this is a powerful message wow! i peeped this video last night and i actually feel like it opened my eyes to some things i legit want to take heed
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i'm really looking forward to e3 this year
i definitely feel that sony has it in the bag nintendo has become a joke microsoft hasn't proved that it can make a great new ip... quantum break was their last big game and it wasn't the blockbuster x-bots wanted it to be i think microsoft is in a TERRIBLE position right now actually because they put out 3 or 4 forza games already.. they also put out the gears remake, the halo remake (mcc), and they put out halo 5, and they had the timed tomb raider none of that really worked out but those are all of their "big guns" ....what i mean is- its like they used all their ammo and now they are trying to throw punches meanwhile sony got the rocket launcher locked and loaded anyway.. just wanted to speak on e3.. i'm hyped i was talking to a female friend the other day and i knew she went to a bachelorette party in vegas so i asked her how it went
she said it was good i was like "what do women do at those?" she said they went to a club, then they went to a strip club and i was like.. "you went to a strip club?" and she was like "yeah it was fun i got a lapdance" i was like "you like those muscular guys all over u?" she's like "yeah it was fun" then i changed the subject ok see here's the problem men's strip clubs (where women strip) are hands off and things like that however women's strip clubs (from what i hear) are crazy because given the dynamic, both sides are willing to push boundaries women are willing to do things and let things "stay in vegas" and men are definitely up for whatever as that's pretty much our nature when it comes to women also when you add alcohol into the mix who knows what goes on out there so hearing that a woman who i consider a friend went to a strip club is not something i want to hear.. it is very umm.. disappointing sometimes you want to see the best in women but they go out and do something that makes you view them in a diff light i am not saying this like i am perfect or anything because i def have issues.. but its just something i wanted to talk about i guess its good for me to hear this stuff because its a reminder to me that all of us men have to make sure we don't disappoint the Lord the same way women typically disappoint us we must commit ourselves to righteousness so that He doesn't view us the way we view some of these women i was talking to a girl the other day and she came off to me like every other modern day female we see today
i asked her about her dating life and she said she lived with a guy for 3 years recently, then right after him she was with another guy for 6 months she is 31 and single with no kids she is a boss at her job and she explained she has a no-nonsense type of attitude she works for a church basically here are my issues with the things she told me 1. she mentioned men being "controlling" a few times during our conversation ok i want to speak on this.. to me when i hear stuff like this then i begin to understand why she is pretty, 31, and single.. if she was ugly it would be diff.. but she's really pretty ok so when a woman is talking about men being controlling, she might as well be saying "i don't want to listen" or "i am not submissive" or "i want to be with you and still do my own thing" or "i have been with so many guys before you that i don't have it in me to trust a man" or "our relationship is 50/50" ... in other words its not man and woman- it is partner and partner.. in other words there is no diff between he and she in her eyes.. in other words- the man is not the man 100% of the time if he is in a relationship with her .. the list could go on these things are a problem.. you think because you are a boss at your job that you should be able to boss your husband as well .. this is what her problem is.. i feel that what is making her talk about "controlling men" is her independent spirit.. a woman who is malleable or flexible or submissive would probably not talk about how men are controlling multiple times in a conversation that's not even about that so i was able to tell- its not the men, its her, she does not want to abide in her role as a female and men sense it and they don't like it the independent spirit that women tout today is the same thing that keeps them single.. like one girl i know argues with every guy she dates.. she doesn't realize men don't like that.. it makes men feel like u don't trust them or something.. since men are natural born leaders, its not something men take lightly.. to explain it to any women who may be reading let me say this.. when a woman is being contentious and disagreeable and quarrelsome with a man.. it has the same effect as a man calling a woman ugly.. its the simplest way to make that person want to get away from you.. men want WOMEN not men in women costumes.. i tried to explain this to her but its nearly impossible to break through the societal feminist rhetoric women have picked up through media's brainwashing women are just gone these days.. they don't listen anymore at all so that was number one... talking about "controlling men" just showed me her masculine independent "don't tell me what to do" attitude and another thing- during our conversation she made a comment like "we're not married i don't have to do what u say" or "we're not married you can't control me" (talking about one of her ex's) ok i want to speak on this.. i feel its a stupid thing to say in any relationship prior to marriage, you want to demonstrate your ability to live up to your allotted role so what she said would be like me saying "we're not married yet so i don't have to pay for my girl's dinner" or "we're not married yet so i don't have to give my girl a compliment" like that refusal to do anything role-oriented is keeping her single.. what i think is happening is men are seeing that she's not going with the flow.. she is being contentious or argumentative, or doing things like rolling her eyes or whatever and these men are writing her off as not wife material she needs to show important feminine qualities to men to be taken seriously.. i wish women would stop being so stupid in this area.. what guy is going to be like "yeah she disagrees with everything i say now- but when i marry her she will ride with me!" guys are just going to cut you loose so u can find someone you act like you respect.. BUT WOMEN DONT ACT LIKE THEY RESPECT MEN PERIOD!!!! that's the trap they have themselves caged in today! thus perpetual singlehood for all of these misguided women 2. she said the guy she lived with for 3 years left her and his new chick was a downgrade from her.. and so because of this, she feels like she "won" because he made a stupid decision.. because she "made his life way better" while they were together this is another red flag here are the reasons why this is a red flag A. this tells me she doesn't truly understand WHY he left her.. she thinks she was the perfect girlfriend.. this is a common thing among modern women.. they are successful at the wrong things and so they feel they are a great spouse, but they are a TERRIBLE one because they overlook the things that are actually important to men and excel in the things that don't matter to men at all... if the guy was willing to "downgrade" that means the "downgrade" is offering something a man actually wants that she isn't offering B. she is in pride.. like most modern women today.. she believes she is a great catch... YOU ARE NOT THE JUDGE OF THAT.. MEN ARE... i could say "hey i'm a great man because i do this this and this.." but if women don't care about "this this and this" then can i say i'm a great catch to women? i wish women understood this simple concept you don't set your value to the opposite sex.. you must look at yourself through the opposing sex's lenses to get the full picture women are always saying they are great because they went to college or because they have a career.. that's fine but those things aren't building your value to men AT ALL 3. if you work at, and attend a church.. why are you openly fornicating? even without the church thing.. just from a logical standpoint.. if you want to be married.. why are you wasting time shacking up? you are not getting anything you want out of this scenario.. you are just wasting time she even mentioned on the phone that they went half on the rent to me its like as a woman you might as well have lived on your own.. that man is not covering you.. you have no benefits.. you move in with a guy- give him sex and pay half his rent for 3 years as a 31yr old woman who wants marriage and children.. do u honestly think that's smart? so those were some of the main things she said that i thought were ridiculous she reminded me of pretty much 80% of the women out there today they are just waaayyy off in their assessments and thought processes there was actually more to pick apart but i'm going to leave it alone ok peeps.. holla back at the kid |
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