it- you could marry someone and inherit debts or problems, or you could marry someone who blesses you right out of a deficit or further enhances/brightens your world with some sort of benefit its like people aren't really just people- they come with things that surround them family friends finances these are just three quick examples of things u will likely "inherit" that are outside of the spouse themselves you could marry a girl and then she might divulge that she has a stalker ex who hates your existence and has you on a hit list or you could marry a girl and her rich parents could buy you and her daughter a house as men i feel like we typically only look at the woman but hopefully whatever surrounds that woman is a blessing to your life and not a hindrance
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feminism came to divide homes, destabilize the american family, take kids from mothers, take wives from husbands, and create wide gaps between men and women where none previously existed
one thing i've noticed about it is it came for the women.. no foreign ideologies ever came for the men when u look in genesis in the bible, you can see the serpent went to eve to deceive her and then she gave the apple to adam and he ate if the enemy wants to get to men- he will attempt to reach us through what we love- and that is our women feminism got our women and now the decision is coming to men on how we will react are we as men going to make the wrong decisions because our influential counterparts are defiant and making wrong decisions? or are we going to do what we are supposed to do without regard to the folly of women? i am gladdened to be able to say i feel that many of us men today are living the right way regardless of women we as men today have lost something in losing our women.. we lost a lot of the "wind beneath our wings" if you will.. we lost a lot of our motivation and drive we lost a lot of our personal happiness and emotional stability and confidence feminism has robbed us of our women and as a result- everything i just listed is in much shorter supply for us men today than it was for our dads and granddads but we have to be strong, we can't allow our rotten women to cause us to lose hope.. we can't be 'adams' in the garden of eden.. we have to be better than him we have to be true leaders when eve hands us that apple we have refuse it and tell her she's on her own we have to see our rotten women who have betrayed us and broken our hearts and we have to carry on mightily we have to allow them to dig their own graves as much as we want to be there for them and be with them and try to be a positive force in their lives- we have to just let these notions go because after 40 years of being brainwashed by feminism, there is no point we have to watch them destroy themselves and make conscious efforts not to ever join them if they want to be promiscuous, and have abortions, and disrespect men, and emasculate men, and party, and be cougars, and put career over family, and be with thugs, and live fruitless and vain lives, and overall refuse to operate in their allotted roles- then we as men have to just allow it no matter what, we cannot step outside of our rightful place as leaders.. even without followers WE MUST ALWAYS ACT AS LEADERS so men, when you are wishing you had a woman by your side but you see them all living in folly take a deep breath but not as a sigh of hardship let it be your second wind you are a leader and you will win... no matter the circumstances- you will win this woman says if she gets out of line she wants a man to choke her.. see this is what i mean when i say women need to reevaluate what they call strength in a man
STRENGTH IS MORE ABOUT CHARACTER THAN ANYTHING ELSE like take david from the bible.. he was the smallest of his brothers but he ended up defeating a goliath and becoming king women's view of men is very warped today.. a woman like this one on the video will probably just get passed around from man to man because she is out of line with some of her thinking what man wants to play the dominance game with you? this is a problem i see with women a lot.. men are not called to dominate women, women are called to submit to men, meaning you as a woman should be with a man whom you can trust and respect.. you're not supposed to seek out a man who is ready to choke you and cuss you out and punch you in the face, idiot women and their rape fantasies have ruined chivalry women always wonder why men are no longer chivalrous- its because women don't allow it what do you guys think of people who have sex out of wedlock?
see- to me these people are fooling themselves because they think they can just have their fun without consequences but when it catches up to them they will be thinking "it wasn't worth it" one of the worst problems that comes with fornication is the whole "single woman with kids by multiple fathers" thing i am not saying these women can't find men in their lives- because there's an exception to every rule.. but the problem with it is that for the most part, men don't want you after that has become your life if you become a woman with kids by diff men then you as a woman will be WISHING you dated that "nerdy guy" as opposed to the guy who all the other women wanted and see this is a thing i will prob tell my daughter if i ever have one, and that is the fact that men don't view options the same way women do.. women can have options and remain loyal.. their thinking is like "my options are what prove my love, if i didn't have options i would be forced to be here with you" so to women its like options are a normal part of the way they express love however men don't really see it that way.. men get options and say "its time to party" LOL you can see this in nba players and rappers or any super successful type of guy one thing i've been wanting to say for a while is i see women man-shopping a lot.. man-shopping is a term i made up for when women see a guy they like and they try to bring him home and she doesn't see the totality of who the man is any man can see that man-shopping is superficial.. the problem is that women don't see it like let me give a real life example of when i saw man shopping ok one day at church a pretty girl brought a guy with her.. he was muscular and tall and had dreads.. there's nothing wrong with these things, but as a man i was able to see she had been man-shopping because he didn't seem too engaged into the message, and also he only came to church ONCE this is what i mean when i say man-shopping, they are going out and getting someone they think is handsome, or someone who will make other women envy them.. but they are leaving out things like CHARACTER, LOYALTY, WALK WITH THE LORD, sometimes they will even leave out earning potential, just to have a guy who looks the part women who man-shop only see one side of an equation.. they only see what they want, but they never see the things they need.. they see the sweet taste but they don't see the missing vitamins and nutrients that a well rounded man would bring into their life i can always tell when a woman has been man-shopping because the guy will typically look like some sort of male model.. he'll be taller than normal, more muscular than normal, he will have dreads or a fancy haircut, he will have a deeper voice than normal, etc etc and again- there is nothing wrong with these things- but women aren't understanding that these men A. may not have the substance they need and B. typically have a lot of options and C. are not used to being told no.. so the chances of him REQUIRING any woman involved with him to fornicate are very high..... thus the chances of her ending up becoming a baby mama or having an abortion are pretty high so what i've seen a lot in life is this situation where women go out man-shopping and they find what they want.. but that man is just a trap from the enemy the enemy sent you what you wanted as a woman and now you have to deal with the consequences of your actions with that person.. you put their presence in your life over your own conscience and morals.. you were in shape but now you're pregnant and fat, or you have an abortion and it bothers your conscience, or you end up ruining a relationship with a man who actually was marriage material, or you end up having kids by diff men.. which (even in our crazy and depraved 2016) is still pretty shameful... or you may end up with an std that won't go away like herpes.. and you meet people and you love them and you even have sex with them, but you just can't bring yourself to admit to them that you have or may have given them what you have.. you just try to pretend like everything's all good for as long as you can because you can't bear the thought of people leaving you over something you can no longer change just because a man has muscles, that doesn't mean he is strong.. just because a man is tall doesn't mean he is fearless, just because a man dresses well doesn't mean he is well-adjusted and i'm not saying any of this to bash anyone.. its just that i have seen these things transpire with my own eyes let me put it like this.. i want any woman who may be reading this to really pay attention here say you meet a man who is 6'4 and he can benchpress a lot of weight.. say you two begin having sex and one day you realize you're pregnant.. so you call your big strong handsome man up and say you're pregnant if his solution is to drive you to the abortion clinic- tell me... does he still seem strong to you? my point is many women today need to reevaluate what they deem to be strength in a man 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8New International Version (NIV)
3 It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body[a] in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God; 6 and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.[b] The Lord will punish all those who commit such sins, as we told you and warned you before. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. 8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit. |
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