wake up! Posted by poolboyjames on July 2, 2009 at 3:44 PM comments (0)one thing that bothers me is when couples stay together in dumb circumstances
like i was watching dr phil and this guy was married to this chick or whatever and she was telling him the following: "ur no good in bed" "i've been with other men and it's been great" (sometimes citing specific instances) "ur a loser" "you're stupid" "my marriage to u was a mistake and i want a divorce" "get out" i try to stay bible minded so obviously divorce isn't something that i think is desirable in most circumstances, but i'm saying like.. ok what else could she do to this guy? like what are u trying to save or salvage? she doesn't respect you and she said she wants a divorce to me she has not only crossed the line but she has obliterated the line like, what is wrong with that guy? why is he putting up with this sort of thing? they said they were together for 5 yrs but married for 4 months, so why did he marry her in the first place? if they've been arguing and fighting for 5 yrs why marry her? my thing as a guy is, if a girl doesn't respect u then leave her alone, end of story.. don't call her, don't be her friend, nothing, just end it.. she no longer exists why stay around and get abused? u may think she is so pretty but turn on any rap video and u will see that pretty girls are really a dime a dozen i just don't get it.. like why do people complain about their relationships so much, like the entire reason for a relationship is to add value and good things to your life so if the bad outweighs the good then why are u with that person? and then with women u have it too u have women like "he beat me but i'm still with him" WHY? and why do people try to act so innocent when their spouse does something crazy? u saw the warning signs from the beginning! like males for example, if ur girl doesn't respect u its just a matter of time before she cheats on you and the pain makes u want to literally kill someone cut it off as soon as she makes some emasculating comment or as soon as you notice her dishonesty, or as soon as she starts playing her little games females, if a guy is calling you names he is doing that in an effort to control and manipulate you.. this is eventually going to elevate and u will probably be hit at some point, which can lead to him killing you in extreme circumstances just cut it off at the beginning "oh i'm an ugly b*tch? then u must not want my company then huh? peace." i just feel like people sometimes need to use foresight why be a victim of a relationship? why allow a gift to become a curse? like yeah sometimes relationships may take some effort but if there's no trust, or respect, or if there's name-calling, etc. etc. .. certain things are just deal-breakers! get a clue! don't call your friend and complain about ur spouse for three hours.. grow a backbone and move on respect yourself
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JaimsThese are my blogs from 2009. I started them in May of that year when I couldn't work on music but still needed a way to express myself. Archives
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